Posted by: Mike D Halo King
Posted by: ash55
I understand how private groups may look on the outside. However, it's often the case that "outsiders" aren't the reason for closed membership. It's the nature of the people on the inside that require more privacy.
I'm antisocial so I like talking with my friends about things I know we have in common. It's a lot more "comfy" talking to people who know you inside-out and vice versa. That's what a group should be about, talking with your friends and having a good time. Winding eachother up etc.
You tend to get a lot more trouble and drama in open groups, and I'm not really a fan for it. A lot of strangers won't "get" you. A lot of people have conflicting personalities etc. That's often a good thing to continue a discussion, but if you can find a balance between conflicting opinion and and trust/friendship, then you have a good group (and I wouldn't mess that up by opening it).
oh, so thats why you turned down my group invite.
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Not here mike...