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I'm not exactly sure why I'm ranting here, maybe I just need to get something off my chest. I know not a single person in here is going to care, but my therapist said it would do me alot of good so here it is:

I've got a beautiful, smart, caring, girlfriend. We've been together for pretty much 6 months. She's friends with all my friends and vice-versa so its all good when we're together in big groups. Some of my friends she gets along better with others. And some other ones just flat out get on her nerves, by others I mean only one. And he gets on our nerves even more so. This kid who gets on my nerves is annoying because he seems to have one of those parents both died innocent victum routine. and he seems to think that it makes him superior to other people (i.e. me) mainly because he gets better grades and is alot stronger then any of us. I've always suspected that he's had a crush on my girlfriend. But recently its been getting out of hand. He knows perfectly well that we've are together, yet secretly he has been making some passes at her thinking that she won't tell anyone (Indirectly saying he loves her, asking if she loves him and what kind of love, telling her how beautiful she is, he even gave her a note saying how much she changed his life and what that means to him) of course she comes and runs to tell me right away saying its "creepy". I can't understand what he is trying to pull from this. Everyone knows that the only reason my girlfriend tolerates him is because she is too nice to be mean. And why would this sonofa-blam!- try to take her from me an ruin a friendship of 13 years? (after 13 years of knowing someone you'll become friends). I'm not afraid of losing her. I know she would never go to him (and if you knew my friend you would understand) But it just bothers me so much knowing that a friend is doing all he can to score with my girlfriend, and because I'm not supposed to know about it let alone talk to him about it, i just have to sit an wait.

Thats really it, if anyone does comment, no flames please, they really are kind of pointless and if you dont care about this post, don't comment. This was probably more for me then anyone else

  • 11.27.2004 7:46 AM PDT
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Man I wish I could do that, any time I've had a girlfriend and she hangs out with a guy I get suspicious...the one time I wasn't she was cheating on me...so that never helped...

  • 11.27.2004 8:22 AM PDT
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I think you should talk to the guy and ask him to stop hitting on your girlfriend, and if he doesn't shoot him j/k

  • 11.27.2004 8:42 AM PDT
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you need to wake up and realize that you arrent bulletproof either. she is not telling him to stop so she must like the attention ,even if she is telling you its creepy( what else would she tell you , Hello ?). if you really care for her and want to find out how much she really cares for you then you need to confront the problem head on by all 3 of you talking about it at the same time keeping nothing hidden, even if she says no , if she does say no , she might like the attention more than she is telling you , and who knows where that will lead ? . Be the better man dont pick a fight , you said he is a big dude , but if he starts crap with you dont back down, stand up for your girl even if you take a whoopin. "honor in defeat is better than no honor at all"
Find out where your friendship really stands between both of them, just remember to think before you speak ,keep nothing hidden and only defend what you know is truly yours.

Sitting and waiting will resolve nothing, wake up!

[Edited on 11/27/2004 9:22:57 AM]

  • 11.27.2004 9:08 AM PDT
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Thank you Heft, that makes sense and I think i'll do it, but i did forget to mention that she did tell him to stop. and if you knew this kid, you wouldnt want attention from him either lol

  • 11.27.2004 7:20 PM PDT
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I dont like to get emotionally attached to another person. They always hurt me in the end...

  • 11.27.2004 7:31 PM PDT
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better to have loved an lost then never to have loved at all

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This is what I would do. Your girl friend has already asked him to stop so have a talk with him and be ........persuasive. Don't hit him or anything but make it clear that your not going to take that kind of crap. If he does attack you just remember that stregnth alone is not enough to win a fight. Speed and technique are much more important. He can't hurt you if he can't touch you.......

  • 11.27.2004 8:23 PM PDT

Devil is Double is Deuce and Joker always trumps Deuce.

Posted by: Knives1288
better to have loved an lost then never to have loved at all


Oh yeah? Try it.



P.S. Tell your friend to piss off. That's what I learned the hard way.

  • 11.27.2004 8:25 PM PDT
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Posted by: MCs Brother
Posted by: Knives1288
better to have loved an lost then never to have loved at all


Oh yeah? Try it.



P.S. Tell your friend to piss off. That's what I learned the hard way.


Amen to that.

  • 11.27.2004 8:29 PM PDT
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I have tried it, it hurts yea, i know. BIG TIME, but I still regret nothing

  • 11.27.2004 8:37 PM PDT

yoo•zel- ('yoo-zhul): slang: vb.

Officium quod Fidelitas.

Give me an Address and I'll take care of everything. They don't call us Ninjas for nothing. =)


But anyway... you have two options: A) Cold sholder him until he gets the point or B) Tell him flat out. Don't put up with his crap, I would have clocked him by now.

  • 11.27.2004 11:05 PM PDT
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Actually, I've had this happen to me before.

Punch him. See, he's in a Freudian fantasy. It's a sign showing that he deeply mistrusts you, and thinks that you have betrayed him. Even if you haven't, he's convinced himself that you've wronged him. So, punch him. He's really not your friend anymore, and is just using you to get closer to YOUR girlfriend.

[Edited on 11/27/2004 11:23:24 PM]

  • 11.27.2004 11:21 PM PDT

Devil is Double is Deuce and Joker always trumps Deuce.

Like Yoozel said, clock him. Establish your dominance. Don't let the little bastard harrass your girl.

  • 11.27.2004 11:24 PM PDT
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Posted by: Twitch666
actually you say he's bigger than you...well do what I'd do...be really passive aggressive...


Oh, so that's what you do.

I can see how someone such as yourself would be suited to that...

:-)

Passive aggressive stances are 4w3Xom3.

  • 11.27.2004 11:27 PM PDT

Devil is Double is Deuce and Joker always trumps Deuce.

Posted by: Twitch666
remember hes bigger..



Not if you trip his legs out from underneath him.

  • 11.27.2004 11:30 PM PDT

Devil is Double is Deuce and Joker always trumps Deuce.

Posted by: Twitch666
or embarrass him in front of the girls by saying stuff he can't prove wrong like you always catch him looking at your ass in the bathroom and have some of your friends say that they've noticed him do that too


That won't matter. He's already told the girl he loves her. Staring at her ass is implied. I still say the best thing to do is deck him. Uppercut right behind the jawbone.

  • 11.27.2004 11:36 PM PDT
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He meant staring at Knive's ass.

[Edited on 11/27/2004 11:40:52 PM]

  • 11.27.2004 11:38 PM PDT

Devil is Double is Deuce and Joker always trumps Deuce.

Posted by: TRUE BEAST
He meant staring at Knives ass.


Oh. Still wouldn't do much, but it would be funny.

  • 11.27.2004 11:39 PM PDT

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