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Subject: SUCKIEST CHRISTMAS EVER ( sorry if it has no relationship to halo)
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Posted by: Pink Menace
It hurts me to see that you included "I will NOT be getting Xbox live for Christmas". How can you even say that in the same day?


I was thinking the same thing Pink. The fact that you mentioned xbox live in the same paragraph with the deaths of loved ones makes me wonder where you true feelings lie; your stuff, or your family?

Anyway, sorry to flame you, man. I do know what it's like to lose someone you love, because my grandpa died on Christmas day several years ago. I hope you manage to find some way to enjoy your holiday, despite your loss.

  • 12.24.2004 11:52 AM PDT
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i don't feel sorry for you. I am sorry for your loss. it is really sad to hear this. Ignore the jerks.

  • 12.24.2004 1:13 PM PDT
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Posted by: Mr Pocketses
what do you want from us?
pity?
pity from a bunch of random people on the internet?

go stand in front of a store with a cup and yell:"My grandpa died and I didnt get xbox live for christmas!!! give me money!!!"

that, is very sad.


God forbid if your family member dies, don't expect anyone mature here to help you.

  • 12.24.2004 1:16 PM PDT
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my grandma died on my 11th birthday :(

  • 12.24.2004 1:44 PM PDT
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Posted by: Blondiebabe412
to all the jerks who have posted before.....maybe if the same thing happened to you...you wouldn't be telling him to grow up


Don't assume our lives have been easier. I told him to grow up because he was dwelling on things that, in reality, aren't that bad. Sometimes it takes someone who's brutally honest to get you out of self-pity mode, which is a rediculously selfish state of mind.

The main thing that set me off, that really got me about his selfish outlook, was the statement "suckiest christmas ever."

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Agreed. Don't automatically assume we've had super great lives. I've had family members die but I never went onto a forum to ask for people to console me, this si the kinda stuff someone does when they want attention.

  • 12.24.2004 2:16 PM PDT
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yeah realy and never say how many words your gonna be saying cause that boxes you in and makes you look like a retart
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Posted by: SpartanEliteyo
3 words: post it on a caring website! HALO IS ABOUT KILLING FTARD

A. If you only use the first sentence its six words, if you include the second its 10; wise up.
B. Asses such as yourself are not welcome here.

  • 12.24.2004 2:28 PM PDT
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Yeah, life sucks.

Posted by: gamingfreak200
yeah realy and never say how many words your gonna be saying cause that boxes you in and makes you look like a retart
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Posted by: SpartanEliteyo
3 words: post it on a caring website! HALO IS ABOUT KILLING FTARD

A. If you only use the first sentence its six words, if you include the second its 10; wise up.
B. Asses such as yourself are not welcome here.


Gotta hate them retarts.

  • 12.24.2004 3:07 PM PDT
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Posted by: ObbiQuiet
Posted by: Blondiebabe412
to all the jerks who have posted before.....maybe if the same thing happened to you...you wouldn't be telling him to grow up


Don't assume our lives have been easier. I told him to grow up because he was dwelling on things that, in reality, aren't that bad. Sometimes it takes someone who's brutally honest to get you out of self-pity mode, which is a rediculously selfish state of mind.

The main thing that set me off, that really got me about his selfish outlook, was the statement "suckiest christmas ever."


Yeah, try saying that a moment of your life sucks to an African who has trouble accessing even the basic necessities of living.

People die. In the end, you'll only come out stronger from the events.

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Posted by: Halo_Legend854
The fact that my only grandpa died this september, and that i will NOT be getting live for christmas is the most saddening time of my life. I didn't think it could get any worse..

Well today, christmas eve, my parent's friend who is close to me died of heart attack.

a heart attack on christmas eve, killing him. Even worse Matt, his son, told my mom over the phone that he saw the whole thing, and that he was crying. He even punched his mirror he was so upset


somebody comfort me......


Hmm...I look at it like this. Whether you beleive in God or not, do you think that your dad's friend would want to see you sad and torn apart from his death if he were looking down on you from heaven/afterlife/whatever you beleive in that entails some kind of life after death? No! He'd want you to be happy and remember theh good times you had! Concentrate on those, and, if you're a person who does beleive in God and life after death and 'tings o' that sort, then also realize that he is in a better place right now. A place so beautiful the human mind cannot comprehend it.

But, it's much better to move on and remember the good things that happened instead of dwelling on the bad thing that happened. Yeah, it's really sad to have someone close to you die, but you'll get over it, life will go on, and before you know it you won't be saddened by the death anymore; you'll only remember the good times.

  • 12.24.2004 4:19 PM PDT
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I guess i feel sorry for you... don't see how that helps you much, though.

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i feel sorry for you man. My brother died of a -blam!- overdose over the summer so i know what its like to lose a loved one. You have my greatest sympathies.

  • 12.24.2004 6:38 PM PDT
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Although you shouldn't go into self pity and ask for people over the internet to help you, I do feel sorry for you. Obbi, your right, he shouldn't beat himself up over it since there was nothing he could have done about it. old age happens, people die when they get old, but I did expect a little more respect than I have seen from you guys. My uncle committed suicide awhile ago and I had no one to cheer me up, because no one felt very cheerful. It really does help to have people talk to you and try and give you condolences. So try to be a little more sensitive to his feelings if you could. It is Christmas after all.

[Edited on 12/24/2004 7:22:08 PM]

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