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Posted by: Ajentkay
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Most girls could care less how old the guy is. What matters is how old he acts ;).


Guys are done growing up by the time their in high school...


Gosh, I sure hope not :(.


I resent that, I had the responsibility of a 21 year old when I was 15. Everyone has their little quirks and 'kid-like mannerisms' it's just how a person sees them. I had an ex-girlfriend who would do that really annoying baby voice, and say some really stupid things but I didn't think of her as less mature for it. It's just a personality, live with it or don't.

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I can hook you up with one of my ex-girlfriend's. They were all the chicks in the pictures I posted, outside Jenna.

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thanks guys... funny I've had all these relatives to talk to about it but somehow coming from bungie fans makes me feel better. I've been trying to forget about her and move on but it's hard when you got all her stuff lying around your place (she's on vacation so it's not like I can give it back) and especially photographs of the two of us (which are all taken down and stacked at the bottom of a very large box of memories).

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I'm afraid of other people dying, not particularly myself though.

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im a 14 year old sophmore guy dating a 17 year old senior gurl. theres is nothing at all wrong with that, just means shes experienced, wink

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In a year it's also jail bait =D

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Posted by: ObbiQuiet
I can never appropriately form to words my feelings on death whenever the subject comes up.

To say it blatanly makes me sound in denial or trying to sound 'cool' or 'tough', and to explain it realistically renders me speachless.


This may sound illmoral but since my dog died when I was 15 and my all three of my rabbits one after the other, I kind of have been decensitised by death, it will happen no matter what you do, say, think. So I just don't think about it and get on with my life.

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Posted by: Abolitionofman

I resent that, I had the responsibility of a 21 year old when I was 15. Everyone has their little quirks and 'kid-like mannerisms' it's just how a person sees them. I had an ex-girlfriend who would do that really annoying baby voice, and say some really stupid things but I didn't think of her as less mature for it. It's just a personality, live with it or don't.


I did not mean to offend, some guys are just very immature at my highschool. I hope they grow out of it.

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I can never appropriately form to words my feelings on death whenever the subject comes up.

To say it blatanly makes me sound in denial or trying to sound 'cool' or 'tough', and to explain it realistically renders me speachless.


This may sound illmoral but since my dog died when I was 15 and my all three of my rabbits one after the other, I kind of have been decensitised by death, it will happen no matter what you do, say, think. So I just don't think about it and get on with my life.


Death will still get to you emotionally. Until you see family or close friends killed, you still haven't started to experiance the worst of death.

What you're talking about, though, was the first realistic stage of my views on death, though mine have changed even more.

When I first had an encounter with death I felt sad because I THOUGHT I should feel sad; and because I really wasn't. It took me a long time to realize this and to realize that nothing was wrong with me.

The only problem I had with death is that I never had a problem with it (not being dramatic, which I know is how it sounds - this is why I don't like talking about it, but I always give the impression I'm being a little drama whore).

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Posted by: Ajentkay
Posted by: Abolitionofman

I resent that, I had the responsibility of a 21 year old when I was 15. Everyone has their little quirks and 'kid-like mannerisms' it's just how a person sees them. I had an ex-girlfriend who would do that really annoying baby voice, and say some really stupid things but I didn't think of her as less mature for it. It's just a personality, live with it or don't.


I did not mean to offend, some guys are just very immature at my highschool. I hope they grow out of it.


You'd think they would, wouldn't you? :D

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A dramatic prostitute Obbi? Alright *dazed and confused* Empathy is a sin.

  • 07.06.2004 8:54 PM PDT

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Ajentkay you sounded very mature for your age and it's very true that girls mature quicker than guys do (mostly because of inevitable biological reasons), but keep in mind that not all guys are alike (and I've known a few women who acted pretty inexperienced, ridiculous and selfish too). When I was in high-school I cringed when guys made asses of themselves cause I felt they were ruining my chances and embarassing not only themselves but me too.

I think it's important to realize that mostly everybody does eventually grow up whether it's at age 15 or 50; a majority of people will at some point understand what the important things in life are.

[Edited on 7/6/2004 9:02:31 PM]

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I can never appropriately form to words my feelings on death whenever the subject comes up.

To say it blatanly makes me sound in denial or trying to sound 'cool' or 'tough', and to explain it realistically renders me speachless.


This may sound illmoral but since my dog died when I was 15 and my all three of my rabbits one after the other, I kind of have been decensitised by death, it will happen no matter what you do, say, think. So I just don't think about it and get on with my life.


Death will still get to you emotionally. Until you see family or close friends killed, you still haven't started to experiance the worst of death.

What you're talking about, though, was the first realistic stage of my views on death, though mine have changed even more.

When I first had an encounter with death I felt sad because I THOUGHT I should feel sad; and because I really wasn't. It took me a long time to realize this and to realize that nothing was wrong with me.

The only problem I had with death is that I never had a problem with it (not being dramatic, which I know is how it sounds - this is why I don't like talking about it, but I always give the impression I'm being a little drama whore).


I really did care alot for my pets, and still do. These discussions bring an unwelcoming sick feeling to my stomatch.

[Edited on 7/6/2004 8:58:41 PM]

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I understand a lot of guys are 'immature' but there are many many females as well, I'm sure the statistics are close to even. That's all.

I mean, I'm sure I'm not mature or anything because I'm crazy enough to do stuff where I could get killed.

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Sorry Doom Sticks, I had no intent of generalizing and I do not believe I did. I'm not saying all the guys act immature, just that a few still act like we're in the fourth grade and it will really hurt them later in life. 15-year-old guys still pulling my ponytail for some sort of satisfaction seems wrong to me. Yes, some guys mature at 13 and 14, but other ones obviously take a little longer.

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[quote]Posted by: Abolitionofman
I understand a lot of guys are 'immature' but there are many many females as well, I'm sure the statistics are close to even. That's all. quote]

That's very true. I agree with that completely. Lots of females in high school still don't understand the concept of sharing ;).

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Posted by: Ajentkay
Sorry Doom Sticks, I had no intent of generalizing and I do not believe I did. I'm not saying all the guys act immature, just that a few still act like we're in the fourth grade and it will really hurt them later in life. 15-year-old guys still pulling my ponytail for some sort of satisfaction seems wrong to me. Yes, some guys mature at 13 and 14, but other ones obviously take a little longer.
Amen to that, and I'm just like doomsticks in the aspect that i cringe when a guy starts being immature and starts to make himself look stupid...

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Well no need to apologize Ajentkay. I just wanted to say that I know what it;s like do deal with idiots in high-school and that eventually things get a little better.

I also thinks it's important to keep in mind (not you but everyone) that as long as you keep learning in life you never stop maturing.

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Posted by: J 117
[/quote] Amen to that, and I'm just like doomsticks in the aspect that i cringe when a guy starts being immature and starts to make himself look stupid...


I don't when girls act dumb. It only makes me look better ;).

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Posted by: Ajentkay
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[/quote] Amen to that, and I'm just like doomsticks in the aspect that i cringe when a guy starts being immature and starts to make himself look stupid...


I don't when girls act dumb. It only makes me look better ;).
Lol

  • 07.06.2004 9:07 PM PDT

I'll be on my own side.

hey im not immature am i Ajentkay??

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Posted by: Ajentkay
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That's very true. I agree with that completely. Lots of females in high school still don't understand the concept of sharing ;).


Explain that to the College girls who decidely come up and 'grab' me when they shouldn't thinking, like most people in college, that I'll 'put out'. It's ridiculous, but sharing only goes so far :-p. And, my girlfriend wouldn't appreciate me being shared nor would I. haha. 0_o

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hey im not immature am i Ajentkay??


That remains to be decided :).

  • 07.06.2004 9:10 PM PDT

I'll be on my own side.

awww thats not cool.

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Posted by: Abolitionofman
Explain that to the College girls who decidely come up and 'grab' me when they shouldn't thinking, like most people in college, that I'll 'put out'. It's ridiculous, but sharing only goes so far :-p. And, my girlfriend wouldn't appreciate me being shared nor would I. haha. 0_o


LOL, I can believe that one. Sorry if it gets uncomfortable. Just try explaining that you are committed to a relationship and you have no intent of endangering it.

  • 07.06.2004 9:12 PM PDT