- last post: 01.01.0001 12:00 AM PDT
Well it is a lot different atmosphere in Santa Cruz. It's literally a 'twlight zone' of sorts. We have those that are stand-offish, but there are many others who are not and are VERY willing to have many -blam!- encounters. I prefer the former (stand-offish), and I'm not so sure it's being a chick magnet so much as it is that I'm fairly introverted. I don't hit on girls because I don't have time/don't want to and I hardly EVER find many attractive (takes more than looks). The reason I'm dating my girlfriend of current is because she took the iniative and came after me. Regardless, some of those girls I knew, some I didn't. It happens and I've always been used to be '-blam!-ly harrassed'. You'd be surprised how often it happens to men, but it's not considered such because men 'are supposed to like it'. But anyhow, I make due and it's more fun to make them REALLY mad when you tell them you don't want them because they're just not 'your type'. =D