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Subject: What do you do when you find out your girl has slept with 4 guys?
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so i'm talking to her best friend and evantually i find out that my girlfriend has slept with 4 guys! all in mid school! we're in high school now. what do i do? confront her on the issue or make it seem like i never knew. and btw i KNOW that her friend isn't lying.

oh and halo is great to. if it were a human female i would be going out with it instead.

  • 07.11.2004 6:03 PM PDT
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that sux..........id say you tell her u know and say its over

  • 07.11.2004 6:08 PM PDT
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yeah, do that. I would never be able to look at that girl the same again. Seriously...that really sucks, man. Tell her that she's a skank and call it off.

...or, you can play dumb and hope you get in on some of that action. But personally, I'd rather dump her knowing that she was a skank in middle school.

  • 07.11.2004 6:13 PM PDT
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agreed i think we can all conclude that this sucks. however, IF you did want to confront her and stay together, how might that be done?

  • 07.11.2004 6:19 PM PDT
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1.make her ask for your forgivness first(not in a forcing way)
2.you hav to forgive her to for sleeping with others
3.hope she didnt catch anything(no joke)

  • 07.11.2004 6:21 PM PDT
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tell her, "i know you been sleeping with other guys and i will admit i slept with some girls but maybe we can make up by sleeping with each other"

  • 07.11.2004 6:22 PM PDT
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Dude talk to her about it, It all really boils down to the circumstances. Was she dating you? Were they serious or was she just skankin it up? Does she really need to answer your questions? no. But If she had several boyfriends witch she became intimate with after 2 or 3 months of dating, Well its no big deal. And if you cant handle it then your a doof. But cheating is all up to you how to handel it. But communication is the key. Youll know what to do, Follow your heart.

  • 07.11.2004 6:34 PM PDT
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Disembodied Voice: "*cough* Whore! *cough*

  • 07.11.2004 6:35 PM PDT
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Fun Answer: Sleep with eight girls.

My Answer: My girlfriend (of Two Years) and I went through something similar to this a while back. She hadnt slept with someone, but I was still hurt that she would keep something from me. Just confront her but in a kind way, and try to have a real discussion about why she kept it from you, if there is anything else, what you have kept from her, and where the two of you are comfrtable with the relationship going. My best advise is to get everything out in the open, NOW, and be understanding. Good Luck.

  • 07.11.2004 6:39 PM PDT
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dump her, and go fuk some other girl

  • 07.11.2004 7:00 PM PDT
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Joking answer: Aw, that sucks. :(

Serious answer: Haw haw.

  • 07.11.2004 7:00 PM PDT
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Jay wouldn't tolerate deception like that by some one so trusted, but Jay supports Tmone and Assassin if you want to offer a second chance. Jay wishes good luck either way. Whichever you decide to do, Jay advocates honesty, not more deception; two wrongs and all...

[Edited on 7/11/2004 7:06:17 PM]

  • 07.11.2004 7:04 PM PDT
Subject: What do you do when you find out your girl has slept with 4 guys?
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No offense, but being twenty-one I'm going to tell you to find someone less used. It's not to be mean or anything, but if she's doing that THIS early in her life, you're not going to be very happy later. Trust me.

Edit: Simply put, I'm with Jay. Being honest. My current girlfriend did not want to tell me certain things because she thought that I would not like her because I was not one to have partied/gone around/whatever when I was younger. But I told her that I hate dishonesty and deciet even more, and if she had not told me the truth she would have been out of my life quicker than she could blink.

[Edited on 7/11/2004 7:12:11 PM]

  • 07.11.2004 7:10 PM PDT
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I say talk about it seeing as how thats about the only way.Then depending on her story base your answer on that.Plain and simple yet extremely effective.

  • 07.11.2004 7:11 PM PDT
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Was she dating you at the time? If not, then as long as she's changed since then it should be no relationship threatening ordeal. It is important that you let her know you know though, and let her know that you're ok with it. Unless you really aren't ok with it at all, if you're too disgusted to look at her, then maybe it's best to call the whole thing off. Don't date someone you feel uncomfortable with.

If she was dating you at the time she slept with them, then she's a whore and doesn't seem to care about you in the first place.

  • 07.11.2004 7:12 PM PDT
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Tell her you know and you're not happy about it and if she doesn't care and make an effort to change, find someone new.


[Edited on 7/11/2004 7:17:24 PM]

  • 07.11.2004 7:14 PM PDT
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dude u guys r idiots. Shes a fuqin hoar. Talking to her won't do sh1t. Just lay her one more time, then dump her and get a new chick. Works everytime.

  • 07.11.2004 7:15 PM PDT
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We know why you're still single.

  • 07.11.2004 7:19 PM PDT
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yeah i haven't had a gf in about a year. I just do one night stands. Because once u say someone is ur gf, its no as fun. Its all about the chase and the fuq.

  • 07.11.2004 7:20 PM PDT
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There's really nothing I can add to this, so, good luck Peck.

  • 07.11.2004 7:26 PM PDT
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My track record of good relationships...

Almost non-existant.

  • 07.11.2004 7:29 PM PDT
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My track record of relationships (good or bad) . . .

Almost non-existant.

  • 07.11.2004 7:34 PM PDT
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Posted by: Geronimo
My track record of relationships (good or bad) . . .

Almost non-existant.


Well, it's kind of the same here. I don't do the relationship thing.

  • 07.11.2004 7:36 PM PDT
Subject: What do you do when you find out your girl has slept with 4 guys?
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SCREW HER! LITERALLY!

JK

Um, talk to her. Make sure her slutitude is gone and make up! Dont live on the past TOO mcuh

  • 07.11.2004 7:41 PM PDT
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don't listen to this -blam!-. Fuk her, then dump her and get a new chick

  • 07.11.2004 7:43 PM PDT

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