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I'm 23, I have a house, dog, girlfriend, job and I have no interest in any fanboyism so if you're thinking about sending me a childish PM, don't be surprised when I don't call back.

Pr0n really isn't an issue in my relationship, we've been living together for two years, my relationship is perfect as far as I'm concerned.

Do you know why? Because I watch pr0n but that has nothing to do with the way I interact with her. To be perfectly honest, if she acted like a pr0n star I wouldn't be with her.

  • 02.11.2011 8:07 AM PDT
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Oh Yes!

Agreed.

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Posted by: I Judge Bread I
Pr0n really isn't an issue in my relationship, we've been living together for two years, my relationship is perfect as far as I'm concerned.

Do you know why? Because I watch pr0n but that has nothing to do with the way I interact with her. To be perfectly honest, if she acted like a pr0n star I wouldn't be with her.
Yet you -blam!-e to women who are p0rn stars, you clearly get turned on by people like that.

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  • 02.11.2011 8:30 AM PDT


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Posted by: MideonNViscera

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Posted by: Rhea
It depends on the person. Like some women are so anti-p0rn and see it as a form of cheating. But for me, I don't care if my boyfriend watches p0rn. Whatever floats his boat. Kinda jealous that he doesn't share though. >:|
Maybe, but what happens if you meet the love of your life and she (he) doesn't want you to watch p0rn. Will you be able to give it up?

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Dude, if the love of her life wants her to stop watching pr0n then he's probably not a suitable "lifelong love".
Then how come, before p0rn was so much on the market, "lifelong love" was more common?

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Lifelong love wasn't any more common years ago than it is now. It was a rarity then and it still is. People got divorced less, if that's what you mean. Unless you can find a way to paint pr0n as the reason divorce has become more socially acceptable, you have no point there.

  • 02.11.2011 9:09 AM PDT

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Posted by: CRYSTLE FTW
I agree with you. I wish more men out there had this view.


And for the women who watch pr0n and expect their men to be hung like horses and last for two hours?

Well, me being a woman, I can say that I don't have those expectations because I don't watch it. It goes for both genders. I just speak on how I don't like the thought of my guy getting off to another girl. It just sits weird in my brain.

However, I do have quite strong morals and am more old fashioned in that sense. I don't like the thought of my boyfriend getting turned on by random naked girls when he could just have me.

[Edited on 02.11.2011 9:46 AM PST]

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Posted by: TurtleNut
who would pay for digital drugs

I barely watch it anymore. Maybe once every two weeks.

  • 02.11.2011 9:48 AM PDT

~Ninja

People did all of those before p0rn was even invented.

  • 02.11.2011 9:55 AM PDT

Just because a man's not watching pr0n, it doesn't mean he's not getting off to other women in his head.

  • 02.11.2011 10:18 AM PDT

I'm 23, I have a house, dog, girlfriend, job and I have no interest in any fanboyism so if you're thinking about sending me a childish PM, don't be surprised when I don't call back.


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Posted by: I Judge Bread I
Pr0n really isn't an issue in my relationship, we've been living together for two years, my relationship is perfect as far as I'm concerned.

Do you know why? Because I watch pr0n but that has nothing to do with the way I interact with her. To be perfectly honest, if she acted like a pr0n star I wouldn't be with her.
Yet you -blam!-e to women who are p0rn stars, you clearly get turned on by people like that.

- JFKES


I am also attracted to my girlfriend, the difference is I wouldn't feel comfortable living with a woman who routinely gets triple teamed in front of a camera.

Just because they are selling it to the movie producer doesn't make it different to standing on a corner, there's a huge difference between a woman I'm just attracted to and a woman that I'm attracted to and prepared to be in a relationship with.

  • 02.11.2011 10:21 AM PDT

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Wow, just wow.
Other stuff gets locked....yet this doesn't...

  • 02.11.2011 10:24 AM PDT

Probably because it's a completely civilised discussion between what mostly appears to be adults.

  • 02.11.2011 10:26 AM PDT

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I watch it to educate myself.

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Posted by: ninjadude132
People did all of those before p0rn was even invented.
That doesn't make p0rn ok.

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Wow, just wow.
Other stuff gets locked....yet this doesn't...
Why should this be locked? It has broken no rules and every one has been very civil. Your post has nothing of value in in and as such is spam.

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Posted by: JFKES
Posted by: I Judge Bread I
Pr0n really isn't an issue in my relationship, we've been living together for two years, my relationship is perfect as far as I'm concerned.

Do you know why? Because I watch pr0n but that has nothing to do with the way I interact with her. To be perfectly honest, if she acted like a pr0n star I wouldn't be with her.
Yet you -blam!-e to women who are p0rn stars, you clearly get turned on by people like that.

- JFKES


I am also attracted to my girlfriend, the difference is I wouldn't feel comfortable living with a woman who routinely gets triple teamed in front of a camera.

Just because they are selling it to the movie producer doesn't make it different to standing on a corner, there's a huge difference between a woman I'm just attracted to and a woman that I'm attracted to and prepared to be in a relationship with.
Sure. But when watching p0rn you are wishing and imagining you were involved. In the moment, if you had the chance to have intercourse with the person involved, you most probably would.

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  • 02.11.2011 11:11 AM PDT

The guy has the right mindset though. Yes, he'd bang the pr0nstar. No, he wouldn't marry her. It's genius.

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Posted by: MideonNViscera
The guy has the right mindset though. Yes, he'd bang the pr0nstar. No, he wouldn't marry her. It's genius.
If he would bang the p0rn star then how isn't it considered a form of cheating?

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It depends on the person. Like some women are so anti-p0rn and see it as a form of cheating. But for me, I don't care if my boyfriend watches p0rn. Whatever floats his boat. Kinda jealous that he doesn't share though. >:|
Maybe, but what happens if you meet the love of your life and she (he) doesn't want you to watch p0rn. Will you be able to give it up?

- JFKES
It is really difficult to answer that question since I have never been in that position. All my ex boyfriends and my current boyfriend have watched p0rn in their lives. I don't understand why anyone would be against p0rn. Everyone mas'turbates. And p0rn is something to get off of. Girls do it too, though in my experience they are better at hiding it.

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Posted by: Rhea
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It depends on the person. Like some women are so anti-p0rn and see it as a form of cheating. But for me, I don't care if my boyfriend watches p0rn. Whatever floats his boat. Kinda jealous that he doesn't share though. >:|
Maybe, but what happens if you meet the love of your life and she (he) doesn't want you to watch p0rn. Will you be able to give it up?

- JFKES
It is really difficult to answer that question since I have never been in that position. All my ex boyfriends and my current boyfriend have watched p0rn in their lives. I don't understand why anyone would be against p0rn. Everyone mas'turbates. And p0rn is something to get off of. Girls do it too, though in my experience they are better at hiding it.
Not everyone mas'terbates, and I understand that for you, it wont probably be an issue. It is just that for many people there aren't girls like you who are ok to p0rn, and if their partner wants them to stop (when they should out of love) and they aren't able to they may become resentful towards the woman (or in some cases man), which in turn breads resentment.

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  • 02.11.2011 2:25 PM PDT

Come at me bro.

No, just no.
I enjoy those types of videos frequently and I am not like that AT ALL.

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First of all, -blam!- hasn't changed my expectations for the worse at all. Not sure about you, but sex is pretty satisfying and I don't see how -blam!- changes that.

Secondly, -blam!- does not lead to objectification. You think that because person A watches -blam!-, suddenly they're developing misogynistic tendencies? Let's be real, most people are able to separate fiction from reality so it shouldn't be a problem. If you can't, then you have other things to worry about.

And there is no way in hell that you have seen "too many relationships" break up because of -blam!-; that's one of the weakest excuses I've heard. If a couple seriously uses that as an excuse then there are obviously deeper issues at fault.


This honestly reminds me of some horrible movie I watched on lifetime or hallmark about the dangers of -blam!-. It was obvious scare tactics because it went against the producers misguided feelings of morality; some kid ruined his entire life and -blam!- was made to look like the culprit, when it was obvious to anyone with a brain that the kid was retarded as hell.

If you think that -blam!- is dangerous and "corrupts moral values" or something like that then it's time to get out of the 50's.

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First of all, -blam!- hasn't changed my expectations for the worse at all. Not sure about you, but sex is pretty satisfying and I don't see how -blam!- changes that.
It should have, p0rn is very fake, and until you have sex, you have no way of knowing that.

Secondly, -blam!- does not lead to objectification. You think that because person A watches -blam!-, suddenly they're developing misogynistic tendencies? Let's be real, most people are able to separate fiction from reality so it shouldn't be a problem. If you can't, then you have other things to worry about.Your body/mind doesn't know, if it knew it was fake you wouldn't get turned on. You get turned on because your body thinks it is time for intercourse.

And there is no way in hell that you have seen "too many relationships" break up because of -blam!-; that's one of the weakest excuses I've heard. If a couple seriously uses that as an excuse then there are obviously deeper issues at fault.Not true at all. The man was exposed to p0rn at a young age and couldn't give it up even when he wanted to because his wife satisfied him. But even so, he was addicted to p0rn, when his wife found out and asked him to stop, he couldn't, after some time of this they separated and that is that. Please don't tell me you know what I have seen better than me.

This honestly reminds me of some horrible movie I watched on lifetime or hallmark about the dangers of -blam!-. It was obvious scare tactics because it went against the producers misguided feelings of morality; some kid ruined his entire life and -blam!- was made to look like the culprit, when it was obvious to anyone with a brain that the kid was retarded as hell.Nice, I don't see what this has to do with anything as part of the discussion. P0rn can be a turning point in peoples lives, and those who say it aren't are often just deluding themselves, because they can't face the tough truth.

If you think that -blam!- is dangerous and "corrupts moral values" or something like that then it's time to get out of the 50's.I think it can be dangerous to relationships (which it can) and I think people have been believing the lie of the internet, that it is totally fine and nothing bad happens as a result. Plus, I don't want this thread to be about morality, but yes, I think that it can be considered morally wrong to some people.

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I find that they assist me when I need to relieve myself. It's just nice to sit back, chill, and do the ol' five knuckle shuffle.

naw ming?
But you should be aware, that it is at least a possibility that when you get in a serious relationship, your partner wants you to stop and you can't because you are addicted.

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Almost anything can do harm. -blam!- is no more dangerous than video games.

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