- last post: 01.01.0001 12:00 AM PDT
Are you sure you are waiting long enough? People usually want the advantage that having host implies. If you want to get people on, make sure you "sell" the game you're running, such as make it sound interesting, or uber 1337. Sometimes insulting them works, but not usually.
Also XBC has pretty good directions on how to play on their site, or even ask in the main chat room. You'll probably be bashed for asking in the wrong place but usually someone will tell you where to go to find the answer.
[Edited on 3/1/2006]