- last post: 01.01.0001 12:00 AM PDT
This thread is devoted to the speculation about the intricate workings of the female gender.
A cliche phrase is that men do not understand women at all... I think this is wrong. At least I understand them fairly well. Or at least I think I do. I am very headstrong. But I do not claim to be an expert, these are merely personal observations. Feel free to comment and critique (when I say comment and critique, I mean flame away. Especially the girls). Know that I am NOT -blam!-. I repeat. I am NOT -blam!-. I have a girlfriend. A very hot girlfriend. And we go together very well.
Also note that this may be skewed due to age. The younger the agegroup, the more relationships are based on superficialities.
Part 1:
Women are generally much more complicated than men- mentally, emotionally.
If a guy has a great deal of respect for girls in general, than it shows through via his subconscious sway on his mannerisms.
They like it when you are open about your feelings- this means you have to be in touch with your feelings. Generally, you need to assume a few fruity qualities to better your standings with girls.
You need to surpress your raging libido! Try to push sex out of your mind. Don't think of everything girl-related in terms of sex. This in time translates to your subconscious.
Also, realize that girls are less superficial than guys. I need not further explain this.
Part 2:
* This topic surfaced in psychology class today, and I realized this pertains to every day life. This is directed mostly at the guys.
Think about how you express sympathy to someone. What do you do? Do you give advice? Do you tell them about a similar occurence in your life? Or do you tell a joke or change the subject?
Generally, girls like to recieve sympathy. Now, how do you express that?
With me, its generally, "Dude, that sucks."
Turns out, girls don't much like that. Also turns out that to appeal more to females that one has to be sensitive.
So, how does one express their sympathy in a most effective way?
That is my question that I pose now... It would be different for different sorts of acquaintances.
So what does everyone think about that? Want me to theorize on any other questions? I apologize for how disorganized it is... I'm tired.