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I've been in contact with several girls I haven't seen in years, just because I'm really good at listening and helping them work out their problems.

If a girl's distressed about something, then I can only assume that acting butch or manly (something they'd find attractive) might not be best if there really is something bugging them. If they're just trying to get attention, however, then I'd say it's the best way to go.

Of course, I could be wrong about that last statement. I just know that my method works, but I'm not sure if there might be a better one out there.

  • 09.07.2004 11:10 PM PDT

Ach! Was ist los?

Women, eh? Being 16, that would be anyone of the opposite gender from 14 to 17...

I don't pretend to understand women, but then I don't really understand anyone.

As far as being sympathetic goes, what usually works for me is to ask what's wrong, listen, and try to give some advice.

--Mr. Smith hopes to meet a certain someone at the school dance on Friday... If she shows up.

  • 09.08.2004 7:19 AM PDT
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Excommunicado, you have to be a girl because a guy would never take the time to type all of that up(the first post) about that.

  • 09.08.2004 8:45 AM PDT
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Posted by: ObbiQuiet
I have no idea. I'm rather feminine, so that's how I would approach it (being raised in a family of girls, who can blame me?).


That pretty much answers it. Who you are in your family will affect how interact with others. If your parents raised you to be a gentleman, than usually you are going to be one, if your parents did not raise you with such values, you'll either learn it the hard way or not learn them at all.

It's not a question of who is more complicated. It's a question of personality, upbring and cultural background. I know women that are so agressive that I'm too afraid to say "Hi" to them without getting cussed out. I know men that are so sensitive that they have an overwhelming need to hide it. It's been shown that men are generally nicer toward women than women are toward each other because they have to be. Otherwise we women wouldn't fall for it.

Posted by: ObbiQuiet
I have the terrible habit of being extremely judging of women. I'm pretty undiscriminating on who I'll sleep with, but my criteria for women I actually like is rather harsh.


My criteria for men are extremely high, ridiculously high. When I was in highschool, I always aloof aand had very few friends that I would actually call "friends". It didn't matter to me considering that I was only used for test answers and always objectified, and people were always jealous of me. I, to this day judge a guy on everything from appearance to the way he acts in public, and so far I found no body, and never had anybody. I even asked my mom if I could go to an all girl school like Spellman, and she told me that I shouldn't, because this isn't an all-girl world.


I don't have much to say in terms of the study, because I don't fit the 14-17 range. I fit the 18-21 range. So it's different. I bet if you did the same poll on a college campus the answers would be completely different.


[Edited on 9/8/2004 11:08:29 AM]

  • 09.08.2004 10:16 AM PDT
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Posted by: Excommunicado

A cliche phrase is that men do not understand women at all... I think this is wrong. At least I understand them fairly well. .


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  • 09.08.2004 10:21 AM PDT
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I don't have much to say in terms of the study, because I don't fit the 14-17 range. I fit the 18-21 range. So it's different. I bet if you did the same poll on a college campus the answers would be completely different.

As do I.

  • 09.08.2004 11:02 AM PDT
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OMYGOD THIS IS SO -blam!-YYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY How about you guys just grab a nice cool drink of STFU

  • 09.08.2004 2:01 PM PDT
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Posted by: PSYCHO Spartan
OMYGOD THIS IS SO -blam!-YYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY How about you guys just grab a nice cool drink of STFU


Don't have children.

Ever.

  • 09.08.2004 2:07 PM PDT
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Posted by: Banshee Barron
Woman are the devil.


Beastly typo...

I know and understand women, that's how I got my date to my school's homecoming...

  • 09.08.2004 2:14 PM PDT

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Posted by: Banshee Barron
Woman are the devil.


Beastly typo...



Or is it?

It's a long story that I do not wish to discuss at the moment.

  • 09.08.2004 2:18 PM PDT
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The women thread, eh?

Interesting.

The thing about this, every girl is different. The first post seems to be about the stereotype female... not all are like that. ^-^

[Edited on 9/8/2004 2:23:59 PM]

  • 09.08.2004 2:21 PM PDT
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most of what obbi has said is ture i know this from first hand knowledge but you never know what the hell they are thinking one time a girl came to me with a problem she had with her boyfriend and started coming on to me so like i said you never know if you follow obbi's advice thats the safe way otherwise guys your scating on thin ice

[Edited on 9/8/2004 2:24:40 PM]

  • 09.08.2004 2:23 PM PDT
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i am the perfect guy. stop. don't question.... just believe.

  • 09.08.2004 2:24 PM PDT
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and some more advice unless your trying to be funny dont act like an idiot girls would rather date an intelectual then a complete dumbass if you dont know what acting like a dumbass is you dont need to look far just look at the quote above

  • 09.08.2004 2:26 PM PDT
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Drunk single women suck. They all say the exact same thing:

I'm going to die alone! Nobody loves me! *weep weep*

  • 09.08.2004 2:29 PM PDT
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Posted by: ajenteks
Drunk single women suck. They all say the exact same thing:

I'm going to die alone! Nobody loves me! *weep weep*



Dying alone can be a good thing, especially if you're a rich woman. You don't have to share your millions with anyone.

  • 09.08.2004 2:49 PM PDT
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my god you all have WAY to much time on your hands......so y dont you all come and vote for the halo movie


p.s. obbi you are sick

  • 09.08.2004 2:50 PM PDT
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Posted by: ajenteks
Drunk single women suck. They all say the exact same thing:

I'm going to die alone! Nobody loves me! *weep weep*


That's if they're drinking alone. At a large, relatively chaotic social event it might be different.

  • 09.08.2004 2:52 PM PDT
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i see that i recieved a signifigant proportion of SASS from kendoboy after my last comments. I just want him to know that i'm a ladies man and noone (yes not even you kendoboy) can stop me from pimpin' the night away.

i didn't pm kendo-blam!- because i want all of you to know that i want him to know that he's retarded.

  • 09.08.2004 3:11 PM PDT

Posted by: Peck
ii didn't pm kendo-blam!- because i want all of you to know that i want him to know that he's retarded.


Oh really? I'm sorry, I coudn't tell.

  • 09.08.2004 3:12 PM PDT
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I just got a call from a girlfriend of mine a few minutes ago. She was under house arrest, speaking quickly and upset. To save you from the backstory that put her into the situation, I'll just say that she had most recently called because her parents let her go out to a social event for the first time in a while.

Anyway, she went, got drunk, lost her virginity to a guy, didn't have protection, and had gotten an emergency morning-after pill too late because it took her a while to remember what happened.

She's rather popular. I haven't seen her in person in years and I'm still friends with a lot of her friends, so I'm not exactly isolated from the social circle. Yet, despite this, she would rather come to me first out of everyone she knew. I haven't slept with her, I haven't asked her out, I haven't even really hung out with her before (outside of school, that is) - but because I knew how to listen I was able to help her in the past, I was able to help her now.

My advice: Learn how to listen. Take courses on clinical psychology and learn human behavior. I guarentee it will improve your relationships with women and people in general. It's a great skill to have even if you don't plan on using it selfishly.



[Edited on 9/8/2004 8:38:50 PM]

  • 09.08.2004 8:35 PM PDT
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Girlfriend? You've been cheating on me?

*sobs*

Anyways, men like the following:

Sports
Video games
Food
-blam!-
Sex
-blam!-ing
Sex
Tv
Food
-blam!-
Sleep
Pizza delivery


Women like the following:

Shoes
Pink
Dresses
Inane giggling
Pink
High heels
Sugarless gum
Many many many clothes
Babies(I hate babies!)
Dancing


And lots lots more. But I'm sick of lisitng for now.

  • 09.08.2004 8:45 PM PDT
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Posted by: GreenChief
Girlfriend? You've been cheating on me?

*sobs*

Anyways, men like the following:

Sports
Video games
Food
-blam!-
Sex
-blam!-ing
Sex
Tv
Food
-blam!-
Sleep
Pizza delivery


Women like the following:

Shoes
Pink
Dresses
Inane giggling
Pink
High heels
Sugarless gum
Many many many clothes
Babies(I hate babies!)
Dancing


And lots lots more. But I'm sick of lisitng for now.


And now for the list of things Obbi likes!

Sports
Video games
Food
-blam!-
Sex
-blam!-ing
Sex
Tv
Food
-blam!-
Sleep
Pizza delivery
Shoes
Pink
Dresses
Inane giggling
Pink
High heels
Sugarless gum
Many many many clothes
Babies
Dancing

  • 09.08.2004 8:47 PM PDT
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That's because you're a man-lady.

  • 09.08.2004 8:49 PM PDT

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