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Twitter.
WyIdfyre: 'lol, who the hell would even wear those?'
AuSam: 'lol, who the hell would even have sex with dogs?'

-K-

YEAH PEOPLE WHO AREN'T IN SAPPHIRE HAVE THE MOST VALID OPINION OF IT!

  • 12.21.2011 11:23 AM PDT

Quit -blam!- stalking me you weirdo.

Looks like the only thing that people talk about in support is -blam!- retarded things like "This made my dick larger".

Grow up. It sounds like alot of horny teens.

  • 12.22.2011 6:23 PM PDT
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dream as if you'll live forever and live as if you'll die today

Posted by: The Hired Gun
Grow up. It sounds like alot of horny teens.
>horny teens
>on Bnet

Imposibru

  • 12.22.2011 8:32 PM PDT

Quit -blam!- stalking me you weirdo.


Posted by: kool fat kid
Posted by: The Hired Gun
Grow up. It sounds like alot of horny teens.
>horny teens
>on Bnet

Imposibru

Sapphire has too many. At least in the main forums, they get banned.

  • 12.22.2011 9:45 PM PDT

My alts in Sapphire and I talk -blam!- about it openly, You guys are huge -blam!- when it comes to people talking -blam!-.

Posted by: Kalriq
YEAH PEOPLE WHO AREN'T IN SAPPHIRE HAVE THE MOST VALID OPINION OF IT!

  • 12.22.2011 10:03 PM PDT
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dream as if you'll live forever and live as if you'll die today

Posted by: The Hired Gun

Posted by: kool fat kid
Posted by: The Hired Gun
Grow up. It sounds like alot of horny teens.
>horny teens
>on Bnet

Imposibru

Sapphire has too many. At least in the main forums, they get banned.
It doesn't really seem like it bothers you all that much. I think you're just angry for some reason and you're trying to find anything to complain about.

  • 12.22.2011 10:53 PM PDT

I'd like to take a moment and address as many of the topics/criticisms as I can.

First things first.

Sapphire is a group of over a thousand members. Each member has their own likes and dislikes, personalities, and taboo subjects that they'd rather stay clear of. Because of this, there's many diverse topics discussed on a daily basis. From serious discussions like politics and religion, to silly and immature subjects such as the aforementioned genital comparisons.

But that's why Sapphire works. You're free to discuss anything you wish so long as it has discussion value.

But what's "discussion value"? As a moderator of the group, it's something that I have to consider on a daily basis. As much as I'd like to lock any thread that I may find "immature" or "pointless", I have to bear in mind that, as stated above, there's a lot of people and not everyone will find enjoyment in the same things.

So essentially, I moderate under the rule that, as long as conversation is moving forward, not being used to promote hate towards other members, and stays on topic(as silly as that topic may be) I let it continue. Even if it doesn't interest me.

For example.. I personally don't participate in political discussions. Though I lurk them quite heavily, they tend to become heated affairs with very little give and take. But so long as no one makes personal attacks toward on another, they're free to carry on as long as they choose.

The funny thing about those people who talk badly about the group is that they're quick to point to subject matter they find immature, while completely ignoring the vast majority of the groups "important" threads.

For every sex related thread, I guarantee you there are dozens of threads on a vast variety of topics.

But, of course, it's easier to make your case if you simply omit the facts. Right?


Now let's move on to the Sears policy.

The policy was implemented under one simple thought... "If you don't like being in the group, there's no reason to be a part of it."

We were finding that members were going to other groups and playing "cool guy" with those who have been kicked for various reasons. They would act friendly while on Sapphire, then turn around and smack-talk us when they thought no one was around.

Not stating concerns with members, or making a passing remark of a personal gripe. Simply talking -blam!- to fit in with the people they were around at the time. To my knowledge, no one has ever been Sears'd for any other reason.

Every member is not only "allowed" to have an opinion on the future of the group, but encouraged to do so. Harlow makes many threads asking for feedback, and rules are often adjusted based on the replies of our members.

We only ask that we keep our dirty laundry in our own back yard. It's no one else's business.


Finally, let's address the "circle-jerking" and "elitism".

Some of our members are very tight-knit. They've been friends both on Bnet, and off, for quite a long time. MSN conversations, tinychat, game nights. Years of interactions that's bonded them to be as close a friend as one can get without actually meeting.

Yes. They take pride in that. Those who attempt to belittle what they have may be met with harsh words from some of the more vocal members of the community because they care deeply about their relationship with one another. And there's nothing wrong with it.

Any time a new person tries to enter something established for so long, they may find themselves feeling a bit out of the loop for a little while. It's common. But it's fixed simply through activity.

Even after a year as a member, and being a moderator of the group, I still don't fit into every clique the group has.

We have no hazing rituals, no disdain for new members, we just don't know you yet. So speak up, realize that Sapphire isn't the flood when you post, and you'll fit in just fine.


One more thought before I'm done.. I find it ironic that so many people claim that we blindly hang from Harlow's sack, yet he is, by far, the most mocked member of the group. It's all done with love, though. And he's a great sport about it all.

Perhaps that's why we gravitate toward him. Few could take what he receives and not blow a gasket.

Our fearless leader.





  • 12.26.2011 12:41 PM PDT

Best of random chance

Was open-minded up until this point.
Posted by: Dr TimothyLeary
But, of course, it's easier to make your case if you simply omit the facts. Right?

I know for a fact dozens of members on the list are labeled as alts when they certainly aren't.
Posted by: Dr TimothyLeary
To my knowledge, no one has ever been Sears'd for any other reason.

So you aren't denying it?
Posted by: Dr TimothyLeary
One more thought before I'm done.. I find it ironic that so many people claim that we blindly hang from Harlow's sack,


Our fearless leader.

  • 12.26.2011 1:13 PM PDT


Posted by: kashinfist
Was open-minded up until this point.

I apologize if the remark came off as snide, but we've clearly seen people using the "It's only immature dick jokes" argument on a repeated basis. It's simply not true. My comment was directed at those who intentionally omit fact for the sole sake of tarnishing the image of the group.



I know for a fact dozens of members on the list are labeled as alts when they certainly aren't.
That falls under the "no alts" rule, and has nothing to do with the Sears policy.

Either way, the "no alts" rule was implemented to keep spam attacks and other tom foolery at a minimum. Everyone is welcome, so long as they can prove that their account is their primary. The best way to do this is by having an old and recognized username, or a linked gamer-tag. If someone has neither, then we'd rather err on the side of caution and deny their admittance.

It may seem unfair, and certainly won't make everyone happy, but it's the best system at our disposal.


So you aren't denying it?
I really thought the joke was obvious...

  • 12.26.2011 4:17 PM PDT

Best of random chance

I'm displeased with the ineficiency and and lack of consideration put into permanently rejecting a user who could contribute and be quite the model member.
Posted by: Dr TimothyLeary
It may seem unfair, and certainly won't make everyone happy, but it's the best system at our disposal.

I've been having trouble discerning jokes from nonsense and truths recently.
For example, I had to ask if someone was serious about crying over pudding, which indeed they were. All of this aside, it does seem as if you are in his scro'tum/sack.

Posted by: Dr TimothyLeary
I really thought the joke was obvious...

  • 12.26.2011 5:16 PM PDT


Posted by: kashinfist
I'm displeased with the ineficiency and and lack of consideration put into permanently rejecting a user who could contribute and be quite the model member.
Until a more effective means are acquired, I see no other way to go about it.

But unlike the Sears policy, people questioned as alts aren't permanently banned. They're just not accepted into the group until they can prove otherwise.

All of this aside, it does seem as if you are in his scro'tum/sack.
I'm fine with that. I consider Harlow to be a friend. And if the outside perception is that I ride his sack because I want to debunk some of the myths surrounding the group(and in tern, him) then so be it.

It really is quite cozy in there. He keeps it tidy and it smells of roses.

  • 12.26.2011 5:30 PM PDT
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"Awesomeness will ensue..."

BEN SPARTAN120

Can't really say I've ever been one to do something just because some people say it's cool and groovy.

That said, my curiosity has been piqued by this group, 'Sapphire'

If anyone would be so kind as to tell me some more about this group, perhaps convince me as to why I should join, then I'd be more than happy to offer my presence to it's forums.

  • 12.26.2011 9:34 PM PDT
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Posted by: spartan120
Can't really say I've ever been one to do something just because some people say it's cool and groovy.

That said, my curiosity has been piqued by this group, 'Sapphire'

If anyone would be so kind as to tell me some more about this group, perhaps convince me as to why I should join, then I'd be more than happy to offer my presence to it's forums.


It's just a laid back place to post. Nothing otherworldly, friend. Honestly the complaints you see on the mains greatly confuse those who have actually been around the inside of the group.

  • 12.27.2011 10:09 PM PDT
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Also Leary making good posts ITT.

  • 12.27.2011 10:10 PM PDT
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Posted by: The Hired Gun
Looks like the only thing that people talk about in support is -blam!- retarded things like "This made my dick larger".

Grow up. It sounds like a lot of horny teens.

Join Sapphire for intellectually stimulating conversation on topics such as philosophy religion and politics but also to have fun every now and then because hey why not?

It's not quite as snappy. We don't choose our target audience unfortunately. You should join though, really. It is a lot like how I just described it.

  • 12.29.2011 3:58 PM PDT

Posted by: BIGTIME889
omg im so drunk how did i get in this thread sry if makes no sense lol!
Posted by: Sgt Peanut
I'm not actually -blam!-, I just hate boobs.

I like to tape strawberries to my tits.

It's an off topic group, like any other off topic group. We just post a lot.


That's the only plus side to this private forum over any other, unless you count a rather enjoyable community as well, but that's just a part of a member count too.

All private groups are the same.

  • 01.11.2012 1:41 PM PDT

Best of random chance

No.
Posted by: BoyceKRP
All private groups are the same.

  • 01.11.2012 2:25 PM PDT

Hi

Best group 2011

  • 01.21.2012 1:36 PM PDT

Have A Nice Day!

Commander, CammCam's Queensguard; Sapphire Mod; 34th Seat, Table of Avalon(Exiled);Captain, HAND

yolo? -blam!- that! YOLTOSS!! You Only Live Twice or Some -blam!-

Well, just so people know:

I've been a member for a few days and have yet to encounter circle jerking or elitism. I specifically asked for these two things and was told that it would not be happening, although members of a more patriarchal persuasion hinted at the possibility of such an event if and when it became consensual.

I would address finer details but have yet to crack the security codes to the ISIS mainframes, and seeing as how these are the only two complaints I can find on the group there really is no more relevant data to post.

In all seriousness people, it's just a conglomeration of individuals with similar interests. Or I've been brainwashed. Either way, discontinue the pessimistic attitude with the intent to defraud.

  • 02.04.2012 3:34 AM PDT

Best of random chance

After the majority of this thread took place, I joined for just under a week. It was the Flood, but slower, and the group wasn't really to my liking. That, and I don't like Harlow much at all.
Posted by: The Kangol Kid

  • 02.04.2012 7:25 AM PDT

Cop lights, flash lights
Spot lights, strobe lights
Street lights
Fast life, drug life
Thug life, rock life
Every night


Posted by: kashinfist
After the majority of this thread took place, I joined for just under a week. It was the Flood, but slower, and the group wasn't really to my liking. That, and I don't like Harlow much at all.
Posted by: The Kangol Kid


Every Private Group that isnt about Clans or RP's or other things is basically The Flood.

  • 02.04.2012 7:29 AM PDT

Best of random chance

I don't see TAP or THC that way. There's more than what's in Sapphire.
Posted by: ArBit3R 818
Every Private Group that isnt about Clans or RP's or other things is basically The Flood.

  • 02.04.2012 7:37 AM PDT

Apparently I'm on an alt, though my gamertag is linked. Harlow hasn't let me in.

  • 02.04.2012 8:07 AM PDT

Momento Mori


Posted by: ExemptedSun
Apparently I'm on an alt, though my gamertag is linked. Harlow hasn't let me in.

It's okay *pats head* It's not your fault.

  • 02.04.2012 4:12 PM PDT