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Posted by: MadMax888
Posted by: Ginger Tom
Posted by: MadMax888
Posted by: Ginger Tom
Posted by: MadMax888
How come nobody wants to stop bullying? Rather, they blame the victims of bullying for not being strong enough?
Bullies will always exist, bullies themselves are weak and often have underlying family issues. Doesn't make it right, but it happens.That's just it; they don't have to exist. They're the problem. Why don't we help them?
Have you ever tried to help someone with a problem that they don't see as a problem or something that they consider to be normal such as verbal or physical abuse at their home from a young age?
Its tough unless they actually want to listen.You're right. It's VERY hard. But nobody's addressing that problem, we're just trying to help victims deal with bullies. That's not a cure for the disease, just a cure for a symptom.
I've tried, I'm working at a school at the minute and I've tried talking to bullies. They don't want to hear it, they think its uncool to talk to someone older so they won't open up. None of the kids will talk to them because they're afraid of the bullies. You'd need to get an older person who the bully really respects, which in most cases is either a parent or some celebrity which they have no hope of meeting. If you consider this is the problem for thousands of kids across the world...
Pretty much a bottomless pit.