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Subject: I think I just lost my bestfriend...
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Posted by: Psychotic Undead
And honestly, just throwing this out there, that doesn't sound like a very healthy relationship...between her and her boyfriend I mean. I won't judge them too much since I don't know the circumstances or anything, but your significant other shouldn't be the person making you cry yourself to sleep at night, they should be the one comforting you so you don't have to do it at all.

Honestly, was I the only one thinking this?
Nope, you weren't the only one. I would leave the girl if I were in your situation. I don't like drama, or whiny, -blam!-y girls.

  • 11.28.2012 9:56 AM PDT
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Posted by: TheMongoose3
Keep at it, but a word of advice, don't get involved in other people's relationships. Comfort her or whatever if her boyfriend is a dick, but nothing more. Only she knows what their relationship is truly like.

  • 11.28.2012 9:56 AM PDT

Please stop complaining about the 'death of a loved one' it's my job. They probably deserved it anyways. Here's a warning, if you keep making pentagrams out of the neighbors livestock I will personally come to your house and kill everyone you love. Now leave me alone, I got to get back to work.
~M.D~

I'm trying to make amends with mine....uggh this sucks. One mistake.

  • 11.28.2012 10:01 AM PDT

No u

Give her space and it'll likely work out. And for future reference, don't call her a b****; girls don't like being called that. they like respect.

  • 11.28.2012 10:02 AM PDT
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You are dealing with a woman so nothing is going to make sense. Good luck OP.

  • 11.28.2012 10:04 AM PDT

I make a living of selling my body, and I don't mean sex.

Outright say that you love her.









Then say not in that way. She'll feel happy knowing she has such a loving friend.

[Edited on 11.28.2012 10:05 AM PST]

  • 11.28.2012 10:05 AM PDT
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lol

  • 11.28.2012 10:10 AM PDT

Posted by: steadman
Scooby Doo taught us many things, and one of those things is that there is no such thing as ghosts.


Posted by: General Dripik
This make me think of the retard guy who killed himself so he could assassinate Jesus, Most likely the only good religion has done.

It's not that you called out her boyfriend, it's that you called her a -blam!-. Joking or not, most women will take that serious. I'm sorry, but do you have common sense? :/

  • 11.28.2012 10:21 AM PDT

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Posted by: Decieved Soul
Last night, we hung out and I was joking around and said "Your boyfriend treats you like a b, so that makes you one." And I mentioned stuff infront of people like how he treats her bad. Well, she ignored me most of the time and later I went up to her and was like "What's your problem?" She looked away and ignored me. My friend walked up to her and was like "He's done so much -blam!- for you, why are you doing this?" And she said it was because I called her a -blam!-, jokingly. We joke all the time.

I wonder why she doesn't like you anymore OP.

[Edited on 11.28.2012 10:46 AM PST]

  • 11.28.2012 10:45 AM PDT

Circle Jerkin' I got my wiener workin'

You cannot win with women. They do not use logic and will go from one extreme to the other and you won't even know that you did something wrong.

  • 11.28.2012 10:48 AM PDT

There's no way to get back experiences you missed.
So start right now today and risk furiousness for bliss.

Never call a girl the B word. Not even if it's a joke.

  • 11.28.2012 10:52 AM PDT


Posted by: Psychotic Undead
And honestly, just throwing this out there, that doesn't sound like a very healthy relationship...between her and her boyfriend I mean. I won't judge them too much since I don't know the circumstances or anything, but your significant other shouldn't be the person making you cry yourself to sleep at night, they should be the one comforting you so you don't have to do it at all.

Honestly, was I the only one thinking this?


No, no you weren't.

Honestly, if you two have been such good friends, she'll come around. If the way her boyfriend treats her worries you, then you should let her know, and also let her know that it's only because you care.

EDIT:Also, as some others before have said, calling her a b***h wasn't your brightest moment, so for future reference, don't call a girl a b***h, bad things always happen when you do.

[Edited on 11.28.2012 11:13 AM PST]

  • 11.28.2012 11:09 AM PDT
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So do all who live to see such times, but that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.

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Why the hell would you joke around like that? She has every right to be upset at you. Give her some time, if she forgives you, then good. If not, oh well. There is nothing you can do but move on with life.

  • 11.28.2012 11:14 AM PDT
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She sounds like a stupid -blam!-.

  • 11.28.2012 11:18 AM PDT

Love your friends, Die laughing.

Do you really want a whiny, immature girl as a best friend?

  • 11.28.2012 11:20 AM PDT


Posted by: SILO 170
Keep the friendship. Just don't do it again. If you leave now A) You will look like a -blam. B) Sounds like shes near the edge. With out anyone to help her she may jump.
She is. Her boyfriend a few nights ago, and her got into it and she was cutting cause of it

  • 11.28.2012 1:49 PM PDT

how old are you

  • 11.28.2012 1:50 PM PDT


Posted by: Black Eagle X99
Move on, trust me. You should not have to deal with that kind of thing. It is best to stay away from girls in a relationship unless it is with you. It's an unpredictable situation, especially if the boyfriend gets jealous. I've had quite a few situations similar to this. Just walk now, it's hard, but you need to.

As a side note, this friend called me out to her much the way you did. The reasons are unimportant, what isn't is that when he called me out she went ham on him. Girlfriends will do anything to defend the guy they are dating, best to step back and wait for her to apologize. If you guys are close I'm sure she will soon enough.
It's hard to leave her.. Like, we're so close and it just sucks. I mess up once and she's ready to just say -blam!- you leave pretty much

  • 11.28.2012 1:50 PM PDT


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Posted by: Psychotic Undead
And honestly, just throwing this out there, that doesn't sound like a very healthy relationship...between her and her boyfriend I mean. I won't judge them too much since I don't know the circumstances or anything, but your significant other shouldn't be the person making you cry yourself to sleep at night, they should be the one comforting you so you don't have to do it at all.

Honestly, was I the only one thinking this?
Nope, you weren't the only one. I would leave the girl if I were in your situation. I don't like drama, or whiny, -blam!-y girls.
He's always treating her like -blam!- and she shows me the convos and is always upset and i give her advice and the next day at school, she acts like nothing happens between them. Wtf?! He treats her horribly!

  • 11.28.2012 1:52 PM PDT
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I had a similar relationship this summer. If you want my honest opinion, then I say let her go. Until she realizes that she can't just fall on you for support -- but flip a -blam!- when you make a minor mistake -- she won't treat you like the good friend you are.

Let her figure it out. If she wants to remain good friends with you, let her do the work. Clearly you've already done enough (positively, though).

  • 11.28.2012 1:52 PM PDT

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That's no way to treat a woman.

  • 11.28.2012 1:53 PM PDT

@Vinyl_Hb

P-P-P-Period

  • 11.28.2012 1:54 PM PDT


Posted by: halomaster10144
I had a similar relationship this summer. If you want my honest opinion, then I say let her go. Until she realizes that she can't just fall on you for support -- but flip a -blam!- when you make a minor mistake -- she won't treat you like the good friend you are.

Let her figure it out. If she wants to remain good friends with you, let her do the work. Clearly you've already done enough (positively, though).
My friend told me to leave her, and once her boy pushes her to the edge, I won't be there and she'll realize that she's lost

  • 11.28.2012 1:54 PM PDT

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It's only been months and you're calling her your best friend?

  • 11.28.2012 1:54 PM PDT