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Subject: I think I just lost my bestfriend...

No, I don't want to join your group/clan/team/community.

Women logic:

Who are we?

Women!

What do we want?

We don't know!

When do we want it?

Right now!

[Edited on 11.28.2012 1:56 PM PST]

  • 11.28.2012 1:55 PM PDT

On the Left

Godshatter: I can go all the way with someone without being attracted to them.
CamCamm: How does that work?
Godshatter: I'm easily aroused by anything that moves. It's a curse.
Brain says 'No, that's ugly', body says 'ugly is fine with me'.


Posted by: one rabid bunny
Women logic:

Who are we?

Women!

What do we want?

We don't know!

When do we want it?

Right now!

lol

  • 11.28.2012 1:56 PM PDT

I like shorts. They're comfy and easy to wear.

I really don't see the joke.

  • 11.28.2012 1:57 PM PDT

Name's Pixel.
There's a 87.7% chance that I'm better than you.
At everything.
Also.
Please message me if you have any objections.
ლ(ಠ益ಠლ)

Let her just cool down then approach.

  • 11.28.2012 1:58 PM PDT

You should just ignore her and move on. She's been using you

  • 11.28.2012 1:58 PM PDT

I know that feel

  • 11.28.2012 1:59 PM PDT


Posted by: Celticsgreen17
You should just ignore her and move on. She's been using you
How

  • 11.28.2012 1:59 PM PDT

"You are the last of your kind: bred for combat, built for war. You're the master of any weapon, pilot of any vehicle, and fear no enemy"


Posted by: Decieved Soul
So, this girl is my bestfriend, and we've been bestfriends for months and I've been there for her so much.
So let me stop you right there.

  • 11.28.2012 2:02 PM PDT

What doesn't kill you, only makes you stranger

Well I did lose my best friend. To suicide.

It can always be worse. Just treat her nicely.

  • 11.28.2012 2:04 PM PDT

Posted by: Changsta inc
Racism isn't wrong if it's funny.

Jesus OP, I can't read your wall of text through that florescent blue text.

  • 11.28.2012 2:05 PM PDT


Posted by: KilteDKilleR93
Well I did lose my best friend. To suicide.

It can always be worse. Just treat her nicely.
She tells me I'm the reason she's still here, she tried OD'ing and almost tried again but she said I'm the reason she didn't. /: and I'm sorry for your loss

  • 11.28.2012 2:06 PM PDT

You know who I am.


Posted by: Decieved Soul
Flood, I honestly don't know what to do. So, this girl is my bestfriend, and we've been bestfriends for months
That was enough for me to quit reading. Ah to be in High School again.

  • 11.28.2012 2:07 PM PDT


Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: Celticsgreen17
You should just ignore her and move on. She's been using you
How


What benefit do you get out of being her therapist? Just more stress for yourself. Just cut her loose and say I can't be there for you anymore and find a therapist for her to talk to instead. You will help her more by doing that then what you are doing now

  • 11.28.2012 2:08 PM PDT

I got these cheeseburgers man....

Lol, nah it's your fault OP. You don't call a girl in a terrible relationship who cries herself to sleep every night a -blam!-.

  • 11.28.2012 2:10 PM PDT

really think so?
Posted by: Celticsgreen17

Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: Celticsgreen17
You should just ignore her and move on. She's been using you
How


What benefit do you get out of being her therapist? Just more stress for yourself. Just cut her loose and say I can't be there for you anymore and find a therapist for her to talk to instead. You will help her more by doing that then what you are doing now

  • 11.28.2012 2:16 PM PDT

Just hang in there and help her when she needs it. Your doing a good job so far just give her some time, she'll forgive you.

  • 11.28.2012 2:41 PM PDT

I'm still curious about your age

But I'm going to guess 14

My advice, stop caring.

  • 11.28.2012 2:43 PM PDT


Posted by: SILO 170
Just hang in there and help her when she needs it. Your doing a good job so far just give her some time, she'll forgive you.
Alright, thanks.

  • 11.28.2012 2:44 PM PDT

Mythical Group

There is no greater catharsis than arguing on the Flood.

You can not realistically be "best friends" with the opposite sex. Women have a number one man in their life who should provide most of the man needs she has, when she wants someone who can identify with her on a different level, but just as intimately, she's going to go to her girlfriends. It goes both ways.

And yeah, I do get along with girls. But there's no situation where I could say a girl would be my best friend without it being romantic.

This doesn't cover -blam!- people obviously. If you yourself are -blam!-, ignore me.

  • 11.28.2012 2:49 PM PDT
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[Edited on 11.28.2012 2:52 PM PST]

  • 11.28.2012 2:52 PM PDT

Wizzy

You go and apologize to her face like a man. You can't go around saying crap "jokes" like that. Didn't even sound like a joke, tbh. Sounded pretty malicious and hurtful to me.

I can understand why she's angry. Her best" friend" just called her a -blam!-. Not only that, you "joked" about him treating her like crap. Where's the joke in that? Women can be quite sensitive, you know.

[Edited on 11.28.2012 2:55 PM PST]

  • 11.28.2012 2:53 PM PDT

Posted by: The Kangol Kid
It was then that I decided he really is like semen(everywhere) and I gave up on life.


zoobkillerninja <3


Posted by: CamCamm
Serious... serious reply here.

Listen up.




If you can't take the heat, get off of the back burner!!!

  • 11.28.2012 2:53 PM PDT

I gaze upon the stars and see the majesty that is the universe.


EGO mos bulla astrum.


Posted by: AMW Godfather

Posted by: A Good Troll
It genuinely bothers me OP can't see he is being used as a doormat.


And that he is in love...with his best friend.
If he is its probably better that he never knows. Best friendship is something strong.

  • 11.28.2012 2:56 PM PDT

I've found that it's usually okay to let a girl talk about how much she's pissed off with her boyfriend and agree with her, but offering your own opinion or insulting him yourself usually puts them on the defensive because they feel like you're criticising their taste in guys and by extension, criticising them. Same if one of my mates is complaining about his girlfriend - you can do the 'women' thing and sympathise with him, but I'll never say something bad myself about his girlfriend because they'll take offence.

[Edited on 11.28.2012 3:03 PM PST]

  • 11.28.2012 3:02 PM PDT

I gaze upon the stars and see the majesty that is the universe.


EGO mos bulla astrum.

OP I've dealt with a thread much more extreme than yours over 2 years ago so I'll say this.

You are her best friend and obviously someone she can confide in. I don't care whether you are friends or in love. The point is therapy is only a way to bring someone back to normal through expression. What you need to do is fight the problem. Fix up this little fight with intense apologies as that was an extremely stupid joke to make. Make sure you guys are cool.

Then tell her to get out of this damned horrid relationship. Pain and love don't go together. Don't be blunt with her about this but one way or another you need to tell her any love she feels for this guy is bull-blam!-.

This isn't a guide for you to swoop. I want you to fix this problem with both your friendship and her relationship.

  • 11.28.2012 3:07 PM PDT