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Subject: I think I just lost my bestfriend...

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  • 11.28.2012 7:56 PM PDT


Posted by: Decieved Soul
I've been there so many -blam!- times for her and I mess up one time and she's ready to give up. She complains and her boyfriend makes her cry herself to sleep almost every night, but once I say something negative about him in public, she's done. Flood, I don't know what to do. Do I try to keep this friendship, or let it go and get a new bestfriend?




Did you know that crazy is contagious?

It's why people stay in abusive relationships and push away when people try to help them. Their partner's craziness rubs off on them, and they start acting crazy to justify staying with them to themselves.

Unfortunately, there's nothing that you can do except be there for her.

  • 11.28.2012 7:56 PM PDT


Posted by: Miss Ginger
And the verdict?
Text: I think I'm Bipolar..and no. It most definitely isn't an excuse for my -blam!-iness recently but I think that may be a contributing factor. I've had the worst day ever. Not at school, but at home. I hate my parents. They make me do everything and my sister is a damn princess. And they've been -blam!-y at me ever since I got home. They yelled at me for taking a nap. They have no -blam!- clue what I go through every night. But this is besides the point. I was sitting here alone bawling about to text you, wondering why we haven't talked all day but then I remembered/: I was upset. But I need to get over it. I'm not gonna lose my bestfriend over my crazy ass"






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  • 11.28.2012 7:56 PM PDT

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I read the thread title, and honestly I was expecting much worse. But I take it you've learned in serious matters a joke in the middle doesn't work with most people.

Sounds like your friend needs to talk to someone, whether that person is you I wouldn't know. But I would suggest since you're best friends and all just go out and do something for a day, whatever you guys do when you're out. You know, just to calm them down and get away from it all. Then maybe look at these issues in a better mood.

  • 11.28.2012 8:07 PM PDT

Stop arguing over imaginary -blam!-. May as well argue over Santa Claus. There will never be proof that there is/was a god - and before people start saying "HERP DERP PROVE THERE WASN'T ONE ROFLOLOL" well, you are the people who made it up in the first place so we know there isn't one
What created the big bang then? A coalition of genetically modified TR-909s with extra distortion?

Get pictures of her feet.

  • 11.28.2012 8:26 PM PDT

Got another tex


"Okay/: Guess you aren't forgiving me. Goodnight." I ignored it...

  • 11.28.2012 10:20 PM PDT

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Posted by: Decieved Soul
So, this girl is my bestfriend, and we've been bestfriends for months and I've been there for her so much.



Posted by: Decieved Soul
we've been bestfriends for months and I've been there for her so much.


What? So you knew are friends with a girl for less than a month and suddenly you are BFF's?

  • 11.28.2012 10:22 PM PDT

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  • 11.28.2012 10:22 PM PDT

"Cause they've had good times together" She says. Their relationship is 80% -blam!-, 5% good, 15% wtf
Posted by: Psychotic Undead

Posted by: Decieved Soul

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Posted by: Psychotic Undead
And honestly, just throwing this out there, that doesn't sound like a very healthy relationship...between her and her boyfriend I mean. I won't judge them too much since I don't know the circumstances or anything, but your significant other shouldn't be the person making you cry yourself to sleep at night, they should be the one comforting you so you don't have to do it at all.

Honestly, was I the only one thinking this?
Nope, you weren't the only one. I would leave the girl if I were in your situation. I don't like drama, or whiny, -blam!-y girls.
He's always treating her like -blam!- and she shows me the convos and is always upset and i give her advice and the next day at school, she acts like nothing happens between them. Wtf?! He treats her horribly!
Honestly, when you two can start talking again, i'd suggest seriously asking her why she stays with him. Nothing sickens me quite like a relationship where one person treats the other like s**t.

  • 11.28.2012 10:29 PM PDT
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  • 11.28.2012 10:29 PM PDT

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  • 11.28.2012 10:30 PM PDT

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Wow. I'm speechless at how effectively you managed to shoot yourself in the foot.

  • 11.28.2012 10:32 PM PDT

I was expecting a sad story about your best friend dying.






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  • 11.28.2012 10:35 PM PDT

Nahman Jayden, Eff bee eye. I herd that you're the origammy killah...


Posted by: theHurtfulTurkey
"He treats you like a bi---, so you must be one."






Wow. I'm speechless at how effectively you managed to shoot yourself in the foot.
This. Think before you speak, OP. Also, just stay by her side like a true friend.

  • 11.28.2012 10:36 PM PDT


Posted by: theHurtfulTurkey
"He treats you like a bi---, so you must be one."






Wow. I'm speechless at how effectively you managed to shoot yourself in the foot.

  • 11.28.2012 10:37 PM PDT


Posted by: Decieved Soul
really think so?
Posted by: Celticsgreen17

Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: Celticsgreen17
You should just ignore her and move on. She's been using you
How


What benefit do you get out of being her therapist? Just more stress for yourself. Just cut her loose and say I can't be there for you anymore and find a therapist for her to talk to instead. You will help her more by doing that then what you are doing now


Yes I do, she's not being a good friend putting this on you. You're just being used, you need to open your eyes man. Just back away and say she needs to seek professional help or you think she may end up getting really hurt. Thats all you can do. Remember her boyfriend situation is NOT your problem so why are you dealing with it?

  • 11.28.2012 10:38 PM PDT

Nahman Jayden, Eff bee eye. I herd that you're the origammy killah...


Posted by: Decieved Soul
Got another tex


"Okay/: Guess you aren't forgiving me. Goodnight." I ignored it...
Why would you? STAPH DIGGING THE GRAVE BEFORE SHE KICKS YOU INTO IT.

  • 11.28.2012 10:38 PM PDT

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  • 11.28.2012 10:38 PM PDT

Hey on second thought OP I don't want a girl to kill herself because some kid listened to my advice.

Learn to be a -blam!- man and tell her to dump her boyfriend. Theres no easy way to do it but you must make her your gf.

Figure it out for yourself. Doing that is half the technique. MAN UP AND SHARK THE GIRL, SON.

  • 11.28.2012 10:43 PM PDT


Posted by: Decieved Soul
bestfriends


Posted by: Decieved Soul
for months


wat

[Edited on 11.28.2012 10:43 PM PST]

  • 11.28.2012 10:43 PM PDT

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Hello op!
hold on...

  • 11.28.2012 10:46 PM PDT

Key

-blam!-es b crazy.

You probably shouldn't have brought that up in public. Even if she agrees with you it's probably a sore subject.

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  • 11.28.2012 10:52 PM PDT