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Subject: 111 Tips To Being Confident


Posted by: MyNameIsCharlie
Ass-Pennies.

That's all you need.

Ass-Pennies.

  • 11.28.2012 1:33 PM PDT
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Posted by: Rampant Tragedy
Pretty dumb list IMO, considering half of them have to do with girls. Gentlemen, you only need this one tip for being confident:Never let your self-worth be measured by how well you adhere to the standards of other people, especially members of the opposite sex. Respect others and yourself, and people will respect you.

Your tip is almost as useless as "be yourself"

  • 11.28.2012 1:34 PM PDT

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Posted by: MasterMar22
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This, and

Posted by: Rampant Tragedy
Never let your self-worth be measured by how well you adhere to the standards of other people, especially members of the opposite sex. Respect others and yourself, and people will respect you.

  • 11.28.2012 1:36 PM PDT

I don't see you doing anything to help our country.
Except sitting at home, naked, eating twinkies, rubbing your hands together going "Heh. Target Destroyed. Mission Accomplished." Oh wait. that's not helping.


Posted by: Heven644

Posted by: MasterMar22
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This, and

Posted by: Rampant Tragedy
Never let your self-worth be measured by how well you adhere to the standards of other people, especially members of the opposite sex. Respect others and yourself, and people will respect you.
Well clearly keep your own personality, nothing in there suggests changing who you are, just how you act.

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Posted by: Black Eagle X99

Posted by: Heven644

Posted by: MasterMar22
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This, and

Posted by: Rampant Tragedy
Never let your self-worth be measured by how well you adhere to the standards of other people, especially members of the opposite sex. Respect others and yourself, and people will respect you.
Well clearly keep your own personality, nothing in there suggests changing who you are, just how you act.

ehhh am I the only one that read the tips? AND the one that uses logic? Your personality DEFINES how you act. -blam!- logic guys.

  • 11.28.2012 1:38 PM PDT

Congratulations. You're literate!

Posted by: SeXXXpie
Posted by: Rampant Tragedy
Pretty dumb list IMO, considering half of them have to do with girls. Gentlemen, you only need this one tip for being confident:Never let your self-worth be measured by how well you adhere to the standards of other people, especially members of the opposite sex. Respect others and yourself, and people will respect you.

Your tip is almost as useless as "be yourself"
Sounds like someone never read the story of the Ugly Duckling.

  • 11.28.2012 1:38 PM PDT

I don't see you doing anything to help our country.
Except sitting at home, naked, eating twinkies, rubbing your hands together going "Heh. Target Destroyed. Mission Accomplished." Oh wait. that's not helping.


Posted by: Rampant Tragedy
Posted by: SeXXXpie
Posted by: Rampant Tragedy
Pretty dumb list IMO, considering half of them have to do with girls. Gentlemen, you only need this one tip for being confident:Never let your self-worth be measured by how well you adhere to the standards of other people, especially members of the opposite sex. Respect others and yourself, and people will respect you.

Your tip is almost as useless as "be yourself"
Sounds like someone never read the story of the Ugly Duckling.
Okay hang on, the Ugly Duckling is a horrible representation of any real life scenario.

  • 11.28.2012 1:40 PM PDT

I don't see how much of this relates to confidence, unless you can only draw confidence from your interaction with girls. In which case, you probably don't have the right personality for confidence anyways.

I agree with what was said early on - confidence comes from not caring what other people think of you. If you have to run through this list and make sure you're not doing anything wrong in a desperate attempt to make friends/get a girl, then you're looking in the wrong places.

Also, I heartily disagree with not growing a moustache. Sure, there are plenty of people who can't grow moustaches properly and end up looking like an oily teenager or a pedo. However a well groomed and thick moustache can look good on the right people. Case in point: Tom Selleck. What a man!

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This list is excellent. And not that #71 is bad, but my girlfriend uses periods all the time, and always has. We just use correct grammar with each other. I think it depends on the girl, honestly.

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Posted by: Rampant Tragedy
Posted by: SeXXXpie
Posted by: Rampant Tragedy
Pretty dumb list IMO, considering half of them have to do with girls. Gentlemen, you only need this one tip for being confident:Never let your self-worth be measured by how well you adhere to the standards of other people, especially members of the opposite sex. Respect others and yourself, and people will respect you.

Your tip is almost as useless as "be yourself"
Sounds like someone never read the story of the Ugly Duckling.

Actually I never have now that I think of it.

  • 11.28.2012 1:42 PM PDT

I'm LITERALLY better than Tim Tebow
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Better than Tebow.


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Landry Jones was the man when he had a mustache.

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Oh, and I'm honestly trying to think of three things I have in common with my girlfriend. This is actually really tough, since we're diametrically opposite religiously, politically, etc. We have a similar sense of humor, I guess. Or so she says.

  • 11.28.2012 1:45 PM PDT

Congratulations. You're literate!

Posted by: Enemy of Godd
I agree with what was said early on - confidence comes from not caring what other people think of you. If you have to run through this list and make sure you're not doing anything wrong in a desperate attempt to make friends/get a girl, then you're looking in the wrong places.
The thing about "confidence coming from not caring what other people think of you" is that it's not entirely true. There's a fine line between not letting what people think define you, and not caring at all about what people think. People's opinions will always be important, especially when they can give you something that you want (a job, a home/car loan, a second date, etc.) but confidence is about not being at the mercy of other people's standards. It's about taking charge of the way you carry yourself. Superficial changes can only get you so far.

  • 11.28.2012 1:46 PM PDT

My name: rufemee comes from the Elite Heritic leader: Sesa Refumee
But I spelt the name wrong

And if you're born with a face as bad as mine everything here becomes redudant. Not that I care....screw you social norm!!!!

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Posted by: Primum Agmen
Hooray for poor houses!

Damn straight


Posted by: Black Eagle X99
78. Be strong when things fall apart - Blink 182
HELL YEAH!

  • 11.28.2012 2:00 PM PDT


Posted by: Black Eagle X99

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Posted by: Mitochondrion
A got a tip for confidence; don't give a flying -blam!- about what anyone thinks about you. That is literally it. For example, hobos have the highest amount of confidence because they really don't give a -blam!- because they've lost all hope in their life and they are worth less than absolutely and utterly nothing at all. Therefore they are worthless and don't have anything at all to lose. As a result of this, they have limitless confidence because of their -blam!-lessness.
Well if you do that you will most likely come across as douchey. You have to have the right balance. Like it or not appearances and personality do count.

Posted by: RustedEdge
It's mostly about girls.
What did you expect? It's all tips to better your confidence with girls.



No, I don't, douches are the most confident people ever so why not be on of them?
You'll get a reputation as a douche then and no one will want to be friends with you? I thought that was common sense. There is a difference between confidence and hitting on everything that looks like a girl. You don't want to be that guy.


I don't hit on girls. I just blend in.

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Don't let those around you make you.

You only get one shot, don't miss your chance to blow, this opportunity comes once in a lifetime - eminem

  • 11.28.2012 2:07 PM PDT

"You are the last of your kind: bred for combat, built for war. You're the master of any weapon, pilot of any vehicle, and fear no enemy"

No scarves? You kidding? Their making a comeback.

  • 11.28.2012 2:11 PM PDT

What actually transpires beneath the veil of an event horizon? Decent people shouldn't think too much about that.

Academician Prokhor Zakharov
"For I Have Tasted The Fruit"

Toasting in Epic Bread.

Thank you, OP. This may be the most helpful thread in the entire forum.

  • 11.28.2012 2:14 PM PDT

i asked a girl out today and she said yes. now what. we're going out for a drink next week together. i'm nervous because i don't know her too well, i've spoken to her quite a bit in college, but that was just when our "group" of friends are hanging around together. what i mean is its never been truly one to one. ah well im feeling a lot better now than i was this morning, the fear of rejection was really getting to me...

  • 11.28.2012 2:17 PM PDT

Thanks OP.

  • 11.28.2012 2:26 PM PDT

Nahman Jayden, Eff bee eye. I herd that you're the origammy killah...

Good post, mate.

  • 11.28.2012 2:29 PM PDT

signatures are for fa- wait


Posted by: Black Eagle X99

25. Have that sexy smile, not your normal smile. Girls love a good sexy half smile, but don't make it creepy. Practice in a mirror.
26. Smile when talking to a girl, especially if she seems interested. Never make the smile creepy. Once again, mirror practice.

So i can't do this smile?

  • 11.28.2012 2:30 PM PDT

I tried tip #18, but my nose is stuffed up :(

  • 11.28.2012 2:32 PM PDT

What if I told you...

*scoots in closer*

I hate you

I read the whole thing.

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