- Rampant Tragedy
- |
- Fabled Heroic Member
Congratulations. You're literate!
Posted by: Enemy of Godd
I agree with what was said early on - confidence comes from not caring what other people think of you. If you have to run through this list and make sure you're not doing anything wrong in a desperate attempt to make friends/get a girl, then you're looking in the wrong places.The thing about "confidence coming from not caring what other people think of you" is that it's not entirely true. There's a fine line between not letting what people think define you, and not caring at all about what people think. People's opinions will always be important, especially when they can give you something that you want (a job, a home/car loan, a second date, etc.) but confidence is about not being at the mercy of other people's standards. It's about taking charge of the way you carry yourself. Superficial changes can only get you so far.