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Subject: Guys, I seriously need some help with this girl. I'm 16.

Posted by: Quest is back

Posted by: Garem
Just support her. Having a family is more important than going to college.

No, it's not.
Yes, it is.

Money doesn't bring happiness, but love does. And the goal of life is to be happy and love.

  • 11.28.2012 8:47 PM PDT

Ha, another high schooler falls to pull out efficiently!

  • 11.28.2012 8:47 PM PDT

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Posted by: Korpse
We were talking about adoption, but, her parents would find out for sure. Her dad is an -blam!-.

Not necessarily OP, make her carry a large blanket around with her for 9 months. Then he'll just think she's crazy.

  • 11.28.2012 8:48 PM PDT

The reason I cam here is because we're the only people that know about this. No one does, not even our friends. I don't think she'll like the idea of abortion too much. I honestly don't know if I would either. I mean, it's a life.

  • 11.28.2012 8:49 PM PDT


Posted by: Garem
Posted by: Quest is back

Posted by: Garem
Just support her. Having a family is more important than going to college.

No, it's not.
Yes, it is.

Money doesn't bring happiness, but love does. And the goal of life is to be happy and love.


So you go to college to support that person.

Cause you can't really support a family of two on a High School education very easily...

  • 11.28.2012 8:50 PM PDT

Constructing a time machine is the only option.

  • 11.28.2012 8:51 PM PDT


Posted by: Korpse
The reason I cam here is because we're the only people that know about this. No one does, not even our friends. I don't think she'll like the idea of abortion too much. I honestly don't know if I would either. I mean, it's a life.


This may start an argument, but it is just a collection of cells as most. You'd kill more life if you burned your finger on the stove...

  • 11.28.2012 8:51 PM PDT


Posted by: Korpse
Alright, I've liked this pretty young thing in my class for awhile now. She isn't your typical stuck-up cheerleader, who's all snobby, and wants to sleep with the entire football team. She's a book worm and she's really shy. She's also a good girl. Well, so I've thought.
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Had to stop reading there.

Quit watching high school T.V shows meant for teenage girls, because that's obviously where you're getting your information if you believe in that ridiculous stereotype.

  • 11.28.2012 8:53 PM PDT

Posted by: crispychicken49
Posted by: Korpse
The reason I cam here is because we're the only people that know about this. No one does, not even our friends. I don't think she'll like the idea of abortion too much. I honestly don't know if I would either. I mean, it's a life.


This may start an argument, but it is just a collection of cells as most. You'd kill more life if you burned your finger on the stove...

I don't agree with that. I don't know if I'd feel comfortable the rest of my life knowing I took mine and her childs life, just to benefit ours. All this is just stressing me out.

  • 11.28.2012 8:53 PM PDT

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Posted by: Korpse
Alright, I've liked this pretty young thing in my class for awhile now. She isn't your typical stuck-up cheerleader, who's all snobby, and wants to sleep with the entire football team. She's a book worm and she's really shy. She's also a good girl. Well, so I've thought.
\

Had to stop reading there.

Quit watching high school T.V shows meant for teenage girls, because that's obviously where you're getting your information if you believe in that ridiculous stereotype.

I don't watch TV nor stereotype.

  • 11.28.2012 8:54 PM PDT


Posted by: crispychicken49

Posted by: Korpse
The reason I cam here is because we're the only people that know about this. No one does, not even our friends. I don't think she'll like the idea of abortion too much. I honestly don't know if I would either. I mean, it's a life.


This may start an argument, but it is just a collection of cells as most. You'd kill more life if you burned your finger on the stove...

  • 11.28.2012 8:55 PM PDT
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Posted by: Garem
Posted by: Quest is back

Posted by: Garem
Just support her. Having a family is more important than going to college.

No, it's not.
Yes, it is.

Money doesn't bring happiness, but love does. And the goal of life is to be happy and love.

Having a family isn't any more important than getting a college education. We aren't living for survival anymore. If you want to tell him to limit himself by settling with whatever job he can get just to support a family with a girl he'll probably break up with, so be it.

  • 11.28.2012 8:56 PM PDT

Posted by: crispychicken49

Posted by: Garem
Posted by: Quest is back

Posted by: Garem
Just support her. Having a family is more important than going to college.

No, it's not.
Yes, it is.

Money doesn't bring happiness, but love does. And the goal of life is to be happy and love.


So you go to college to support that person.

Cause you can't really support a family of two on a High School education very easily...
But if you don't have a family to support, your college education was useless.

  • 11.28.2012 8:56 PM PDT

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If you keep it, can you provide a good life? Honestly, being a parent is tons of work, and at your age it would severly hinder your chances for higher education. The girl would have an even harder time, and in the end do you think that child will have a happy life? If you can't provide that, then do reconsider your options.
Posted by: Korpse
I don't agree with that. I don't know if I'd feel comfortable the rest of my life knowing I took mine and her childs life, just to benefit ours. All this is just stressing me out.

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Posted by: Korpse
The reason I cam here is because we're the only people that know about this. No one does, not even our friends. I don't think she'll like the idea of abortion too much. I honestly don't know if I would either. I mean, it's a life.
Not if it doesn't have a heartbeat.

  • 11.28.2012 8:57 PM PDT

Should've finished in the mouth.

Just get an abortion.

[Edited on 11.28.2012 8:57 PM PST]

  • 11.28.2012 8:57 PM PDT

Posted by: Quest is back
Having a family isn't any more important than getting a college education. We aren't living for survival anymore. If you want to tell him to limit himself by settling with whatever job he can get just to support a family with a girl he'll probably break up with, so be it.

Did I ever imply that I was using the word "family" in a primitive, survival sense? No. Families are born out of love. And happiness comes from love.

The goal of life is to be happy, not to be rich or smart.

  • 11.28.2012 8:59 PM PDT

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Just want to hop off-topic to disagree with you a bit. Sure, you can support a family by going to college, but many people also go to contribute to society. Roads don't build themselves, and those with extra income are more likely to donate to charities.
Posted by: Garem
But if you don't have a family to support, your college education was useless.

  • 11.28.2012 8:59 PM PDT


Posted by: Garem
Posted by: crispychicken49

Posted by: Garem
Posted by: Quest is back

Posted by: Garem
Just support her. Having a family is more important than going to college.

No, it's not.
Yes, it is.

Money doesn't bring happiness, but love does. And the goal of life is to be happy and love.


So you go to college to support that person.

Cause you can't really support a family of two on a High School education very easily...
But if you don't have a family to support, your college education was useless.


...or live in a bad lifestyle where you put relationship stress and run the risk of losing that love. Pick your choice. Have the money to help support your love and continue a family, or not have the money and risk stresses that can end your love.

Also OP, don't think of it as taking the life of your kid. Think of it as saving it in a way. Ask yourself, do you really think you could be a good father at your current age? Would the kid live a life greater than it would had it been ten, fifteen years later? It may be hard but it could also be the best situation.

  • 11.28.2012 9:01 PM PDT
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Posted by: Garem
Posted by: Quest is back
Having a family isn't any more important than getting a college education. We aren't living for survival anymore. If you want to tell him to limit himself by settling with whatever job he can get just to support a family with a girl he'll probably break up with, so be it.

Did I ever imply that I was using the word "family" in a primitive, survival sense? No. Families are born out of love. And happiness comes from love.

The goal of life is to be happy, not to be rich or smart.

Are you -blam!- retarded? Cut it out with "0mg l0ve d00d." Love is great, but having someone lose a great future to lack of education isn't something you can sacrifice so easily. You're going to end up working a -blam!- job because you couldn't receive a college degree. Love doesn't pay the bills, or the rent.

  • 11.28.2012 9:02 PM PDT
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Posted by: Garem
Posted by: Quest is back
Having a family isn't any more important than getting a college education. We aren't living for survival anymore. If you want to tell him to limit himself by settling with whatever job he can get just to support a family with a girl he'll probably break up with, so be it.

Did I ever imply that I was using the word "family" in a primitive, survival sense? No. Families are born out of love. And happiness comes from love.

The goal of life is to be happy, not to be rich or smart.

And you can be perfectly happy without a family. Happiness is subjective.

  • 11.28.2012 9:03 PM PDT
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Posted by: Garem
Posted by: Quest is back
Having a family isn't any more important than getting a college education. We aren't living for survival anymore. If you want to tell him to limit himself by settling with whatever job he can get just to support a family with a girl he'll probably break up with, so be it.

Did I ever imply that I was using the word "family" in a primitive, survival sense? No. Families are born out of love. And happiness comes from love.

The goal of life is to be happy, not to be rich or smart.

Are you -blam!- retarded? Cut it out with "0mg l0ve d00d." Love is great, but having someone lose a great future to lack of education isn't something you can sacrifice so easily. You're going to end up working a -blam!- job because you couldn't receive a college degree. Love doesn't pay the bills, or the rent.
Which is why you need balance in your life.

  • 11.28.2012 9:03 PM PDT

Posted by: IlluminatiNWO
Are you -blam!- retarded? Cut it out with "0mg l0ve d00d." Love is great, but having someone lose a great future to lack of education isn't something you can sacrifice so easily. You're going to end up working a -blam!- job because you couldn't receive a college degree. Love doesn't pay the bills, or the rent.

When you truly love someone, none of that matters.

  • 11.28.2012 9:04 PM PDT

kill her

  • 11.28.2012 9:05 PM PDT
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Posted by: Korpse
Alright, I've liked this pretty young thing in my class for awhile now. She isn't your typical stuck-up cheerleader, who's all snobby, and wants to sleep with the entire football team. She's a book worm and she's really shy. She's also a good girl. Well, so I've thought.

In the past we talk to each other off an on during class. I've developed feelings for her and she has said the same. This isn't my first rodeo with a girl. I've had a few girlfriends in the past, but she's different. Here's why.

Her sex drive is always through the roof. Seriously, she'll be texting me during the day saying she's horny and she wants to makeout and all that. She claims she is a virgin but I'm not sure. All my friends say, "Who gives a -blam!-, -blam!- her already." I would, but, I really care about this girl and she's kind whorish. Weird predicament, eh?

Well one day I was extremely aroused and of course, so was she. And during our lunch hour... we had sex out in the parking lot. I couldn't help it. All of this was a couple weeks ago. I used a condom but apparently one of my swimmers broke through. I'm terrified and I don't know how to bring this up to my parents and hers too. What do I do Flood? I'm so stressed out. I've -blam!- up.


Well that escalated quickly...

  • 11.28.2012 9:11 PM PDT

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