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Subject: My aunt is abused by her husband.

“I didn't want to wake up. I was having a much better time asleep. And that's really sad. It was almost like a reverse nightmare, like when you wake up from a nightmare you're so relieved. I woke up into a nightmare.”

This is a serious thread and I need help, this is real and if you want to troll please not here. Thank you.

I was drinking scotch with some family, including my aunt and my uncle. Lets call my aunt Julie, and my uncle James.

So Julie needed a jump start for her car, and James went to help her. About 10 minutes later I heard someone scream. When I went to check on them, she was crying- he looked at me and walked into the house. She said he threw her at the fence. Then he had her in a headlock and punched her in the face.

My other uncle heard us and sided with his brother albeit his brother was wrong. I told him,"It's about who's right not who you're related to."

She drove me and my fiance home, and I told her I was gonna call the police on him, and she told me she doesn't want him to go in jail because he is a good father to the children and she still loves him.

What should I do guys? She isn't related to me, but in all honesty, I would hurt someone who is related to me for treating her wrong just because she treated me like she was a blood relative before she got married to him. Honestly, next time I see him look at her, I'm probably gonna hurt him.

  • 12.01.2012 10:28 PM PDT

My Brahman is ready.

He wants the dick.

  • 12.01.2012 10:29 PM PDT

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ME2 was known for stupidity and being retarded

Surprise buttsecks.

  • 12.01.2012 10:30 PM PDT

I like to play Reach for fun. I hate MLG, campers, armor lock, and team killers because they ruin that fun. Deal with it.

Do what you think is right. Being a blood relative isn't a get-out-of-jail-free card.

  • 12.01.2012 10:30 PM PDT

Every member of the Covenant shall walk the path. None will be left behind when our Great Journey begins. That is the Prophets' age-old promise, and it shall be fulfilled!

Confront him and force him to repent.

  • 12.01.2012 10:30 PM PDT

Wait 4 Halo 4.

call the cops

  • 12.01.2012 10:31 PM PDT

Studies show that men think about sex every 7 seconds. I do my best to eat hotdogs in under 6, just so things don't get weird.

Please allow me to introduce Myself
I'm a man of wealth and taste
I've been around for a long, long year
Stole many a man's soul and faith

Call the police. Its a hard thing, but abused spouses frequently do this. My own mother did.

The cycle of violence will not end unless something intervenes. Unfortunately, the stakes are too high to respect someone's wishes for privacy, especially since children are involved.

Don't you handle it. Contact the police and let them sort it out.

  • 12.01.2012 10:31 PM PDT

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...You asked for help from the Flood on a matter such as this?

  • 12.01.2012 10:31 PM PDT

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Call the police.

  • 12.01.2012 10:33 PM PDT
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I'm listeni- Oh wait I don't give a -blam!- what you have to say.

Call the police. If she chooses not to press charges it's her own fault.

  • 12.01.2012 10:34 PM PDT

“I didn't want to wake up. I was having a much better time asleep. And that's really sad. It was almost like a reverse nightmare, like when you wake up from a nightmare you're so relieved. I woke up into a nightmare.”


Posted by: MyNameIsCharlie
Call the police. Its a hard thing, but abused spouses frequently do this. My own mother did.

The cycle of violence will not end unless something intervenes. Unfortunately, the stakes are too high to respect someone's wishes for privacy, especially since children are involved.

Don't you handle it. Contact the police and let them sort it out.

This is what I was thinking, I invited her to spend the night with my fiance and I. My father is in town, and he knew them both since they were around 15. He said he will talk to them about it. Even if he pledges to stop, I won't let him near her, so we're gonna make him stop, but if he tries to even talk to her I will call the police.

Does that sound reasonable? I've been in jail and it's not very pleasant.

  • 12.01.2012 10:36 PM PDT

Call the Foundation for Law and Government.

  • 12.01.2012 10:37 PM PDT

Mate, you should kill him.

  • 12.01.2012 10:38 PM PDT

Hdawger, the wizard of the mountains.

She obviously isn't giving him enough head. That would drive any man to the breaking point.

  • 12.01.2012 10:40 PM PDT
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I'm listeni- Oh wait I don't give a -blam!- what you have to say.


Posted by: elites rock

Posted by: MyNameIsCharlie
Call the police. Its a hard thing, but abused spouses frequently do this. My own mother did.

The cycle of violence will not end unless something intervenes. Unfortunately, the stakes are too high to respect someone's wishes for privacy, especially since children are involved.

Don't you handle it. Contact the police and let them sort it out.

This is what I was thinking, I invited her to spend the night with my fiance and I. My father is in town, and he knew them both since they were around 15. He said he will talk to them about it. Even if he pledges to stop, I won't let him near her, so we're gonna make him stop, but if he tries to even talk to her I will call the police.

Does that sound reasonable? I've been in jail and it's not very pleasant.
So you're just going to keep your aunt away from him for the rest of her life?

  • 12.01.2012 10:41 PM PDT

Studies show that men think about sex every 7 seconds. I do my best to eat hotdogs in under 6, just so things don't get weird.

Please allow me to introduce Myself
I'm a man of wealth and taste
I've been around for a long, long year
Stole many a man's soul and faith


Posted by: elites rock

Posted by: MyNameIsCharlie
Call the police. Its a hard thing, but abused spouses frequently do this. My own mother did.

The cycle of violence will not end unless something intervenes. Unfortunately, the stakes are too high to respect someone's wishes for privacy, especially since children are involved.

Don't you handle it. Contact the police and let them sort it out.

This is what I was thinking, I invited her to spend the night with my fiance and I. My father is in town, and he knew them both since they were around 15. He said he will talk to them about it. Even if he pledges to stop, I won't let him near her, so we're gonna make him stop, but if he tries to even talk to her I will call the police.

Does that sound reasonable? I've been in jail and it's not very pleasant.
Too reasonable. I would just call the police. They take this very seriously now.

They used to just ignore it, which predictably led to a lot of dead spouses. There was a public out cry, and now there are procedures that have to be followed. Procedures that will almost always get to the bottom of things and have help for those who need it.

But, since you have the rest of the family there, I understand that there are other dynamics happening. If it looks like she will just end up going home with him again, call the cops and end the situation for her.

  • 12.01.2012 10:41 PM PDT

“I didn't want to wake up. I was having a much better time asleep. And that's really sad. It was almost like a reverse nightmare, like when you wake up from a nightmare you're so relieved. I woke up into a nightmare.”


Posted by: Frasier Crane

Posted by: elites rock

Posted by: MyNameIsCharlie
Call the police. Its a hard thing, but abused spouses frequently do this. My own mother did.

The cycle of violence will not end unless something intervenes. Unfortunately, the stakes are too high to respect someone's wishes for privacy, especially since children are involved.

Don't you handle it. Contact the police and let them sort it out.

This is what I was thinking, I invited her to spend the night with my fiance and I. My father is in town, and he knew them both since they were around 15. He said he will talk to them about it. Even if he pledges to stop, I won't let him near her, so we're gonna make him stop, but if he tries to even talk to her I will call the police.

Does that sound reasonable? I've been in jail and it's not very pleasant.
So you're just going to keep your aunt away from him for the rest of her life?

They are married but don't live together, he lives in New York, she lives in Florida with the kids.


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Posted by: elites rock

Posted by: MyNameIsCharlie
Call the police. Its a hard thing, but abused spouses frequently do this. My own mother did.

The cycle of violence will not end unless something intervenes. Unfortunately, the stakes are too high to respect someone's wishes for privacy, especially since children are involved.

Don't you handle it. Contact the police and let them sort it out.

This is what I was thinking, I invited her to spend the night with my fiance and I. My father is in town, and he knew them both since they were around 15. He said he will talk to them about it. Even if he pledges to stop, I won't let him near her, so we're gonna make him stop, but if he tries to even talk to her I will call the police.

Does that sound reasonable? I've been in jail and it's not very pleasant.
Too reasonable. I would just call the police. They take this very seriously now.

They used to just ignore it, which predictably led to a lot of dead spouses. There was a public out cry, and now there are procedures that have to be followed. Procedures that will almost always get to the bottom of things and have help for those who need it.

But, since you have the rest of the family there, I understand that there are other dynamics happening. If it looks like she will just end up going home with him again, call the cops and end the situation for her.

I see, I will. Thank you for taking this seriously Charlie.

  • 12.01.2012 10:43 PM PDT

Call the police. I know she cares and won't want him to go to jail but it's for the best. He shouldn't do that. It's possible that if you don't intervene in this he could go too far one night and kill her. Then she's dead, he's in prison, and the kids have no parents.

  • 12.01.2012 10:44 PM PDT
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So do all who live to see such times, but that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.

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Call the police.

  • 12.01.2012 10:46 PM PDT
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Posted by: elites rock
She drove me and my fiance home, and I told her I was gonna call the police on him, and she told me she doesn't want him to go in jail because he is a good father to the children and she still loves him.

Lol wow. Leave her alone OP, she's one of those skanks addicted to dominant men.

  • 12.01.2012 10:52 PM PDT

Studies show that men think about sex every 7 seconds. I do my best to eat hotdogs in under 6, just so things don't get weird.

Please allow me to introduce Myself
I'm a man of wealth and taste
I've been around for a long, long year
Stole many a man's soul and faith


Posted by: elites rock

Posted by: Frasier Crane

Posted by: elites rock

Posted by: MyNameIsCharlie
Call the police. Its a hard thing, but abused spouses frequently do this. My own mother did.

The cycle of violence will not end unless something intervenes. Unfortunately, the stakes are too high to respect someone's wishes for privacy, especially since children are involved.

Don't you handle it. Contact the police and let them sort it out.

This is what I was thinking, I invited her to spend the night with my fiance and I. My father is in town, and he knew them both since they were around 15. He said he will talk to them about it. Even if he pledges to stop, I won't let him near her, so we're gonna make him stop, but if he tries to even talk to her I will call the police.

Does that sound reasonable? I've been in jail and it's not very pleasant.
So you're just going to keep your aunt away from him for the rest of her life?

They are married but don't live together, he lives in New York, she lives in Florida with the kids.


Posted by: MyNameIsCharlie

Posted by: elites rock

Posted by: MyNameIsCharlie
Call the police. Its a hard thing, but abused spouses frequently do this. My own mother did.

The cycle of violence will not end unless something intervenes. Unfortunately, the stakes are too high to respect someone's wishes for privacy, especially since children are involved.

Don't you handle it. Contact the police and let them sort it out.

This is what I was thinking, I invited her to spend the night with my fiance and I. My father is in town, and he knew them both since they were around 15. He said he will talk to them about it. Even if he pledges to stop, I won't let him near her, so we're gonna make him stop, but if he tries to even talk to her I will call the police.

Does that sound reasonable? I've been in jail and it's not very pleasant.
Too reasonable. I would just call the police. They take this very seriously now.

They used to just ignore it, which predictably led to a lot of dead spouses. There was a public out cry, and now there are procedures that have to be followed. Procedures that will almost always get to the bottom of things and have help for those who need it.

But, since you have the rest of the family there, I understand that there are other dynamics happening. If it looks like she will just end up going home with him again, call the cops and end the situation for her.

I see, I will. Thank you for taking this seriously Charlie.
No worries bro. Just keep resolute in what you do, and don't let him bully you. He will try.

  • 12.01.2012 10:54 PM PDT

“I didn't want to wake up. I was having a much better time asleep. And that's really sad. It was almost like a reverse nightmare, like when you wake up from a nightmare you're so relieved. I woke up into a nightmare.”


Posted by: Michael Balzary

Posted by: elites rock
She drove me and my fiance home, and I told her I was gonna call the police on him, and she told me she doesn't want him to go in jail because he is a good father to the children and she still loves him.

Lol wow. Leave her alone OP, she's one of those skanks addicted to dominant men.

What if I told you, no matter how bad someone hurts you, once you've had kids together- you'll always have this love for them that is un-explainable. So don't judge her, especially since she's one of those people that's showed me more love than someone blood-related to me.

  • 12.01.2012 10:55 PM PDT

Studies show that men think about sex every 7 seconds. I do my best to eat hotdogs in under 6, just so things don't get weird.

Please allow me to introduce Myself
I'm a man of wealth and taste
I've been around for a long, long year
Stole many a man's soul and faith


Posted by: elites rock

Posted by: Michael Balzary

Posted by: elites rock
She drove me and my fiance home, and I told her I was gonna call the police on him, and she told me she doesn't want him to go in jail because he is a good father to the children and she still loves him.

Lol wow. Leave her alone OP, she's one of those skanks addicted to dominant men.

What if I told you, no matter how bad someone hurts you, once you've had kids together- you'll always have this love for them that is un-explainable. So don't judge her, especially since she's one of those people that's showed me more love than someone blood-related to me.
He's trolling, don't dignify him with a response. That's what he's fishing for.

  • 12.01.2012 10:55 PM PDT

Trussingdoor is pretty kewl. He fires lasers and doesn't afraid of anything.

Listen to Charlie. Do it.

  • 12.01.2012 11:00 PM PDT

Challenge me to a Hawaiian Punch chugging contest. I dare you.


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$.50 in store credit.


Posted by: TrussingDoor
Listen to Charlie. Do it.
I agree with this, and everything Charlie has said. Call the popo patrol and get her help. It's gonna be rough, but it's for the best i think.

  • 12.01.2012 11:14 PM PDT

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