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Subject: Should I stll bother? (girl thread)
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So I've made friends with a girl I hardly talked to up until these past few weeks, and I started to grow feelings for her as we got to be better friends, but then I found out she has a boyfriend. But I don't want to give up I feel like she's into me, she loves the fact that I play guitar, can't get enough of my hair,and overall loves to hear me talk about music.She hardly talks about her boyfriend if at all, but I still don't see any ending point for those two. Do you guys think it's still worth it to keep on going after her?

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  • 12.05.2012 2:27 PM PDT
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God not another girl thread.

OT: Just keep an eye on her. If she splits with him, go after her. Don't make her cheat on him or you will be the biggest asshat on the planet. That also means don't flirt with her or even "go after" her.

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  • 12.05.2012 2:28 PM PDT
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I?

I am a monument to all your sins.


Posted by: YourdogdiedLOL

  • 12.05.2012 2:28 PM PDT

I... am in the exact same situation. 0.o

  • 12.05.2012 2:29 PM PDT

You do realize that all you're going to get is "lolfriendzoned", "toast-envelope", stick it in the pooper" etc do you? You don't actually expect meaningful advice right?

EDIT: guess I was wrong *shrugs*

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  • 12.05.2012 2:29 PM PDT
Subject: Should I stll bother/ (girl thread)

~khristian

keep on going

  • 12.05.2012 2:29 PM PDT

Studies show that men think about sex every 7 seconds. I do my best to eat hotdogs in under 6, just so things don't get weird.

Please allow me to introduce Myself
I'm a man of wealth and taste
I've been around for a long, long year
Stole many a man's soul and faith

It sounds like she's interested, but she may just want you as a friend. Just be cool, and make your move when you get the opportunity.

  • 12.05.2012 2:29 PM PDT
Subject: Should I stll bother? (girl thread)

Honestly, you know she's in a relationship with someone already. I'm going to assume you're high school age. So, with that being said, be responsible and leave it be. Wait until she breaks up with him, or vice versa and then go ahead and pursue. Don't be a dick.

  • 12.05.2012 2:30 PM PDT

Please stop complaining about the 'death of a loved one' it's my job. They probably deserved it anyways. Here's a warning, if you keep making pentagrams out of the neighbors livestock I will personally come to your house and kill everyone you love. Now leave me alone, I got to get back to work.
~M.D~

Goodness, all these guys going after girls they have no chance with, so sad. Aim where you can hit, brah

  • 12.05.2012 2:30 PM PDT
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Yup.


Posted by: Gamerz_Property
Honestly, you know she's in a relationship with someone already. I'm going to assume you're high school age. So, with that being said, be responsible and leave it be. Wait until she breaks up with him, or vice versa and then go ahead and pursue. Don't be a dick.

  • 12.05.2012 2:31 PM PDT
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Posted by: St Major Dan
I... am in the exact same situation. 0.o
Like the exact same? with the music and hair and everything?

  • 12.05.2012 2:33 PM PDT


Posted by: YourdogdiedLOL

Posted by: St Major Dan
I... am in the exact same situation. 0.o
Like the exact same? with the music and hair and everything?

Ish.

  • 12.05.2012 2:33 PM PDT
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Posted by: St Major Dan

Posted by: YourdogdiedLOL

Posted by: St Major Dan
I... am in the exact same situation. 0.o
Like the exact same? with the music and hair and everything?

Ish.
That's kinda weird.... well how are you handling it?

  • 12.05.2012 2:34 PM PDT

Marine Corps.
Semper Fi.

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My problems [with Reach] are basically just full parties, mlg, and people who go out of their way not to get killed.


Posted by: FloodPsychologis

Posted by: Gamerz_Property
Honestly, you know she's in a relationship with someone already. I'm going to assume you're high school age. So, with that being said, be responsible and leave it be. Wait until she breaks up with him, or vice versa and then go ahead and pursue. Don't be a dick.


This. Just because she doesn't talk about the guy or has a flirtatious personality doesn't mean she's in to you. Hell, she might be. But wait for her to make that decision herself. Don't be that guy who tries to start breaking people up.

  • 12.05.2012 2:35 PM PDT

Keep going at it, get really close to her then if/when they break up get straight in there. Obviously don't be insensitive if/when they break up.

  • 12.05.2012 2:35 PM PDT

Currently studying Computer Science & Software engineering. Hope to work on mobile devices of the future! When a certain game's credits roll, look out for my name! ;)

You will -blam!- bricks when you see what game it is! =)

She has a boyfriend, so please dont ruin their lives.

  • 12.05.2012 2:36 PM PDT
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Posted by: Viper Skills

Posted by: FloodPsychologis

Posted by: Gamerz_Property
Honestly, you know she's in a relationship with someone already. I'm going to assume you're high school age. So, with that being said, be responsible and leave it be. Wait until she breaks up with him, or vice versa and then go ahead and pursue. Don't be a dick.


This. Just because she doesn't talk about the guy or has a flirtatious personality doesn't mean she's in to you. Hell, she might be. But wait for her to make that decision herself. Don't be that guy who tries to start breaking people up.
I don't want to be that guy, it's just driving me nuts trying to figure out if she's into me or not.

  • 12.05.2012 2:36 PM PDT

I'm hated by many, but loved by none.

Read this poem I wrote about girls...


This is the last time the paper meets the pen. No more wasting my breath on some no good heartless chick. I've wasted too much time spitting out these rhymes it feel like suicide. The mere thought of you running through my mind is slowly killing me inside. Girl you walked all over me like the dirt beneath your feet. If you believe in true love why don't you believe in me? Your loves a prison I'm trapped inside these walls concrete. But I've served my time. I'm breaking out out of my life sentence, complete.

  • 12.05.2012 2:37 PM PDT

Posted by: The Kangol Kid
It was then that I decided he really is like semen(everywhere) and I gave up on life.


zoobkillerninja <3

No.

  • 12.05.2012 2:37 PM PDT

Marine Corps.
Semper Fi.

Posted by: Wikked Navajoe
My problems [with Reach] are basically just full parties, mlg, and people who go out of their way not to get killed.


Posted by: YourdogdiedLOL

Posted by: Viper Skills

Posted by: FloodPsychologis

Posted by: Gamerz_Property
Honestly, you know she's in a relationship with someone already. I'm going to assume you're high school age. So, with that being said, be responsible and leave it be. Wait until she breaks up with him, or vice versa and then go ahead and pursue. Don't be a dick.


This. Just because she doesn't talk about the guy or has a flirtatious personality doesn't mean she's in to you. Hell, she might be. But wait for her to make that decision herself. Don't be that guy who tries to start breaking people up.
I don't want to be that guy, it's just driving me nuts trying to figure out if she's into me or not.


Yeah, I know it is. But this is one of those times where you more or less have to stow your feelings for her and play it safe.

If you really like her then be her friend and wait for them to break up. If they don't, then hey, be happy for her.

How well do you know her? Is it a crush or a friendship-type thing?

  • 12.05.2012 2:40 PM PDT


Posted by: YourdogdiedLOL

Posted by: St Major Dan

Posted by: YourdogdiedLOL

Posted by: St Major Dan
I... am in the exact same situation. 0.o
Like the exact same? with the music and hair and everything?

Ish.
That's kinda weird.... well how are you handling it?
Badly.

  • 12.05.2012 2:40 PM PDT
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Posted by: Viper Skills

Posted by: YourdogdiedLOL

Posted by: Viper Skills

Posted by: FloodPsychologis

Posted by: Gamerz_Property
Honestly, you know she's in a relationship with someone already. I'm going to assume you're high school age. So, with that being said, be responsible and leave it be. Wait until she breaks up with him, or vice versa and then go ahead and pursue. Don't be a dick.


This. Just because she doesn't talk about the guy or has a flirtatious personality doesn't mean she's in to you. Hell, she might be. But wait for her to make that decision herself. Don't be that guy who tries to start breaking people up.
I don't want to be that guy, it's just driving me nuts trying to figure out if she's into me or not.


Yeah, I know it is. But this is one of those times where you more or less have to stow your feelings for her and play it safe.

If you really like her then be her friend and wait for them to break up. If they don't, then hey, be happy for her.

How well do you know her? Is it a crush or a friendship-type thing?
Well we were friends way back in 6th grade, then stopped talking until now when I saw her again in my study hall. And I guess it's more of a friendship type of thing, I talk to her fairly regularly and I'm not antisocial around her at all.

  • 12.05.2012 2:42 PM PDT

Marine Corps.
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Posted by: Wikked Navajoe
My problems [with Reach] are basically just full parties, mlg, and people who go out of their way not to get killed.


Posted by: YourdogdiedLOL
Well we were friends way back in 6th grade, then stopped talking until now when I saw her again in my study hall. And I guess it's more of a friendship type of thing, I talk to her fairly regularly and I'm not antisocial around her at all.


And how is her current relationship going?

  • 12.05.2012 2:42 PM PDT
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Posted by: Viper Skills

Posted by: YourdogdiedLOL
Well we were friends way back in 6th grade, then stopped talking until now when I saw her again in my study hall. And I guess it's more of a friendship type of thing, I talk to her fairly regularly and I'm not antisocial around her at all.
And how is her current relationship going?
I don't know, I never hear her complain about it, but she rarely ever talks about it anyways.

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  • 12.05.2012 2:45 PM PDT

Marine Corps.
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Posted by: Wikked Navajoe
My problems [with Reach] are basically just full parties, mlg, and people who go out of their way not to get killed.

I see. Well, this may not be what you want to hear but the most you can do is be her friend until something happens.

Especially if you want a long-term relationship for her then you should be aiming for what's best for her.

Or you can also keep your eyes open for someone else, you know? You'd be surprised what can happen.

  • 12.05.2012 2:48 PM PDT

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