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- Elder Mythic Member
I remember when I used this space to put cool looking links to my chapters back in the day. I don't even know why I'm using it now. Why are you even reading this? You must be interested in me. Still reading?
Unless you are in middle school or still stuck in your "YOLO" phase (I hate even thinking of that), then you should always take a relationship seriously.
Showing faithfulness is something that only that one person will be able to see. To me, faithfulness should come in a packaged deal with trust, honesty, being open with one another, and not having to ask or check to see if the other person's feelings are the same.
I have seen both boys and girls get cheated on and it is disgusting and depressing. The feeling of two people being bonded together and what they share is kept exclusively to each other is completely betrayed and forgotten about. If the idea of cheating crosses your mind and you plan on hooking up or being with someone else, even if it is only a one night thing or in the moment, you should at least end the relationship you are in beforehand and at least show that small glimmer of respect.If you decide otherwise and think you can get away with it, then you should be ashamed.
Before you make a decision like cheating, it's always a good idea to put yourself in the other person's shoes. How would you feel if you found out someone had been cheating on you and keeping it from you for so long? It would probably make you feel like everything you went through together was fake and for nothing.
I don't forgive cheaters nor do I associate myself with "friends" who cheat.