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Subject: How do you deal with losing friends?

So yeah, out of the 5 or so friends I have, I lost 2 of them today. Well actually, I didn't, I realised they were never my friends, and it hurts like a -blam!-. They were probably my two best friends as well.

So how do you deal with losing friends, or finding out a harsh truth?

  • 12.07.2012 8:41 AM PDT
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Posted by: foreveraloner35

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Posted by: Pubic Wars

Posted by: foreveraloner35

  • 12.07.2012 8:42 AM PDT

"I will show you how a true Prussian officer fights!"

"And i will show you where the iron crosses grow..."

- "Cross of Iron"

Keep on keeping on

  • 12.07.2012 8:42 AM PDT
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My new account is enyad

Alcohol and Halo.

  • 12.07.2012 8:43 AM PDT


Posted by: Pubic Wars

Posted by: foreveraloner35


I noticed

  • 12.07.2012 8:43 AM PDT

It hurts but eventually you just move on

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Find new ones.

  • 12.07.2012 8:44 AM PDT

Posted by: The Kangol Kid
It was then that I decided he really is like semen(everywhere) and I gave up on life.


zoobkillerninja <3

Make new friends. I recently lost a friend of mine who had been my friend for damn near 8 years. After we "broke up" she said a lot of hurtful and nasty things which made me realize even more that we weren't meant to continue being friends.

If you can't deal or handle any differences between yourself and friends and it comes to an end, move on.

  • 12.07.2012 8:49 AM PDT


Posted by: CamCamm
Make new friends. I recently lost a friend of mine who had been my friend for damn near 8 years. After we "broke up" she said a lot of hurtful and nasty things which made me realize even more that we weren't meant to continue being friends.

If you can't deal or handle any differences between yourself and friends and it comes to an end, move on.


Yeah, I want to move on, I just wish it was as easy to do as it is to say, y'know :(

  • 12.07.2012 8:50 AM PDT

I'm an Indonesian Halo (and other games) gamer!
Bhineka Tunggal Ika!!

Lost two of my close friends (since elementary) in high school. They just... drifted away from me.

Kinda shame, really. I miss them but I don't really know how to get close to them again.

[Edited on 12.07.2012 8:53 AM PST]

  • 12.07.2012 8:51 AM PDT

Posted by: The Kangol Kid
It was then that I decided he really is like semen(everywhere) and I gave up on life.


zoobkillerninja <3

Posted by: foreveraloner35
Posted by: CamCamm
Make new friends. I recently lost a friend of mine who had been my friend for damn near 8 years. After we "broke up" she said a lot of hurtful and nasty things which made me realize even more that we weren't meant to continue being friends.

If you can't deal or handle any differences between yourself and friends and it comes to an end, move on.
Yeah, I want to move on, I just wish it was as easy to do as it is to say, y'know :(
I had moved 1,500 miles away from her so it was incredibly easy for me to get over.Posted by: Unit 076
Lost two of my close friends in high school. They just... drifted away from me.

Kinda shame, really. I miss them but I don't really know how to get close to them again.
THIS happens so often and it's natural. After high school, you start your own paths in life and most of the time they just aren't the same paths. Sometimes it's difficult and other times it's easy to see the reasons as to why it happens. It's all about understanding.

[Edited on 12.07.2012 8:54 AM PST]

  • 12.07.2012 8:52 AM PDT


Posted by: CamCamm
Posted by: foreveraloner35
Posted by: CamCamm
Make new friends. I recently lost a friend of mine who had been my friend for damn near 8 years. After we "broke up" she said a lot of hurtful and nasty things which made me realize even more that we weren't meant to continue being friends.

If you can't deal or handle any differences between yourself and friends and it comes to an end, move on.
Yeah, I want to move on, I just wish it was as easy to do as it is to say, y'know :(
I had moved 1,500 miles away from her so it was incredibly easy for me to get over.Posted by: Unit 076
Lost two of my close friends in high school. They just... drifted away from me.

Kinda shame, really. I miss them but I don't really know how to get close to them again.
THIS happens so often and it's natural. After high school, you start your own paths in life and most of the time they just aren't the same paths. Sometimes it's difficult and other times it's easy to see the reasons as to why it happens.


:) I can't be moving just now cause I'm still at school unfortunately

  • 12.07.2012 8:54 AM PDT
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Have you checked the Lost-n-Found?

  • 12.07.2012 8:56 AM PDT

Posted by: The Kangol Kid
It was then that I decided he really is like semen(everywhere) and I gave up on life.


zoobkillerninja <3


Posted by: Murcielago00
Have you checked the Lost-n-Found?
doho!

  • 12.07.2012 8:57 AM PDT

RIP Logan ~B.B.

Friends come and go. I haven't lost many abruptly, usually they just kinda fade out of your life. First, when everyone spreads out to different colleges, then different jobs, then everyone gets families of their own. I only have a couple old old friends I keep in close contact with.

  • 12.07.2012 8:57 AM PDT

Posted by: The Kangol Kid
It was then that I decided he really is like semen(everywhere) and I gave up on life.


zoobkillerninja <3


Posted by: Obi Wan Stevobi
then everyone gets families of their own.
This, suprisingly, is like a make or break thing.. imo. I've grown closer to a lot of friends due to having our own families now or kids and what not. I have also lost some friend due to things like this as well. Huge differences sometimes, especially when raising kids or friends who are still stuck in the past. (at least in my experience)

  • 12.07.2012 9:01 AM PDT


Posted by: CamCamm

Posted by: Obi Wan Stevobi
then everyone gets families of their own.
This, suprisingly, is like a make or break thing.. imo. I've grown closer to a lot of friends due to having our own families now or kids and what not. I have also lost some friend due to things like this as well. Huge differences sometimes, especially when raising kids or friends who are still stuck in the past. (at least in my experience)


This may be slightly relevant to my situation

  • 12.07.2012 9:10 AM PDT

"There's a very fine line between not listening, and not caring. I'd like to think that I walk that line every day."

My childhood best friend and I just sort of drifted apart after he moved away during middle school.

I'm still a bit sad about it from time to time, but that's that.

I've made other friends over the years, but (as I'm in college now) none of those friendships, I think, have really lasted either.

Sure, it's not like any of us hate each other or anything -- we just go our separate ways.

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  • 12.07.2012 9:14 AM PDT

Posted by: The Kangol Kid
It was then that I decided he really is like semen(everywhere) and I gave up on life.


zoobkillerninja <3

Posted by: foreveraloner35
Posted by: CamCamm
Posted by: Obi Wan Stevobi
then everyone gets families of their own.
This, suprisingly, is like a make or break thing.. imo. I've grown closer to a lot of friends due to having our own families now or kids and what not. I have also lost some friend due to things like this as well. Huge differences sometimes, especially when raising kids or friends who are still stuck in the past. (at least in my experience)
This may be slightly relevant to my situation
Could you explain how?

  • 12.07.2012 9:14 AM PDT


Posted by: CamCamm
Posted by: foreveraloner35
Posted by: CamCamm
Posted by: Obi Wan Stevobi
then everyone gets families of their own.
This, suprisingly, is like a make or break thing.. imo. I've grown closer to a lot of friends due to having our own families now or kids and what not. I have also lost some friend due to things like this as well. Huge differences sometimes, especially when raising kids or friends who are still stuck in the past. (at least in my experience)
This may be slightly relevant to my situation
Could you explain how?


Cause the 2 friends I lost were a couple, and maybe that's part of why they stopped speaking to me. Idk, I'm just guessing mostly.

  • 12.07.2012 9:15 AM PDT

After high school, I lost a lot of friends; or at least lost contact with a lot of them. Whenever I decide to go back to college though I'll just make new ones.

  • 12.07.2012 9:15 AM PDT

Quick as a razor, sharp as a bullet.

I get antagonistic and give them the silent treatment. Makes it easier to ignore them and then flush them away.

  • 12.07.2012 9:15 AM PDT

Dear tomorrow, Find some sensibility, Respond to emotion.
Dear Politician, Define sagacity,
All chances of survival are beginning to diminish.
Comedy is no excuse for our own blasphemies.
Mass media, Mass pessimism, Mass Denial.
My television tells me to panic, but I don't think I'll listen.
The apathetic force us to persevere, with their backwards priorities.

That's okay, 'cause I'm still fly.

  • 12.07.2012 9:16 AM PDT

I find something to keep myself pre occupied till my head is clear enough to deal with the situation. But trust me, that pain will always linger so don't be afraid if you can't get over it.

  • 12.07.2012 9:17 AM PDT

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