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Posted by: Viper Skills

Posted by: True Deception
People who view sex as a casual thing, and this is for both men and women, disgust me greatly. I won't openly admit it out of the blue, or actively attack people who hold those views, but I will let them know of my strong disapproval if my opinion of it is asked, like now for instance.


But why? What is wrong with the temporary indulgence of a physically pleasing activity that brings no harm to the self or others?


brings no harm to the self or others?

...What about STDs? Or unintended pregnancy?

  • 12.08.2012 8:48 PM PDT

Posted by: Baph117
This is an incredible step forward to being able to cure Downss sybndonre mn humans bineg.s

Posted by: And Im Here Too
...What about STDs? Or unintended pregnancy?


I hear there are these fancy new latex things you can wear to help with that.

  • 12.08.2012 8:50 PM PDT


Posted by: lI Maverick lI
Women are inherently extremely selfish and most are -blam!-es.


I agree. Most of my travels, I can say "most" are pretty bad. There are some diamonds in the rough though which is very good.

Most males I see... Not very good either.

  • 12.08.2012 8:50 PM PDT

Challenge me to a Hawaiian Punch chugging contest. I dare you.


Posted by: mubox47
$.50 in store credit.

This is one of those threads that reminds me of how silly the Flood gets when someone just gives them a little jab.

  • 12.08.2012 8:51 PM PDT

GAAAAYYY


Posted by: jaythenerdkid

Posted by: Prototype117

If so answer this? Why cant sex be kept as an act between a man and his wife to enjoy each other and reproduce?
Well, for starters, not all relationships are between two people who wish to reproduce, or even two people who can reproduce.

Leaving aside the sticky issue of LGBT relationships, what about couples where one partner is incapable of having children? Should they be celibate for life because their intimacy can't possibly result in offspring?

I think you understood me wrong. I'm not saying sex is only to reproduce, I'm saying sex is to reproduce and ALSO for two people who truly love each other to enjoy themselves together.

  • 12.08.2012 8:51 PM PDT

"Life is constantly fleeting from your grasp even from the very day it's bestowed upon you, but the shadow of death is always there, waiting for its chance to take you away."

"Even though many may not think so, ignorance and innocence are one and the same. The only difference is that one sounds nicer."

"I once knew a man who spent his entire life contemplating where we go after our death....it's a shame he realized it a second too late to tell anyone."


Posted by: SpecOps0

Posted by: lI Maverick lI
Women are inherently extremely selfish and most are -blam!-es.


I agree. Most of my travels, I can say "most" are pretty bad. There are some diamonds in the rough though which is very good.

Most males I see... Not very good either.
I was about to say, you'll find selfish behavior in both genders. The potential for such behavior is in each and every one of us, little to no exceptions.

  • 12.08.2012 8:52 PM PDT

Gather around the campfire, once it goes out, it's out for good.


Posted by: True Deception
I was about to say, you'll find selfish behavior in both genders. The potential for such behavior is in each and every one of us, little to no exceptions.
I think this is a good thought to think.

  • 12.08.2012 8:54 PM PDT

Marine Corps.
Semper Fi.

Posted by: Wikked Navajoe
My problems [with Reach] are basically just full parties, mlg, and people who go out of their way not to get killed.


Posted by: And Im Here Too
...What about STDs? Or unintended pregnancy?


That happens in a vast minority of the cases people have sex.

  • 12.08.2012 8:54 PM PDT

Here is how it works. If she cares about her looks, is an obvious attention whore and flaunts her -blam!-ity than she is liberated. If she is pious, modest and lives according to her faith then she is oppressed.

  • 12.08.2012 8:56 PM PDT


Posted by: jaythenerdkid

Posted by: Defogner

Posted by: Devastation182
It was that Cracked article that made me lose all my respect for that author. Especially the "whore" segment.

The writer hes mocking has some points. Most of the hot girls who cosplay probably know as much about those comics as i do, which isnt much. Outside of those conventions when they are not garnering attention they probably wouldnt even give those nerds the light of day.
Seriously?

Cosplay costumes require an incredible amount of time and effort to put together - most cosplayers make the costumes themselves from scratch. Cosplaying definitely requires a knowledge of the character in order to be effective. And even if it didn't - even if women just dressed up as hot characters in order to have a little fun - how does that make their enjoyment of the medium any less legitimate or valid than that of people who enjoy it in other ways? I read comics sometimes, and my preferred way of enjoying the fandom is talking about the comics I like with my friends on the internet and maybe writing a bit of fanfiction sometimes. That's no more or less valid than some girl reading a Catwoman story, deciding she likes the character, and dressing up as her for Comic-Con. It's not her fault if guys take her costume as some kind of invitation or promise where no such thing has been offered or implied. She's just having fun, which she's entitled to do. These things are just meant to be fun, you know.


It is all for fun, except that women cosplayers are completely blind that guys are going to come on to this kind of gesture. Or they are not blind to it and are doing it to get attention. Either way this leads to men getting the wrong idea and coming on to them, and they either act disgusted (the whores) or they go along with it. In the end they could just avoid all of this by not dressing up and asking for it. Now you're going to probably say "equal rights if men can do it women can brahghbrah" but it just doesnt work, women are dressing up skimpy to get attention from men and you know it. Some things are not the same. I think cosplays are alright unless shes in skintight clothing all bent over like i saw in one vid. It's kind of like why men can walk around with their shirts off and women cant.

[Edited on 12.08.2012 8:57 PM PST]

  • 12.08.2012 8:56 PM PDT

"Life is constantly fleeting from your grasp even from the very day it's bestowed upon you, but the shadow of death is always there, waiting for its chance to take you away."

"Even though many may not think so, ignorance and innocence are one and the same. The only difference is that one sounds nicer."

"I once knew a man who spent his entire life contemplating where we go after our death....it's a shame he realized it a second too late to tell anyone."


Posted by: eggsalad

Posted by: True Deception
I was about to say, you'll find selfish behavior in both genders. The potential for such behavior is in each and every one of us, little to no exceptions.
I think this is a good thought to think.
I think it's relatively true. I mean, who amongst us can honestly say they've never been selfish before? Hell, I have been, even though I try not to be. And i've seen the worst of myself in my head. The potential is there, and I know i'm not a minority who knows just how bad they can be.

  • 12.08.2012 8:56 PM PDT

Posted by: Baph117
This is an incredible step forward to being able to cure Downss sybndonre mn humans bineg.s

Posted by: Prototype117
I think you understood me wrong. I'm not saying sex is only to reproduce, I'm saying sex is to reproduce and ALSO for two people who truly love each other to enjoy themselves together.


Additionally, it's can be good fun regardless of whether or not you 'love' the other person(s) involved.

Posted by: Defogner
It is all for fun, except that women cosplayers are completely blind that guys are going to come on to this kind of gesture. Or they are not blind to it and are doing it to get attention. Either way this leads to men getting the wrong idea and coming on to them, and they either act disgusted (the whores) or they go along with it.


'She refused another person's advances? Wow, what a whore. She couldn't be more whorish unless she had actually accepted it and slept with a random stranger.'

lol

[Edited on 12.08.2012 8:58 PM PST]

  • 12.08.2012 8:56 PM PDT

Marine Corps.
Semper Fi.

Posted by: Wikked Navajoe
My problems [with Reach] are basically just full parties, mlg, and people who go out of their way not to get killed.


Posted by: Breaking Rose
Women are basically worse than men in a lot of scenarios. Physiologically and mentally. Also, a woman who has a lot of boyfriends is usually a slut. Take that for what you will. And women who engage in casual relationships get no respect.


This is basically the kind of thinking that created unequal societies (many of which still exist to this day) and the persecution of innocent people.

No where in your post did you say it was wrong for a man to do it. You just went on about how it's bad form for women.

  • 12.08.2012 8:57 PM PDT

Posted by: Kurosaki_Kun

I know, right?
Jay acts like she's better than everyone else simply because she's a chick.
I hope she chokes to death.


Posted by: Defogner

In the end they could just avoid all of this by not dressing up and asking for it.
Wow.

Just wow.

  • 12.08.2012 8:58 PM PDT

Posted by: Baph117
This is an incredible step forward to being able to cure Downss sybndonre mn humans bineg.s

Might want to ignore Rose, folks.

  • 12.08.2012 9:02 PM PDT

GAAAAYYY


Posted by: Seggi31
Posted by: Prototype117
I think you understood me wrong. I'm not saying sex is only to reproduce, I'm saying sex is to reproduce and ALSO for two people who truly love each other to enjoy themselves together.


Additionally, it's can be good fun regardless of whether or not you 'love' the other person(s) involved.

Yes but see if our perception of it is "just good fun" once your married as well what stops you from cheating? I mean its just good fun right?

  • 12.08.2012 9:02 PM PDT

Marine Corps.
Semper Fi.

Posted by: Wikked Navajoe
My problems [with Reach] are basically just full parties, mlg, and people who go out of their way not to get killed.


Posted by: Breaking Rose

Posted by: jaythenerdkid

Posted by: Defogner

In the end they could just avoid all of this by not dressing up and asking for it.
Wow.

Just wow.

If a woman exposes -blam!- parts of her body and doesn't expect to get a reaction from men, then she's an idiot.


Even still, it is a drastic jump to go from that to, "She is totally asking for it."

Many women like attention. Many men do as well. Men wear clothing that emphasizes their muscles but no one says a word on that.

  • 12.08.2012 9:02 PM PDT

Gather around the campfire, once it goes out, it's out for good.


Posted by: Prototype117

Posted by: Seggi31
Posted by: Prototype117
I think you understood me wrong. I'm not saying sex is only to reproduce, I'm saying sex is to reproduce and ALSO for two people who truly love each other to enjoy themselves together.


Additionally, it's can be good fun regardless of whether or not you 'love' the other person(s) involved.

Yes but see if our perception of it is "just good fun" once your married as well what stops you from cheating? I mean its just good fun right?
It's not cheating if both parties are aware of it and fine with it.

  • 12.08.2012 9:02 PM PDT


Posted by: Breaking Rose

Posted by: jaythenerdkid

Posted by: Defogner

In the end they could just avoid all of this by not dressing up and asking for it.
Wow.

Just wow.

If a woman exposes -blam!- parts of her body and doesn't expect to get a reaction from men, then she's an idiot.


The reaction is not always positive. If she is really big some men would be all like ewww that's gross.

  • 12.08.2012 9:03 PM PDT

Posted by: Baph117
This is an incredible step forward to being able to cure Downss sybndonre mn humans bineg.s

Posted by: Prototype117
Yes but see if our perception of it is "just good fun" once your married as well what stops you from cheating? I mean its just good fun right?


The trust between the two partners. I mean, I'm not much of a traditionalist, but I always thought that was kind of a big thing in a relationship, although maybe the government validation is in lieu of that.

[Edited on 12.08.2012 9:04 PM PST]

  • 12.08.2012 9:04 PM PDT

Posted by: Kurosaki_Kun

I know, right?
Jay acts like she's better than everyone else simply because she's a chick.
I hope she chokes to death.


Posted by: Prototype117

Posted by: Seggi31
Posted by: Prototype117
I think you understood me wrong. I'm not saying sex is only to reproduce, I'm saying sex is to reproduce and ALSO for two people who truly love each other to enjoy themselves together.


Additionally, it's can be good fun regardless of whether or not you 'love' the other person(s) involved.

Yes but see if our perception of it is "just good fun" once your married as well what stops you from cheating? I mean its just good fun right?
Most people are moral enough to realise that "it's just good fun" is not an excuse for infidelity. There's a difference between enjoying physical intimacy and thinking that the fact that it's enjoyable gives you a free pass to do it whenever and wherever you want even after you've made a commitment to another person.

  • 12.08.2012 9:04 PM PDT