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I'll try to keep this short. We've been friends since May. She's married and I'm ok with that. I've never tried to be more than friends and I don't ever plan to be more. Her husband deployed in October and we've practically been inseparable. We text and hangout from sunset to sundown. I basically lived at her house the whole month of November, that's how much time we spend together. We always have extremely deep and personal conversations and have basically told each other every personal secret we have. Then out of nowhere she stopped talking to me at all. She hasn't returned a single text of mine and rarely acknowledges me at work. I stopped texting her at all like a week ago because I don't want to seem clingy, but it's killing me inside. She's also having me house sit for her after she deploys next month because she says I'm the only person she trusts and knows well enough. We also have been planning to go to a concert this Friday (already bought tix and everything) for over a month, and when I asked her if she still wanted to go I couldn't get and answer.
Another factor is the fact that she's been hanging out/ talking with this dude she knows I hate. He openly asked me if her and I were hooking up in front of other people at work and openly tries to flirt/hit on her. I told her this and all she would say is that, "he's a cool dude". I'm certain nothing is going on because I know her well enough to judge her character and whether she would ever cheat on someone, and I highly doubt she is, but her being friends with him shouldn't mean that she has to shut me out completely, right?
She's easily one of the coolest people I've met and I don't want to lose her as a friend. I just don't know what to do. Should I just continue talking to her or confront her and ask wtf she's been so cold and distant.
So what should I do? and sorry for the immensely long read, I tried to make this as short as possible without leaving any key details.