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YOU SAID YOU WERE GOING TO KEEP THIS SHORT!

OT: I have no idea.

  • 12.11.2012 12:35 PM PDT

On the Left

Godshatter: I can go all the way with someone without being attracted to them.
CamCamm: How does that work?
Godshatter: I'm easily aroused by anything that moves. It's a curse.
Brain says 'No, that's ugly', body says 'ugly is fine with me'.

I have a feeling that she might be growing feelings. She knows its a no no so she is trying to subdue it. imo.

  • 12.11.2012 12:35 PM PDT

Shakes Magic 8 Ball

I lost my cool friend. You can't get attached, because love is the fear of losing something. If she's not answering you, then save yourself the embarrassment. You know that you'll always just be a friend and you happened to share some secrets with somebody you trust.

Trust breaks, people mature or dwell on it. You didn't do anything wrong, right? Then don't let the way she's treating you affect you. Why does she get the right to make you hurt?

  • 12.11.2012 12:36 PM PDT

Lol

Really tough call. I would text her to confirm the concert and if she doesn't reply then just go without her. If she doesn't respond after awhile then send her a text about how you feel. That's really the best advice I can give.

  • 12.11.2012 12:38 PM PDT
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Posted by: NorbergK6
You didn't do anything wrong, right?

Def not, that's why this is bothering me so much.

  • 12.11.2012 12:38 PM PDT

Rustled Jimmies

A military life is very hard, for the person and the family involved. Maybe she has something on her mind that's taking a while to get out. It could be something about her husband fighting or it could be something at home. If she wants to talk about whats on her mind then she will come to you.

Now as far as this guy is concerned, I have no clue. If i was you and you trust that she wouldn't cheat on her husband while she's away then you have to trust her. If anything is going on and you're sure she wouldn't cheat on her husband and that she'll tell you whats up then don't worry about it too much

and its perfectly ok to feel hurt because you care for her.

[Edited on 12.11.2012 12:41 PM PST]

  • 12.11.2012 12:39 PM PDT


Posted by: Needler Rifle
We text and hangout from sunset to sundown.

Op, you do realize that sunset and sundown are the exact same thing right? lol.....

Anyways, as another poster said, you probably have feelings for her that you don't know you have.

  • 12.11.2012 12:42 PM PDT

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Posted by: rufemee
Maybe you should stop attempting to contact her and if she doesn`t try to contact you back then she just doesn`t want to see you anymore. Might even be that she was working up to being more than friends with you whilst her husband was away and instead this guy proved to be more `forthcoming`


this

  • 12.11.2012 12:54 PM PDT

On the Left

Godshatter: I can go all the way with someone without being attracted to them.
CamCamm: How does that work?
Godshatter: I'm easily aroused by anything that moves. It's a curse.
Brain says 'No, that's ugly', body says 'ugly is fine with me'.

Just spill all the feelings you currently have. SPILLL IT on her. Then after that speech, she will fling herself on you almost eating your face. GL op gl.

  • 12.11.2012 12:57 PM PDT

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Posted by: Razgriz Berkut
Just spill all the feelings you currently have. SPILLL IT on her. Then after that speech, she will herself on you almost eating your face. GL op gl.


except that he knows she wouldn't cheat on her husband...

  • 12.11.2012 12:58 PM PDT

Love your friends, Die laughing.

-blam!- her.

move on.

  • 12.11.2012 1:00 PM PDT
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Posted by: BuzzKill9009
Posted by: Razgriz Berkut
Just spill all the feelings you currently have. SPILLL IT on her. Then after that speech, she will herself on you almost eating your face. GL op gl.

except that he knows she wouldn't cheat on her husband...

He's just joking.

  • 12.11.2012 1:06 PM PDT

I am a monument to all your sins

You sound like more than friends to be honest. Maybe she's starting to fall for you and wants to keep her distance while her husband is gone so she doesn't get tempted. I don't know.

  • 12.11.2012 1:09 PM PDT

Clear eyes, full hearts, can't lube.

Unfortunately OP, there is only one thing you can do...

Move on.

Even if she tries hooking back up with you, just blatantly ignore her.

Start fresh, and get a new best friend.

  • 12.11.2012 1:09 PM PDT

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Posted by: Darthbill99
You sound like more than friends to be honest. Maybe she's starting to for you and wants to keep her distance while her husband is so she doesn't get tempted. I don't know.


this could be very true. Military life is hard and its harder when you're alone. This could be the reason why and why shes trying to avoid OP

  • 12.11.2012 1:11 PM PDT

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