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Subject: I want to stop talking to this girl and don't know why
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Posted by: True Deception

Posted by: Xanarxses
My emotional numbness was both intentional and unintentional. Mostly the latter though. And girls really, I never went out of my way to interact with them, I could if they were right there. But this one was kind of random the way we started talking.
Hm...quick amateur diagnosis, these are new things for you, and a part of you wants to stay away from any changes.
Kind of makes sense to me.

  • 12.11.2012 3:09 PM PDT

It's sad when wannabe Pimps in High School resort to asking to Flood how to get laid.

  • 12.11.2012 3:10 PM PDT
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Posted by: InvasionImminent
It's sad when wannabe Pimps in High School resort to asking to Flood how to get laid.

Never saw a thread like that bud xD

  • 12.11.2012 3:11 PM PDT

"Life is constantly fleeting from your grasp even from the very day it's bestowed upon you, but the shadow of death is always there, waiting for its chance to take you away."

"Even though many may not think so, ignorance and innocence are one and the same. The only difference is that one sounds nicer."

"I once knew a man who spent his entire life contemplating where we go after our death....it's a shame he realized it a second too late to tell anyone."


Posted by: Xanarxses

Posted by: True Deception

Posted by: Xanarxses
My emotional numbness was both intentional and unintentional. Mostly the latter though. And girls really, I never went out of my way to interact with them, I could if they were right there. But this one was kind of random the way we started talking.
Hm...quick amateur diagnosis, these are new things for you, and a part of you wants to stay away from any changes.
Kind of makes sense to me.
If you've really kept contact as minimal as you say, and have been emotionally "numbed" out for any extended amount of time, it would add up.

  • 12.11.2012 3:11 PM PDT

Wow, and I thought girl threads where they can't ask the girl out were retarded, this takes the cake for being pointless and asinine.

  • 12.11.2012 3:14 PM PDT
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Posted by: True Deception

Posted by: Xanarxses

Posted by: True Deception

Posted by: Xanarxses
My emotional numbness was both intentional and unintentional. Mostly the latter though. And girls really, I never went out of my way to interact with them, I could if they were right there. But this one was kind of random the way we started talking.
Hm...quick amateur diagnosis, these are new things for you, and a part of you wants to stay away from any changes.
Kind of makes sense to me.
If you've really kept contact as minimal as you say, and have been emotionally "numbed" out for any extended amount of time, it would add up.
I'm sorry but what would add up?

  • 12.11.2012 3:15 PM PDT
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Posted by: Big Boy1229
Wow, and I thought girl threads where they can't ask the girl out were retarded, this takes the cake for being pointless and asinine.

why? Is it because I'm being an idiot? Am I being an idiot?

  • 12.11.2012 3:15 PM PDT

"Life is constantly fleeting from your grasp even from the very day it's bestowed upon you, but the shadow of death is always there, waiting for its chance to take you away."

"Even though many may not think so, ignorance and innocence are one and the same. The only difference is that one sounds nicer."

"I once knew a man who spent his entire life contemplating where we go after our death....it's a shame he realized it a second too late to tell anyone."


Posted by: Xanarxses

Posted by: True Deception

Posted by: Xanarxses

Posted by: True Deception

Posted by: Xanarxses
My emotional numbness was both intentional and unintentional. Mostly the latter though. And girls really, I never went out of my way to interact with them, I could if they were right there. But this one was kind of random the way we started talking.
Hm...quick amateur diagnosis, these are new things for you, and a part of you wants to stay away from any changes.
Kind of makes sense to me.
If you've really kept contact as minimal as you say, and have been emotionally "numbed" out for any extended amount of time, it would add up.
I'm sorry but what would add up?
It would add up as in it would make sense.

  • 12.11.2012 3:18 PM PDT
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Posted by: True Deception

Posted by: Xanarxses

Posted by: True Deception

Posted by: Xanarxses

Posted by: True Deception

Hm...quick amateur diagnosis, these are new things for you, and a part of you wants to stay away from any changes.
Kind of makes sense to me.
If you've really kept contact as minimal as you say, and have been emotionally "numbed" out for any extended amount of time, it would add up.
I'm sorry but what would add up?
It would add up as in it would make sense.
I guess...

  • 12.11.2012 3:20 PM PDT


Posted by: Xanarxses

Posted by: InvasionImminent
It's sad when wannabe Pimps in High School resort to asking to Flood how to get laid.

Never saw a thread like that bud xD

here you go bud :)

Posted by: Xanarxses
Now I really like her, she's fun to hang around with and she's very enjoyable company, I find her cute and adorable, but not quite... uhhh... -blam!-able?

But now I want to just stop talking to her, I've no idea why, I really have no reason to do so.

  • 12.11.2012 3:30 PM PDT
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Posted by: InvasionImminent

Posted by: Xanarxses

Posted by: InvasionImminent
It's sad when wannabe Pimps in High School resort to asking to Flood how to get laid.

Never saw a thread like that bud xD

here you go bud :)

Posted by: Xanarxses
Now I really like her, she's fun to hang around with and she's very enjoyable company, I find her cute and adorable, but not quite... uhhh... -blam!-able?

But now I want to just stop talking to her, I've no idea why, I really have no reason to do so.

When I said that she wasn't -blam!-able I meant it in the way that I don't like her in every way. Me not being too -blam!-ly attracted to her being one of the ways. I did give off a rather questionable vibe, wrong one too.

  • 12.11.2012 3:33 PM PDT

Well, you're a guy. Guy's do stupid things. Sometimes we find a girl that we like and then we find the stupidest reason to drop everything with them. And then guess what? We regret it for eternity!

Your move.

  • 12.11.2012 3:38 PM PDT
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Posted by: Al B Querky
Well, you're a guy. Guy's do stupid things. Sometimes we find a girl that we like and then we find the stupidest reason to drop everything with them. And then guess what? We regret it for eternity!

Your move.

lol that's pretty encouraging xD

  • 12.11.2012 3:40 PM PDT

If you can read this, that means I'm not a Shaolin monk...

yet.

ive seen your post, and trust me man, if you dont shag her i dont see you getting any sweet puss anytime soon

  • 12.11.2012 3:43 PM PDT

Generalizations.
Helping idiots hate other idiots since people have existed.

OP, it's because she's taking you out of your comfort zone.

No one likes change, and everyone wants to stay in their comfort zone; it's just natural. Now this girl is dragging you out of it, and you're unfamiliar with this change.

  • 12.11.2012 3:47 PM PDT
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Posted by: Xanarxses
but not quite... uhhh... -blam!-able?


Why not? Just sounds like you're scared.

Edit: No!! I have been beaten by CamCamm!!!!

[Edited on 12.11.2012 3:50 PM PST]

  • 12.11.2012 3:47 PM PDT
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Posted by: oaklandp8ntbalr
OP, it's because she's taking you out of your comfort zone.

No one likes change, and everyone wants to stay in their comfort zone; it's just natural. Now this girl is dragging you out of it, and you're unfamiliar with this change.

Well that does sound pretty accurate. And the comfort zone sure is comfortable and leaving it is rather... unsettling. It's like leaving your warm bed to go to school at 7:00 AM.

  • 12.11.2012 3:49 PM PDT
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Posted by: TheGreenAlloy
ive seen your post, and trust me man, if you dont shag her i dont see you getting any sweet puss anytime soon

"shag"? what does that even mean?

  • 12.11.2012 3:51 PM PDT

If you can read this, that means I'm not a Shaolin monk...

yet.


Posted by: Xanarxses

Posted by: TheGreenAlloy
ive seen your post, and trust me man, if you dont shag her i dont see you getting any sweet puss anytime soon

"shag"? what does that even mean?

see, when a chap fancies a slag, they tend to get real intimate and start banging

  • 12.12.2012 2:57 AM PDT

BrAdLeY

Inner douche

  • 12.12.2012 9:03 AM PDT

On the Left

Godshatter: I can go all the way with someone without being attracted to them.
CamCamm: How does that work?
Godshatter: I'm easily aroused by anything that moves. It's a curse.
Brain says 'No, that's ugly', body says 'ugly is fine with me'.


Posted by: TheGreenAlloy

Posted by: Xanarxses

Posted by: TheGreenAlloy
ive seen your post, and trust me man, if you dont shag her i dont see you getting any sweet puss anytime soon

"shag"? what does that even mean?

see, when a chap fancies a slag, they tend to get real intimate and start banging

SoA taught me that word. Shag.

  • 12.12.2012 9:07 AM PDT

Don't let fear of rejection stop you from going after what you want

Seems like you're driving her (and future women) away because of your inexperience. Best way to get better with women is by putting your self out there by getting out of your comfort zone.

  • 12.12.2012 9:29 AM PDT

Simple Plan for ever! Yes I'm a emo and I don't care what you say. I love all my friends and my guitars! Emo4life! <3

Do you feel like things are going too quickly, or has she done something that's put you off?

  • 12.12.2012 9:37 AM PDT
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Posted by: SPARTANSHOOTER55
Do you feel like things are going too quickly, or has she done something that's put you off?

damn this thread has been revived? wat
But anyway it feels like things are going too quickly.

  • 12.12.2012 9:51 AM PDT

GAAAAYYY

Because this time its proper love so you don't think about banging her, unlike every other girl you fell in "love" with.

  • 12.12.2012 9:54 AM PDT

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