- JoiStiq117
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That's all I have to say about that.
Posted by: cortana 5
Wait. Wait. Wait.
If they're being nice and complimenting OP, then they obviously "like" him. They just don't want to date him. Have you all never been introduced to the concept of friendship?
And that's a stupid course of action. "Well, I'm not getting any from these chicks who are being respectful of me and compliment me and maybe even actually value my friendship, so I'm outta here!"
Flawless logic.
Posted by: JoiStiq117
First off, ask them out. If that doesn't work, you've been friendzoned. Don't fret, though. If that's the case, dump these chicks and find new ones to talk to. Plenty of fish in the sea brother, and they aren't all going to like you. In fact, most won't.
I'm not saying stop being friends with them. Just stop expecting more than you are going to get. If you are seeking an intimate relationship with someone, then these girls obviously aren't interested. There's no shame or harm in limiting the time you spend with these girls, and spending more with a girl who may be more interested in you.
The problem is, guys don't want to admit defeat, and when they lock on to a girl, they don't know when to let go. That was the point I was trying to make. Perhaps I should have elaborated, but I feel this is a semantics issue, not a clarity one.