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Posted by: Swagoth Ur

Posted by: Doctor Jensen

Posted by: superspartan178
How do you know they won't date a guy like you?
Have you even tried asking one of them out?
That's a fair question. I have asked one. She went on the date, but she liked another guy. She said all these things, wasn't interested.


I have asked one. She went on the date, but she liked another guy. She said all these things, wasn't interested.
I have asked one.

I may have found the problem.
One of the girls that said that to me. I've been on many dates. :|

  • 12.11.2012 11:27 PM PDT

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Posted by: Deus_Ex_Machina
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Wait. Wait. Wait.

If they're being nice and complimenting OP, then they obviously "like" him. They just don't want to date him. Have you all never been introduced to the concept of friendship?

And that's a stupid course of action. "Well, I'm not getting any from these chicks who are being respectful of me and compliment me and maybe even actually value my friendship, so I'm outta here!"

Flawless logic.
Posted by: JoiStiq117
First off, ask them out. If that doesn't work, you've been friendzoned. Don't fret, though. If that's the case, dump these chicks and find new ones to talk to. Plenty of fish in the sea brother, and they aren't all going to like you. In fact, most won't.

  • 12.11.2012 11:28 PM PDT


Posted by: CamCamm
Girls lie.

  • 12.11.2012 11:29 PM PDT

No u


Posted by: cortana 5
Why don't you take the compliment and value their friendship? You're not entitled to a relationship the moment a girl compliments you.
I know that. Believe me, I'm not that naive. I guess my asking is more out of frustration.

[Edited on 12.11.2012 11:30 PM PST]

  • 12.11.2012 11:30 PM PDT


Posted by: Doctor Jensen

Posted by: xl OC Girl lx
Chances are (and this is no offense to you since I have no idea what you look like) she just isn't attracted to you. You may have been friend zoned. If you want to take the risk, ask her out. But if she just considered you a friend and finds out you like her, she might get weirded out. Trust me, I've been there done that lol
No, I mean I've gotten it from several girls. The say I'm some amazing guy, but if they thought that, wouldn't they at least see some sort of potential in me? I mean, I'm not naive enough to think that every girl likes me because they said I'm sweet, but no girls?

Hey, don't get discouraged. There could be many reasons. I'm guessing you're still quite young, probably young enough that you don't even need a girl right now. Perhaps you're going for the wrong ones? Some girls like bad boys... usually immature ones, but you'll find someone :)

Oh and also, sometimes having a good friend of the opposite sex is a good thing. I had a guy best friend for a couple of years and I got all kinds of dating advice from him. Sometimes things just work out that way.

[Edited on 12.11.2012 11:32 PM PST]

  • 12.11.2012 11:30 PM PDT

OP, just remember something when you get older: Women sit on a goldmine.

The secret to girls is: Don't care.

  • 12.11.2012 11:31 PM PDT

That's all I have to say about that.


Posted by: cortana 5
Wait. Wait. Wait.

If they're being nice and complimenting OP, then they obviously "like" him. They just don't want to date him. Have you all never been introduced to the concept of friendship?

And that's a stupid course of action. "Well, I'm not getting any from these chicks who are being respectful of me and compliment me and maybe even actually value my friendship, so I'm outta here!"

Flawless logic.
Posted by: JoiStiq117
First off, ask them out. If that doesn't work, you've been friendzoned. Don't fret, though. If that's the case, dump these chicks and find new ones to talk to. Plenty of fish in the sea brother, and they aren't all going to like you. In fact, most won't.


I'm not saying stop being friends with them. Just stop expecting more than you are going to get. If you are seeking an intimate relationship with someone, then these girls obviously aren't interested. There's no shame or harm in limiting the time you spend with these girls, and spending more with a girl who may be more interested in you.

The problem is, guys don't want to admit defeat, and when they lock on to a girl, they don't know when to let go. That was the point I was trying to make. Perhaps I should have elaborated, but I feel this is a semantics issue, not a clarity one.

  • 12.11.2012 11:32 PM PDT

No u


Posted by: xl OC Girl lx

Posted by: Doctor Jensen

Posted by: xl OC Girl lx
Chances are (and this is no offense to you since I have no idea what you look like) she just isn't attracted to you. You may have been friend zoned. If you want to take the risk, ask her out. But if she just considered you a friend and finds out you like her, she might get weirded out. Trust me, I've been there done that lol
No, I mean I've gotten it from several girls. The say I'm some amazing guy, but if they thought that, wouldn't they at least see some sort of potential in me? I mean, I'm not naive enough to think that every girl likes me because they said I'm sweet, but no girls?

Hey, don't get discouraged. There could be many reasons. I'm guessing you're still quite young, probably young enough that you don't even need a girl right now. Perhaps you're going for the wrong ones? Some girls like bad boys... usually immature ones, but you'll find someone :)
I'm eighteen. I just find it funny that the right guy (possibly) can be right under a girls nose and they can't even see it.

[Edited on 12.11.2012 11:33 PM PST]

  • 12.11.2012 11:32 PM PDT


Posted by: cortana 5
Wait. Wait. Wait.

If they're being nice and complimenting OP, then they obviously "like" him. They just don't want to date him. Have you all never been introduced to the concept of friendship?

And that's a stupid course of action. "Well, I'm not getting any from these chicks who are being respectful of me and compliment me and maybe even actually value my friendship, so I'm outta here!"

Flawless logic.
Posted by: JoiStiq117
First off, ask them out. If that doesn't work, you've been friendzoned. Don't fret, though. If that's the case, dump these chicks and find new ones to talk to. Plenty of fish in the sea brother, and they aren't all going to like you. In fact, most won't.

Oh wow you're still around???

  • 12.11.2012 11:33 PM PDT

Posted by: Doctor Jensen

Posted by: xl OC Girl lx

Posted by: Doctor Jensen

Posted by: xl OC Girl lx
Chances are (and this is no offense to you since I have no idea what you look like) she just isn't attracted to you. You may have been friend zoned. If you want to take the risk, ask her out. But if she just considered you a friend and finds out you like her, she might get weirded out. Trust me, I've been there done that lol
No, I mean I've gotten it from several girls. The say I'm some amazing guy, but if they thought that, wouldn't they at least see some sort of potential in me? I mean, I'm not naive enough to think that every girl likes me because they said I'm sweet, but no girls?

Hey, don't get discouraged. There could be many reasons. I'm guessing you're still quite young, probably young enough that you don't even need a girl right now. Perhaps you're going for the wrong ones? Some girls like bad boys... usually immature ones, but you'll find someone :)
I'm eighteen. I just find it funny that a guy can be right under a girls nose and they can't even see it.

Girls aren't attracted to nice guys. They just aren't. You know how you always hear them complaining how he's a jerk? Most do that. Then you hear the girl say, "He's a really nice guy, I'm just not into him." Then she dates a douche and the nice guy is like WTF? Don't let that be you, OP.

  • 12.11.2012 11:34 PM PDT


Posted by: Doctor Jensen

Posted by: xl OC Girl lx

Posted by: Doctor Jensen

Posted by: xl OC Girl lx
Chances are (and this is no offense to you since I have no idea what you look like) she just isn't attracted to you. You may have been friend zoned. If you want to take the risk, ask her out. But if she just considered you a friend and finds out you like her, she might get weirded out. Trust me, I've been there done that lol
No, I mean I've gotten it from several girls. The say I'm some amazing guy, but if they thought that, wouldn't they at least see some sort of potential in me? I mean, I'm not naive enough to think that every girl likes me because they said I'm sweet, but no girls?

Hey, don't get discouraged. There could be many reasons. I'm guessing you're still quite young, probably young enough that you don't even need a girl right now. Perhaps you're going for the wrong ones? Some girls like bad boys... usually immature ones, but you'll find someone :)
I'm eighteen. I just find it funny that a guy can be right under a girls nose and they can't even see it.

Some girls are just immature. Go for the older girls. They're nicer lol. I tend to find guys immature so I go for the older ones (5-10 years older than me and I'm 23). And don't try too hard. Someone usually comes along when you aren't looking :)

  • 12.11.2012 11:35 PM PDT

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Posted by: Deus_Ex_Machina
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You know... that's the thing I'm talking about.

This will sound very mean.

You think you're awesome and the best thing a girl can ever ask for. And while I'm sure you're a decent human being, you're not suddenly entitled to a relationship with any girl of your choosing.

For the girl(s) you're pursuing, you're not the greatest thing since sliced bread. And maybe it's the fact that you think you are is what's pushing girls away from a relationship with you.

There is no "friendzone." There are only personal decisions made by people of their own free will to not be in a relationship with the allegedly wronged "nice guy."

Posted by: Doctor Jensen
I'm eighteen. I just find it funny that a guy can be right under a girls nose and they can't even see it.

  • 12.11.2012 11:35 PM PDT

Sure is a lot of people who don't know what they are talking about in this thread. Sorry Jensen you get no help here.

  • 12.11.2012 11:36 PM PDT

No u

Posted by: I3 O O lVI E RThat's not the kind of guy I am. Girls should be respected, admired even; not tossed around by some douche bag that doesn't even give her any respect. It's a backwards world we're living in.

  • 12.11.2012 11:36 PM PDT

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Posted by: Doctor Jensen
I'm eighteen. I just find it funny that the right guy (possibly) can be right under a girls nose and they can't even see it.


You're not the right guy. You're boring and unattractive. We've been over this.

  • 12.11.2012 11:37 PM PDT

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  • 12.11.2012 11:38 PM PDT


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Posted by: Doctor Jensen

Posted by: xl OC Girl lx

Posted by: Doctor Jensen

Posted by: xl OC Girl lx
Chances are (and this is no offense to you since I have no idea what you look like) she just isn't attracted to you. You may have been friend zoned. If you want to take the risk, ask her out. But if she just considered you a friend and finds out you like her, she might get weirded out. Trust me, I've been there done that lol
No, I mean I've gotten it from several girls. The say I'm some amazing guy, but if they thought that, wouldn't they at least see some sort of potential in me? I mean, I'm not naive enough to think that every girl likes me because they said I'm sweet, but no girls?

Hey, don't get discouraged. There could be many reasons. I'm guessing you're still quite young, probably young enough that you don't even need a girl right now. Perhaps you're going for the wrong ones? Some girls like bad boys... usually immature ones, but you'll find someone :)
I'm eighteen. I just find it funny that a guy can be right under a girls nose and they can't even see it.

Girls aren't attracted to nice guys. They just aren't. You know how you always hear them complaining how he's a jerk? Most do that. Then you hear the girl say, "He's a really nice guy, I'm just not into him." Then she dates a douche and the nice guy is like WTF? Don't let that be you, OP.

That's not totally true. Girls go for the hot guys. Hot guys tend to be a holes. Therefore it appears that the girl is going for the a hole but she just thinks he's hot, and is staying with him hoping that he will become the nice guy. Trust me, girls don't like jerks. Go for a woman, not a shallow little girl. They are out there :)

  • 12.11.2012 11:38 PM PDT

Stop acting like a puss and ask her out if you like her.


It's that simple.

[Edited on 12.11.2012 11:39 PM PST]

  • 12.11.2012 11:38 PM PDT

No u


Posted by: cortana 5
You know... that's the thing I'm talking about.

This will sound very mean.

You think you're awesome and the best thing a girl can ever ask for. And while I'm sure you're a decent human being, you're not suddenly entitled to a relationship with any girl of your choosing.

For the girl(s) you're pursuing, you're not the greatest thing since sliced bread. And maybe it's the fact that you think you are is what's pushing girls away from a relationship with you.

There is no "friendzone." There are only personal decisions made by people of their own free will to not be in a relationship with the allegedly wronged "nice guy."

Posted by: Doctor Jensen
I'm eighteen. I just find it funny that a guy can be right under a girls nose and they can't even see it.
Don't get me wrong, I don't feel entitled to a relationship. It's simply frustrating to work hard to attempt to develop a relationship with a girl, have all these nice things told to me, then nothing ever comes of it. I'm not some amazing guy, but I cant treat a woman better than half the guys I know.

  • 12.11.2012 11:39 PM PDT

No u


Posted by: Seggi31
Posted by: Doctor Jensen
I'm eighteen. I just find it funny that the right guy (possibly) can be right under a girls nose and they can't even see it.


You're not the right guy. You're boring and unattractive. We've been over this.
Oh right, I forgot. I appreciate the input.

  • 12.11.2012 11:39 PM PDT

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Posted by: CamCamm
Girls lie.

  • 12.11.2012 11:40 PM PDT

That's all I have to say about that.


Posted by: cortana 5
There is no "friendzone." There are only personal decisions made by people of their own free will to not be in a relationship with the allegedly wronged "nice guy."


I absolutely disagree. There is a friendzone. When a girl is trying to be polite while expressing that she is not interested in the guy, she may say something like "let's be friends". Basically it means she's not interested in you right now, and may never be, so if you are seeking a relationship with her, you need to give up. Often, the guy can't accept this, or thinks the girl is his "dream girl", and keeps pressing. Therein lies the problem.

  • 12.11.2012 11:40 PM PDT

Posted by: Baph117
This is an incredible step forward to being able to cure Downss sybndonre mn humans bineg.s

Posted by: Doctor Jensen
Don't get me wrong, I don't feel entitled to a relationship. It's simply frustrating to work hard to attempt to develop a relationship with a girl, have all these nice things told to me, then nothing ever comes of it. I'm not some amazing guy, but I cant treat a woman better than half the guys I know.


The 'relationship' you're trying to establish is a friendship. You've got that. Congratulations, no need to be frustrated.

  • 12.11.2012 11:40 PM PDT

No u


Posted by: Seggi31
Posted by: Doctor Jensen
Don't get me wrong, I don't feel entitled to a relationship. It's simply frustrating to work hard to attempt to develop a relationship with a girl, have all these nice things told to me, then nothing ever comes of it. I'm not some amazing guy, but I cant treat a woman better than half the guys I know.


The 'relationship' you're trying to establish is a friendship. You've got that. Congratulations, no need to be frustrated.
Sure, I got friendship, but I desire more. Selfish, yes, but something I hope for ardently.

  • 12.11.2012 11:42 PM PDT

Posted by: Doctor Jensen
Posted by: I3 O O lVI E RThat's not the kind of guy I am. Girls should be respected, admired even; not tossed around by some douche bag that doesn't even give her any respect. It's a backwards world we're living in.

It's not a backwards world. The old saying is true as it cane be. "Nice guys finish last." I'm not saying being a disrespect bunhole. Take two guys that like one girl. One's nice, ones a jerk. The nice guy is constantly complimenting her. Asking her what's wrong ever five minutes. Etc. It gets old after awhile. Why? Because he's insecure. Always wondering what SHE THINKS OF HIM.

The jerk doesn't care what she thinks. He's confident about himself. CONFIDENT. Girls like confidence and a funny guy. Funny douche bag jerk versus insecure nice guy. See what I'm saying? The secret to girls is DON'T CARE. It's all tricky. Don't be that guy texting her every mintue she don't message you back. It's weird.

  • 12.11.2012 11:42 PM PDT

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