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Posted by: Baph117
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Posted by: Doctor Jensen
Sure, I got friendship, but I desire more. Selfish, yes, but something I hope for ardently.


But you haven't worked hard to attempt to develop 'more' than that. To do so requires the participation of the other party, which you don't have.

  • 12.11.2012 11:43 PM PDT

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Posted by: xl OC Girl lx
Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Girls aren't attracted to nice guys. They just aren't. You know how you always hear them complaining how he's a jerk? Most do that. Then you hear the girl say, "He's a really nice guy, I'm just not into him." Then she dates a douche and the nice guy is like WTF? Don't let that be you, OP.

That's not totally true. Girls go for the hot guys. Hot guys tend to be a holes. Therefore it appears that the girl is going for the a hole but she just thinks he's hot, and is staying with him hoping that he will become the nice guy. Trust me, girls don't like jerks. Go for a woman, not a shallow little girl. They are out there :)

I'm a nice guy, but I'm also attractive. Though I know that there is a difference between being a nice guy and being a pushover. Too many guys think they are being nice by just letting the girl do whatever she wants. This leads the girl to think the guy has no respect for himself, so why should she respect him?

I've seen that happen so many times. Then the guy is like why doesn't she like me, I'm such a nice guy. Now she's dating this a-hole that doesn't bend over backwards to please her. She's so stupid. Then I laugh at them and go about being a nice guy that respects himself, is attractive, confident and has no problems with women.

  • 12.11.2012 11:44 PM PDT

No u

Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
There's a fine line between confidence and being a jerk. Thought the insecure part I understand.

And isn't it natural to wonder what she thinks of him?

  • 12.11.2012 11:46 PM PDT

Posted by: Marinade
Posted by: xl OC Girl lx
Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Girls aren't attracted to nice guys. They just aren't. You know how you always hear them complaining how he's a jerk? Most do that. Then you hear the girl say, "He's a really nice guy, I'm just not into him." Then she dates a douche and the nice guy is like WTF? Don't let that be you, OP.

That's not totally true. Girls go for the hot guys. Hot guys tend to be a holes. Therefore it appears that the girl is going for the a hole but she just thinks he's hot, and is staying with him hoping that he will become the nice guy. Trust me, girls don't like jerks. Go for a woman, not a shallow little girl. They are out there :)

I'm a nice guy, but I'm also attractive. Though I know that there is a difference between being a nice guy and being a pushover. Too many guys think they are being nice by just letting the girl do whatever she wants. This leads the girl to think the guy has no respect for himself, so why should she respect him?

I've seen that happen so many times. Then the guy is like why doesn't she like me, I'm such a nice guy. Now she's dating this a-hole that doesn't bend over backwards to please her. She's so stupid. Then I laugh at them and go about being a nice guy that respects himself, is attractive, confident and has no problems with women.

Exactly. You gotta stand tall and be proud of yourself. Never be too nice.

  • 12.11.2012 11:46 PM PDT

Posted by: Doctor Jensen
Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
There's a fine line between confidence and being a jerk. Thought the insecure part I understand.

And isn't it natural to wonder what she thinks of him?

Every female on the planet is insecure thanks to the media.

  • 12.11.2012 11:47 PM PDT

No u


Posted by: Seggi31
Posted by: Doctor Jensen
Sure, I got friendship, but I desire more. Selfish, yes, but something I hope for ardently.


But you haven't worked hard to attempt to develop 'more' than that. To do so requires the participation of the other party, which you don't have.
True enough. But that is what I am working to achieve: her participation.

  • 12.11.2012 11:47 PM PDT

No u


Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Posted by: Doctor Jensen
Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
There's a fine line between confidence and being a jerk. Thought the insecure part I understand.

And isn't it natural to wonder what she thinks of him?

Every female on the planet is insecure thanks to the media.
I'm not sure what point you're trying to make with that statement.

  • 12.11.2012 11:48 PM PDT


Posted by: Marinade
Posted by: xl OC Girl lx
Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Girls aren't attracted to nice guys. They just aren't. You know how you always hear them complaining how he's a jerk? Most do that. Then you hear the girl say, "He's a really nice guy, I'm just not into him." Then she dates a douche and the nice guy is like WTF? Don't let that be you, OP.

That's not totally true. Girls go for the hot guys. Hot guys tend to be a holes. Therefore it appears that the girl is going for the a hole but she just thinks he's hot, and is staying with him hoping that he will become the nice guy. Trust me, girls don't like jerks. Go for a woman, not a shallow little girl. They are out there :)

I'm a nice guy, but I'm also attractive. Though I know that there is a difference between being a nice guy and being a pushover. Too many guys think they are being nice by just letting the girl do whatever she wants. This leads the girl to think the guy has no respect for himself, so why should she respect him?

I've seen that happen so many times. Then the guy is like why doesn't she like me, I'm such a nice guy. Now she's dating this a-hole that doesn't bend over backwards to please her. She's so stupid. Then I laugh at them and go about being a nice guy that respects himself, is attractive, confident and has no problems with women.

Just going from experience here, when a guy texts me too much, is ALWAYS available to hang out, I think he's either a stalker or has no life. Girls like a little mystery, a guy who has his own life, and knows how to tease her. Looks help a lot too.

  • 12.11.2012 11:48 PM PDT

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Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Exactly. You gotta stand tall and be proud of yourself. Never be too nice.

I've been told by one girl that I was too nice. I thought it was weird. Her friend was like, "No, I think he's just nice enough." I'm going to let you guess which one I hooked up with that night.

  • 12.11.2012 11:49 PM PDT

Posted by: Doctor Jensen

Posted by: Seggi31
Posted by: Doctor Jensen
Sure, I got friendship, but I desire more. Selfish, yes, but something I hope for ardently.


But you haven't worked hard to attempt to develop 'more' than that. To do so requires the participation of the other party, which you don't have.
True enough. But that is what I am working to achieve: her participation.

Beauty in the eye of the beholder. If she isn't attracted to you from the get go you two meet, she never will be. But a good personality can help. Really can.

  • 12.11.2012 11:49 PM PDT
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  • 12.11.2012 11:50 PM PDT

Posted by: Baph117
This is an incredible step forward to being able to cure Downss sybndonre mn humans bineg.s

Posted by: Doctor Jensen
True enough. But that is what I am working to achieve: her participation.


And how are you doing that?

  • 12.11.2012 11:51 PM PDT

Posted by: Marinade
Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Exactly. You gotta stand tall and be proud of yourself. Never be too nice.

I've been told by one girl that I was too nice. I thought it was weird. Her friend was like, "No, I think he's just nice enough." I'm going to let you guess which one I hooked up with that night.

Both.

  • 12.11.2012 11:51 PM PDT

Posted by: xl OC Girl lx
Just going from experience here, when a guy texts me too much, is ALWAYS available to hang out, I think he's either a stalker or has no life. Girls like a little mystery, a guy who has his own life, and knows how to tease her. Looks help a lot too.

Exactly what I said previously.

  • 12.11.2012 11:51 PM PDT

No u


Posted by: Seggi31
Posted by: Doctor Jensen
True enough. But that is what I am working to achieve: her participation.


And how are you doing that?
Ah... friendship. Well played Seggi.

  • 12.11.2012 11:52 PM PDT

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Posted by: xl OC Girl lx
Just going from experience here, when a guy texts me too much, is ALWAYS available to hang out, I think he's either a stalker or has no life. Girls like a little mystery, a guy who has his own life, and knows how to tease her. Looks help a lot too.

From the opposite side I've had girls that text me a lot. It just gets annoying after a while. Makes them seem way to desperate. I imagine a similar thing happens the other way around.

I've had a girl ask me to do something, but I already had plans. So all I said was, "I've already got plans. How about we do that - I think it was 2 days later - instead. I'm not doing anything then." She was quite happy to oblige that request.

From my experience most women will not be upset with you if you tell her you have plans and aren't going to blow them off to do whatever she wants. Provide you suggest a time that you will do it. If you just blow them off, yeah you'll look like an ass.

  • 12.11.2012 11:54 PM PDT

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Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Posted by: Marinade
Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Exactly. You gotta stand tall and be proud of yourself. Never be too nice.

I've been told by one girl that I was too nice. I thought it was weird. Her friend was like, "No, I think he's just nice enough." I'm going to let you guess which one I hooked up with that night.

Both.

Sadly no. I went with the one that thought I was just nice enough. I wouldn't have minded both, but I think more alcohol would have needed to be involved. They seemed heteroflexible to me.

  • 12.11.2012 11:56 PM PDT

Posted by: Marinade
Posted by: xl OC Girl lx
Just going from experience here, when a guy texts me too much, is ALWAYS available to hang out, I think he's either a stalker or has no life. Girls like a little mystery, a guy who has his own life, and knows how to tease her. Looks help a lot too.

From the opposite side I've had girls that text me a lot. It just gets annoying after a while. Makes them seem way to desperate. I imagine a similar thing happens the other way around.

I've had a girl ask me to do something, but I already had plans. So all I said was, "I've already got plans. How about we do that - I think it was 2 days later - instead. I'm not doing anything then." She was quite happy to oblige that request.

From my experience most women will not be upset with you if you tell her you have plans and aren't going to blow them off to do whatever she wants. Provide you suggest a time that you will do it. If you just blow them off, yeah you'll look like an ass.

In the same scenario, except I did blow her off. And she still wants to hangout. Desperate. She wants the D. Not Vitamin D either.

  • 12.11.2012 11:56 PM PDT


Posted by: Marinade
Posted by: xl OC Girl lx
Just going from experience here, when a guy texts me too much, is ALWAYS available to hang out, I think he's either a stalker or has no life. Girls like a little mystery, a guy who has his own life, and knows how to tease her. Looks help a lot too.

From the opposite side I've had girls that text me a lot. It just gets annoying after a while. Makes them seem way to desperate. I imagine a similar thing happens the other way around.

I've had a girl ask me to do something, but I already had plans. So all I said was, "I've already got plans. How about we do that - I think it was 2 days later - instead. I'm not doing anything then." She was quite happy to oblige that request.

From my experience most women will not be upset with you if you tell her you have plans and aren't going to blow them off to do whatever she wants. Provide you suggest a time that you will do it. If you just blow them off, yeah you'll look like an ass.

I think people just want what they can't have... Or want something more if they have to work for it. I like when a guy can go out with his friends and not invite me sometimes. Now, if I'm never invited, that's a whole different story haha

  • 12.11.2012 11:57 PM PDT

Posted by: Marinade
Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Posted by: Marinade
Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Exactly. You gotta stand tall and be proud of yourself. Never be too nice.

I've been told by one girl that I was too nice. I thought it was weird. Her friend was like, "No, I think he's just nice enough." I'm going to let you guess which one I hooked up with that night.

Both.

Sadly no. I went with the one that thought I was just nice enough. I wouldn't have minded both, but I think more alcohol would have needed to be involved. They seemed heteroflexible to me.

Buy more alcohol next time.

  • 12.11.2012 11:57 PM PDT

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You're going in with your main intention being that you're trying to develop a relationship. You're taking compliments the wrong way because you're looking for a relationship, and when rejected, you claim to have these awesome relationship credentials.

I think I found your issue.
Posted by: Doctor Jensen
[/quote]Don't get me wrong, I don't feel entitled to a relationship. It's simply frustrating to work hard to attempt to develop a relationship with a girl, have all these nice things told to me, then nothing ever comes of it. I'm not some amazing guy, but I cant treat a woman better than half the guys I know.

  • 12.11.2012 11:59 PM PDT

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Posted by: cortana 5
You're going in with your main intention being that you're trying to develop a relationship. You're taking compliments the wrong way because you're looking for a relationship, and when rejected, you claim to have these awesome relationship credentials.

I think I found your issue.
Posted by: Doctor Jensen
Don't get me wrong, I don't feel entitled to a relationship. It's simply frustrating to work hard to attempt to develop a relationship with a girl, have all these nice things told to me, then nothing ever comes of it. I'm not some amazing guy, but I cant treat a woman better than half the guys I know.
All I said was that I simply could treat a guy better than half the guys I know. That means, manners, respect, that kind of stuff. As for the compliments, when I typed it out, my intent was to wonder why girls in general wouldn't want to date a guy who my friends who are girls have said is awesome. I don't know why I asked about them. Tired I guess, but regardless.

Should my intention be for friendship then? The friendzone is a dangerous place.

  • 12.12.2012 12:03 AM PDT

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Posted by: xl OC Girl lx
Posted by: Marinade
Posted by: xl OC Girl lx
Just going from experience here, when a guy texts me too much, is ALWAYS available to hang out, I think he's either a stalker or has no life. Girls like a little mystery, a guy who has his own life, and knows how to tease her. Looks help a lot too.

From the opposite side I've had girls that text me a lot. It just gets annoying after a while. Makes them seem way to desperate. I imagine a similar thing happens the other way around.

I've had a girl ask me to do something, but I already had plans. So all I said was, "I've already got plans. How about we do that - I think it was 2 days later - instead. I'm not doing anything then." She was quite happy to oblige that request.

From my experience most women will not be upset with you if you tell her you have plans and aren't going to blow them off to do whatever she wants. Provide you suggest a time that you will do it. If you just blow them off, yeah you'll look like an ass.

I think people just want what they can't have... Or want something more if they have to work for it. I like when a guy can go out with his friends and not invite me sometimes. Now, if I'm never invited, that's a whole different story haha

Yeah that is true. I have one thing I do that is a little dickish and I know it is. I'll go up to a group of girls at a bar where there are one or two that are decidedly more attractive than the rest, and ignore them. Talk to and be a little flirty with one of the 'less attractive' girls in the group. Almost every time I've done this. One of the more attractive ones gets really jealous that her less attractive friend is getting the attention and ends up trying to get me to pick her up instead. It's rather funny.

Oh and one last thing I just thought of. The main reason that I see guys get 'friendzoned' is because they give the girl no indication, what-so-ever, that they are interested in more than that. Just being nice to them isn't enough, that's what their friends do. If you don't flirt with them, or just straight up tell them you're interested, they aren't going to think you are. They feel it would be a waste of their time to try anything more and you'll just be seen as a friend. So if you want to be more than friends, grow a pair and let her know.

  • 12.12.2012 12:04 AM PDT

You're trying way too hard. Directed towards OP.

[Edited on 12.12.2012 12:06 AM PST]

  • 12.12.2012 12:04 AM PDT

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Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Posted by: Marinade
Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Both.

Sadly no. I went with the one that thought I was just nice enough. I wouldn't have minded both, but I think more alcohol would have needed to be involved. They seemed heteroflexible to me.

Buy more alcohol next time.

I was in college at the time. Money was still a bit too tight for that really.

  • 12.12.2012 12:05 AM PDT

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