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Posted by: Deus_Ex_Machina
Cortana 5 is a carbon-based lifeform that frequently visits these forums, currently residing in the United States. Practically every male on the site responds to her posts.
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Anyone can have manners and show basic signs of respect.
Wanna know why, in general girls won't go out with a guy just because her friends say he's awesome?
Because she's just not that into you. Maybe you're boring or smell. Maybe you follow her around like a lost puppy, looking for a relationship, then wondering why she won't pet you and take you home.
Your intention should be to relearn how to approach someone of the female gender. Being respectful doesn't make you an exception. People should expect that kind of treatment from others. I'm not going to date the next guy that holds a door for me, so why should she?
As for my "girlfriends" saying that some dude is awesome, I really don't care. I'm not going after every guy they give the slightest recommendation for.
Women are not vending machines that accept compliments and general manners in exchange for some ass.
Posted by: Doctor Jensen
Posted by: cortana 5
You're going in with your main intention being that you're trying to develop a relationship. You're taking compliments the wrong way because you're looking for a relationship, and when rejected, you claim to have these awesome relationship credentials.
I think I found your issue.
Posted by: Doctor Jensen
Don't get me wrong, I don't feel entitled to a relationship. It's simply frustrating to work hard to attempt to develop a relationship with a girl, have all these nice things told to me, then nothing ever comes of it. I'm not some amazing guy, but I cant treat a woman better than half the guys I know.All I said was that I simply could treat a guy better than half the guys I know. That means, manners, respect, that kind of stuff. As for the compliments, when I typed it out, my intent was to wonder why girls in general wouldn't want to date a guy who my friends who are girls have said is awesome. I don't know why I asked about them. Tired I guess, but regardless.
Should my intention be for friendship then? The friendzone is a dangerous place.