I am assuming direct control.
Posted by: Mister Donut
Posted by: RedXRulez
I don't know. What do you want me to tell you? Dump her because she's exactly what you wanted?
Not exactly... I just wonder if any of you have been in a similar spot, or have any advice. She's perfect for me, and we're already settling down and stuff... In the time we've been together, I've never lied to her and she hasn't lied to me. Nor have we fought, even once. She's so perfect that I feel like it would be good for me to experience new things. But at the same time, she's just too amazing. :/
I've seen it from the other side. An old friend of mine was in a healthy, happy relationship for 10 months before she dumped him for the same reasons as you listed. She was bored and wanted to feel what something else felt like. They spent (with me involved in there too) all summer going back and forth. She ran around with a bunch of dudes and realized other relationships would never be as unique and came crying back. He, after months with her, immediately got with a rebound before dumping her after a month to get back with his ex.
You'll realize only after you've left your girlfriend how much you needed her. Hopefully she's as nice(and as much as a pushover) as my friend to let you back into her life.