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Posted by: Deranged Cook1e

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Stop complaining and do something about it. You can't control what others do. You only control your own actions. Be proactive.

This "boohoo I don't have a girlfriend and nobody likes me so I'm just gonna give up" pisses me off. It's not happening because you're expecting it to fall on your lap. If you want something, go get it.


Ive tried. Im not a shy person, nor someone who just sits and does nothing. I have tried and failed every time. I asked 4 girls to prom last year, each and every one of them said no. Ive asked girls I talked to and liked out before, each of them said no.
Why did they say no? Did you just spontaneous ask them? Are you fat or something? There must be a reason.


Im not a bad looking person, nor am I spontaneous. I just have been denied numerous times. It might be I scare them being 6 foot 7 but height shouldnt matter should it?. And to the above saying I just asked random girls, no. Most of them ive known for a bit. I dont just ask random people out.



6' 7"


horee sheet op


OP if you worked out and went on the bicycle you would be huge in one year if not 6 months


OP if you're over 6' 4" and skinny anybody would look weird. 6' 5" is only a good height if your jacked and 6' 7" is NBA status

[Edited on 12.12.2012 9:29 PM PST]

  • 12.12.2012 9:28 PM PDT

Just learn how to be social, not overly weird, and confident. Trust me, it works. I got 12 today (it being 12/12/12)

  • 12.12.2012 9:28 PM PDT

Posted by: Deranged Cook1e
Im not a bad looking person, nor am I spontaneous. I just have been denied numerous times. It might be I scare them being 6 foot 7 but height shouldnt matter should it?. And to the above saying I just asked random girls, no. Most of them ive known for a bit. I dont just ask random people out.

Do you smile at them? Do you hunch when you walk, when you should be standing up straight with a manly strut? Good hygiene?

  • 12.12.2012 9:28 PM PDT

My denials have always been "We should just be friends". At least 95% of the time it was that. So im just friendzoning myself I guess. But a lot of the time I never came off as a "Just want to be friends person". I think a lot of it has to do with looks and them not saying yes because of it.

  • 12.12.2012 9:28 PM PDT

Posted by: Deranged Cook1e
My denials have always been "We should just be friends". At least 95% of the time it was that. So im just friendzoning myself I guess. But a lot of the time I never came off as a "Just want to be friends person". I think a lot of it has to do with looks and them not saying yes because of it.

If there is a girl you like, and you think she may like you as well. You have to put her in a situation to make her your girlfriend. For example, when you're hanging around her and her little clique, the others girls will judge you and rub off on her. You must catch her off guard. Hangout with just her, where her stupid friends aren't around. Put HER into a situation to make her your girl.

  • 12.12.2012 9:31 PM PDT
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Posted by: Deranged Cook1e
My denials have always been "We should just be friends". At least 95% of the time it was that. So im just friendzoning myself I guess. But a lot of the time I never came off as a "Just want to be friends person". I think a lot of it has to do with looks and them not saying yes because of it.


You're doing it wrong. You can take friends to the prom.

There are obviously things you're not telling us.

[Edited on 12.12.2012 9:32 PM PST]

  • 12.12.2012 9:32 PM PDT

I am assuming direct control.

Don't let it bug you OP. I'm in the same boat as you. I'm physically fit (Training for West Point), I have good grades, and I'm decently sociable, and yet, I've never even held a girl's hand. I've liked plenty of girls, but they never seem to work out.

At one point, I was simply afraid of rejection. It was a situation where I liked a girl so much I'd rather be alone then face her rejection and the eventual ending of our friendship. This fear prevented me from accomplishing anything.

After that, I actually started to meet girls who liked me, but that just revealed a deeper insecurity that prevented me from actually entering into a relationship. After all these years, I have no idea how to act in a relationship. Don't get me wrong, I'm decently outgoing, but I have severe issues with basic empathy and emotional connections. (I blame most of it on a rough childhood). Once I realized this, I flat out gave up, because every girl I got close to needed more than I was capable of. No matter what I did I could not fake the actual connection other people feel.

Knowing that I had never even kissed a girl while my friends are out getting -blam!- was never fun. I used to beat myself up about it over and over. The long list of failures, and how I know very well what is the problem has always plagued me. To this day I feel resentment that I couldn't just be normal. After a while though, I let it go. I'll find a girl out there for me one day, but I stopped making it a priority that would keep me up at night. OP, just relax, there are more important things out there. If you can't get a girlfriend, try building stronger relationships with your family and friends. And remember, at least you don't have something wrong with you that prevents you from having a meaningful relationships, god knows I can't talk to my family, much less keep friends or talk with women.

  • 12.12.2012 9:33 PM PDT


Posted by: Deranged Cook1e
My denials have always been "We should just be friends". At least 95% of the time it was that. So im just friendzoning myself I guess. But a lot of the time I never came off as a "Just want to be friends person". I think a lot of it has to do with looks and them not saying yes because of it.
If you truly think there is nothing wrong with you other then your height then there is nothing to be depressed about! I have social anxiety and I still am able to approach girls I like. Just keep trying OP until you find a girl who likes tall guys I guess haha.

  • 12.12.2012 9:33 PM PDT

To the users saying lift and get buff. I have friends that have been doing it for sometime. Really toned. So on and so forth. Of course, it will help you with sex appeal and boost your confidence. But those guys that lift all the time, are arrogant cocky guys with no girls. There's more to it then just having a nice body. They have no idea what they're talking about.

  • 12.12.2012 9:35 PM PDT


Posted by: General Dripik

Posted by: Deranged Cook1e
My denials have always been "We should just be friends". At least 95% of the time it was that. So im just friendzoning myself I guess. But a lot of the time I never came off as a "Just want to be friends person". I think a lot of it has to do with looks and them not saying yes because of it.
If you truly think there is nothing wrong with you other then your height then there is nothing to be depressed about! I have social anxiety and I still am able to approach girls I like. Just keep trying OP until you find a girl who likes tall guys I guess haha.


Dont get me wrong people. I look at my surroundings. I dont just give up, im just simply stating it never works out for me. Guess the ticket is to keep trying and trying and eventually ill get lucky.

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Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
To the users saying lift and get buff. I have friends that have been doing it for sometime. Really toned. So on and so forth. Of course, it will help you with sex appeal and boost your confidence. But those guys that lift all the time, are arrogant cocky guys with no girls. There's more to it then just having a nice body. They have no idea what they're talking about.


I don't lift. It would probably help OP considering he is so tall though.

  • 12.12.2012 9:37 PM PDT
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Didn't even know a double post was possible.

[Edited on 12.12.2012 9:38 PM PST]

  • 12.12.2012 9:37 PM PDT

Posted by: Deranged Cook1e

Posted by: General Dripik

Posted by: Deranged Cook1e
My denials have always been "We should just be friends". At least 95% of the time it was that. So im just friendzoning myself I guess. But a lot of the time I never came off as a "Just want to be friends person". I think a lot of it has to do with looks and them not saying yes because of it.
If you truly think there is nothing wrong with you other then your height then there is nothing to be depressed about! I have social anxiety and I still am able to approach girls I like. Just keep trying OP until you find a girl who likes tall guys I guess haha.


Dont get me wrong people. I look at my surroundings. I dont just give up, im just simply stating it never works out for me. Guess the ticket is to keep trying and trying and eventually ill get lucky.

Pick one girl you've approached, asked out, and be very elaborate. So we can see why they reject you.

  • 12.12.2012 9:37 PM PDT
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Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
To the users saying lift and get buff. I have friends that have been doing it for sometime. Really toned. So on and so forth. Of course, it will help you with sex appeal and boost your confidence. But those guys that lift all the time, are arrogant cocky guys with no girls. There's more to it then just having a nice body. They have no idea what they're talking about.


You don't just simply lift lol

Also toned = dyel mode

Those arogant cocky guys are the giant phaggots. I was a socially awkward 15 year old who made threads like this on the flood 2 1/2 years and now im aesthetic and my confidence has boosted.

OP take gear and your confidence will boost up and you'll get jacked in like 6 months.

  • 12.12.2012 9:38 PM PDT

Posted by: ankerd123

Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
To the users saying lift and get buff. I have friends that have been doing it for sometime. Really toned. So on and so forth. Of course, it will help you with sex appeal and boost your confidence. But those guys that lift all the time, are arrogant cocky guys with no girls. There's more to it then just having a nice body. They have no idea what they're talking about.


I don't lift. It would probably help OP considering he is so tall though.

I wasn't insinuating you as one of those users. I just find it asinine that you must "lift" to get a girl. Lifting should be for the sole purpose of your health and self-esteem boosting for yourself. Others find ways to boost their, if yours is lifting, nothing wrong with that. Just do it within reason. That's my opinion.

[Edited on 12.12.2012 9:40 PM PST]

  • 12.12.2012 9:39 PM PDT
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Posted by: Direct Control
Don't let it bug you OP. I'm in the same boat as you. I'm physically fit (Training for West Point), I have good grades, and I'm decently sociable, and yet, I've never even held a girl's hand. I've liked plenty of girls, but they never seem to work out.

At one point, I was simply afraid of rejection. It was a situation where I liked a girl so much I'd rather be alone then face her rejection and the eventual ending of our friendship. This fear prevented me from accomplishing anything.

After that, I actually started to meet girls who liked me, but that just revealed a deeper insecurity that prevented me from actually entering into a relationship. After all these years, I have no idea how to act in a relationship. Don't get me wrong, I'm decently outgoing, but I have severe issues with basic empathy and emotional connections. (I blame most of it on a rough childhood). Once I realized this, I flat out gave up, because every girl I got close to needed more than I was capable of. No matter what I did I could not fake the actual connection other people feel.

Knowing that I had never even kissed a girl while my friends are out getting -blam!- was never fun. I used to beat myself up about it over and over. The long list of failures, and how I know very well what is the problem has always plagued me. To this day I feel resentment that I couldn't just be normal. After a while though, I let it go. I'll find a girl out there for me one day, but I stopped making it a priority that would keep me up at night. OP, just relax, there are more important things out there. If you can't get a girlfriend, try building stronger relationships with your family and friends. And remember, at least you don't have something wrong with you that prevents you from having a meaningful relationships, god knows I can't talk to my family, much less keep friends or talk with women.



^this

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Posted by: ankerd123

Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
To the users saying lift and get buff. I have friends that have been doing it for sometime. Really toned. So on and so forth. Of course, it will help you with sex appeal and boost your confidence. But those guys that lift all the time, are arrogant cocky guys with no girls. There's more to it then just having a nice body. They have no idea what they're talking about.


I don't lift. It would probably help OP considering he is so tall though.


I would kill to be 6' 7"

I would RuN football and baseball and basketball at my school


tfw 5'11"

[Edited on 12.12.2012 9:41 PM PST]

  • 12.12.2012 9:39 PM PDT

Signatures are for little kids.

I've kissed hundreds. Young and old, ugly and pretty, with a goiter and without, fat and thin, active and quadrapeligic.

Feels good, except for the cold sores.

My advice, find an attractive quadrapeligic.. they can't resist your hot lips.

  • 12.12.2012 9:39 PM PDT


Posted by: Deranged Cook1e

Posted by: General Dripik

Posted by: Deranged Cook1e
My denials have always been "We should just be friends". At least 95% of the time it was that. So im just friendzoning myself I guess. But a lot of the time I never came off as a "Just want to be friends person". I think a lot of it has to do with looks and them not saying yes because of it.
If you truly think there is nothing wrong with you other then your height then there is nothing to be depressed about! I have social anxiety and I still am able to approach girls I like. Just keep trying OP until you find a girl who likes tall guys I guess haha.


Dont get me wrong people. I look at my surroundings. I dont just give up, im just simply stating it never works out for me. Guess the ticket is to keep trying and trying and eventually ill get lucky.
That's the name of the game. Don't get me wrong I've been been very depressed because of subjects similar to this but I just remind myself there is nothing wrong with me . There are just to many girls out there with bad taste.

A girl I really liked a few days ago went with some weed head -blam!- who has his mother do job applications for him. I just figured their are other better fish out there.

[Edited on 12.12.2012 9:45 PM PST]

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Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Posted by: ankerd123

Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
To the users saying lift and get buff. I have friends that have been doing it for sometime. Really toned. So on and so forth. Of course, it will help you with sex appeal and boost your confidence. But those guys that lift all the time, are arrogant cocky guys with no girls. There's more to it then just having a nice body. They have no idea what they're talking about.


I don't lift. It would probably help OP considering he is so tall though.

I wasn't insinuating you as one of those users. I just find it asinine that you must "lift" to get a girl. Lifting should be for the sole purpose of your health and self-esteem boosting for yourself. Others find ways to boost their, if yours is lifting, nothing wrong with that. Just do it within reason. That's my opinion.


Sorry.

Yeah I laugh at them.

It's not just about lifting.

Arogant, elitist personalities won't get many people far.

  • 12.12.2012 9:42 PM PDT

Posted by: ankerd123

Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Posted by: ankerd123

Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
To the users saying lift and get buff. I have friends that have been doing it for sometime. Really toned. So on and so forth. Of course, it will help you with sex appeal and boost your confidence. But those guys that lift all the time, are arrogant cocky guys with no girls. There's more to it then just having a nice body. They have no idea what they're talking about.


I don't lift. It would probably help OP considering he is so tall though.

I wasn't insinuating you as one of those users. I just find it asinine that you must "lift" to get a girl. Lifting should be for the sole purpose of your health and self-esteem boosting for yourself. Others find ways to boost their, if yours is lifting, nothing wrong with that. Just do it within reason. That's my opinion.


Sorry.

Yeah I laugh at them.

It's not just about lifting.

Arogant, elitist personalities won't get many people far.

Exactly.

  • 12.12.2012 9:43 PM PDT

Alright guys, thanks for all the advice and comments. Gonna go to bed with a different outlook at things. Very thankful.

  • 12.12.2012 9:44 PM PDT

in·dif·fer·ence
the fact or state of being indifferent; lack of care or concern and empathy demonstrated by an absence of emotional reactions.

It honestly doesn't matter.
Just forget about it and it will happen eventually.

  • 12.12.2012 9:44 PM PDT

Posted by: Deranged Cook1e
Alright guys, thanks for all the advice and comments. Gonna go to bed with a different outlook at things. Very thankful.

Just do you. Find a hobby. Never be too available. Girls will come. Trust me.

  • 12.12.2012 9:45 PM PDT