- angry0lbgrampa
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God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore will not we fear, though the earth be removed, and though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea; Though the waters thereof roar and be troubled, though the mountains shake with the swelling thereof.” – Psalms 46:1-3
So, To make the story short.
I leave for the Army in 26 days.
Tuesday afternoon, I had to rush my son to the ER.
( My son was born premature he has apnea and reflux [IE Breathing issue} and they got worst)
While at the ER my wife Told me because of this she would not be coming down to base with me and that she would be staying with her parents. Mind you this is a 3 year separation. Maybe 30-45 days a year seeing her and my son.
Upon her saying this I said, well, then it looks like we will no longer be married.
To which she says: Oh I was just talking I didn't mean I'd really do it.
At this point I was pretty hurt.
Well my son is admitted, and while he is admitted Child protective services come to my wife and say that they will take him unless she files a report against me.
Well she has.
I am so confused and I do not know what to do.
I have not felt this level of hurt in my entire life.
Please someone cheer me up, my family is trying to, But I just am so confused right now.
Everything was amazing a few days ago but now, I am like where am I, am I dreaming?!?!? WAKE UP!!!
*CLARIFYING THINGS*
Ok, I leave for the Army, January 8th 2012, I am enlisted as a Medical care specialist which mean I could be anything within the army medical related that does not require a college degree.
I will likely be based at a hospital in country.
Now, My wife, and I, have had problems in the past with her including her parents in our business, arguments, and personal things, like my fears, and what have yous.
Now, To tuesday of this week.
Our son is on an apnea monitor, It watches his heart and respiration, on this day he was have more events than usual, heart dipping, and Respiration dropping. Now this is normal as he is premature, and will eventually outgrow it.
( He is now 3 months at 6 months they outgrow it)
So we take him to the Hospital, they admit him for observation which is to be expected.
While in the in processing area, she looks at me and says I am going to stay here and live with my parents while you are gone in the Army.
I am like um what, I ask her to explain why.
She says because of days like this, Mind you, She will not be moving on base for 6 months, at which point our son will be nearly a year old, well beyond his the age for his current issues.
I say this.
She basically whatevs it.
I get mad.
I tell her I will not have a marriage separated by god knows how many miles.
I tell her If she does this, then we will no longer be married.
She says she was just talking.
I have derp face.
here we are 3 days later.
I am waiting for CPS to get here to interview me.
I guess a Nurse overheard the argument, and they are mandated to report it.
From what I have gathered, she said a bunch of other things to the social worker.
No idea what.
So yea that is all I know at this point.
Also, I am prior service, My wife is the reason I chose to reenlist, she supported me, and was for it.
I would not have if she was not supportive.
[Edited on 12.13.2012 7:14 AM PST]