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Subject: So, Haven't really been able to go 30 mins without crying.

If you can read this, that means I'm not a Shaolin monk...

yet.

sounds like child services are a bunch of pantysniffing wankers

  • 12.13.2012 6:13 AM PDT

That sucks man but being seperated 3 years this day was probably coming. She kinda doesnt seem worth the effort if she acts like this anyway.

  • 12.13.2012 6:17 AM PDT
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3rd edition. Now with more grunt.

TFS 4 lyfe

Sorry to hear that. Hope everything works out well in the end :)

  • 12.13.2012 6:20 AM PDT

<(-_-)> Teh mokey is not amused

Posted by: angry0lbgrampa
Child protective services come to my wife and say that they will take him unless she files a report against me.

What right do they have to take him away?

  • 12.13.2012 6:23 AM PDT

Shakes Magic 8 Ball

You're afraid that your wife is going to grow apart from you, which is normal. Part of growing up is knowing that people are capable of creating such hurt in your life, understand that. Fear of the unknown is okay, but it's also to be expected.

You never really grow up thinking something "like that" will ever happen to you.

  • 12.13.2012 6:23 AM PDT

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Have Fai7h

My old Halo account: karsttheninja99

Have a serious talk with her. Ask her why she'd even consider doing something like that, and talk about your plans.

  • 12.13.2012 6:26 AM PDT
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If im ever depressed i always watch some of these

  • 12.13.2012 6:27 AM PDT

If you join the army you have serious problems, your basically signing up to die.

  • 12.13.2012 6:33 AM PDT

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Have Fai7h

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Posted by: Sigma Seven
If you join the army you have serious problems, your basically signing up to die.
wow, just wow

  • 12.13.2012 6:35 AM PDT
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Posted by: Sigma Seven
If you join the army you have serious problems, your basically signing up to die.
get out

  • 12.13.2012 6:36 AM PDT
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deej pls

I wish the best for you and your son OP. Good luck.

  • 12.13.2012 6:36 AM PDT

Posted by: The Kangol Kid
It was then that I decided he really is like semen(everywhere) and I gave up on life.


zoobkillerninja <3

There's a lot not being said here, I assume.

Why would you basically try to divorce your wife because she wants to stay with her parents while your child is ill?
Also, why exactly is CPS trying to take your kid away and why would she have to file a report against you to prevent this from happening?

None of this makes sense.

[Edited on 12.13.2012 6:39 AM PST]

  • 12.13.2012 6:38 AM PDT

nvm

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  • 12.13.2012 6:40 AM PDT
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Posted by: Achronos
Hey, guys, what's going on in this thread?
Someone tell Kivell that he is a lie.


Get WorkPlaced!


Posted by: CamCamm
There's a lot not being said here, I assume.


This

  • 12.13.2012 6:41 AM PDT

Clear eyes, full hearts, can't lube.


Posted by: CamCamm
There's a lot not being said here, I assume.

  • 12.13.2012 6:42 AM PDT

God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore will not we fear, though the earth be removed, and though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea; Though the waters thereof roar and be troubled, though the mountains shake with the swelling thereof.” – Psalms 46:1-3


Ok, I leave for the Army, January 8th 2012, I am enlisted as a Medical care specialist which mean I could be anything within the army medical related that does not require a college degree.

I will likely be based at a hospital in country.


Now, My wife, and I, have had problems in the past with her including her parents in our business, arguments, and personal things, like my fears, and what have yous.

Now, To tuesday of this week.

Our son is on an apnea monitor, It watches his heart and respiration, on this day he was have more events than usual, heart dipping, and Respiration dropping. Now this is normal as he is premature, and will eventually outgrow it.

( He is now 3 months at 6 months they outgrow it)

So we take him to the Hospital, they admit him for observation which is to be expected.

While in the in processing area, she looks at me and says I am going to stay here and live with my parents while you are gone in the Army.

I am like um what, I ask her to explain why.

She says because of days like this, Mind you, She will not be moving on base for 6 months, at which point our son will be nearly a year old, well beyond his the age for his current issues.

I say this.

She basically whatevs it.

I get mad.

I tell her I will not have a marriage separated by god knows how many miles.

I tell her If she does this, then we will no longer be married.

She says she was just talking.


I have derp face.


here we are 3 days later.

I am waiting for CPS to get here to interview me.

I guess a Nurse overheard the argument, and they are mandated to report it.


From what I have gathered, she said a bunch of other things to the social worker.

No idea what.

So yea that is all I know at this point.


OH and I guess I am trying to isolate her because I am forcing her to come down with me.

WTF happened to this country, when a wife is not expected to be with he husband!?!?!?!?!

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  • 12.13.2012 7:08 AM PDT

Posted by: The Kangol Kid
It was then that I decided he really is like semen(everywhere) and I gave up on life.


zoobkillerninja <3

So, CPS is involved because a nurse overheard an argument that could lead to divorce?






Okay.


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  • 12.13.2012 7:12 AM PDT
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Foman is my favorite moderator. <3

Take a look at it from her point of view.

Because of your choice of career (of which I have no idea if she had any input), she is being uprooted from where is now. Since her parents are where you are now, I assume she has lived there her entire life.

So you're asking her to pick up and move, leave her family and friends behind perhaps thousands of miles, and move onto a military base where she knows no one.

That is a harsh change of reality bro. Of course she is going to be fearful and scared. Arguing and threatening divorce does nothing to alleviate those feelings in her.

/master of women

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  • 12.13.2012 7:12 AM PDT

God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore will not we fear, though the earth be removed, and though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea; Though the waters thereof roar and be troubled, though the mountains shake with the swelling thereof.” – Psalms 46:1-3


Posted by: CamCamm
So, CPS is involved because a nurse overheard an argument that could lead to divorce?






Okay.



Inoright.

So much hate right now. XD

  • 12.13.2012 7:13 AM PDT

God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore will not we fear, though the earth be removed, and though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea; Though the waters thereof roar and be troubled, though the mountains shake with the swelling thereof.” – Psalms 46:1-3


Posted by: A Good Troll
Take a look at it from her point of view.

Because of your choice of career (of which I have no idea if she had any input), she is being uprooted from where is now. Since her parents are where you are now, I assume she has lived there her entire life.

So you're asking her to pick up and move, leave her family and friends behind perhaps thousands of miles, and move onto a military base where she knows no one.

That is a harsh change of reality bro. Of course she is going to be fearful and scared.


absolutely true.

Aside from one key fact.

She wanted me to go back into the military. She was 100% supportive, literally until Tuesday.

So I did.

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  • 12.13.2012 7:13 AM PDT

Dumb people are just blissfully unaware of how very dumb they are.

I sorry to hear about all that. But the main thing to do is be strong for your kid. Tell your wife that his safety matters a lot more than your problems. Your son should be your main focus.

  • 12.13.2012 7:16 AM PDT

Posted by: The Kangol Kid
It was then that I decided he really is like semen(everywhere) and I gave up on life.


zoobkillerninja <3

Anyway, she doesn't have to move anywhere that she doesn't want to. She obviously feels more help from her parents and it's apparent that it's easy for her to depend on them.
She knew you'd be in the Army and she knew that you'd have to move. Does she know how good the health care system is, in the military?

I'd say that's the least of your worries (her not wanting to move) if CPS is involved for absolutely no reason.

  • 12.13.2012 7:16 AM PDT

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Posted by: urk
Then there are the people who poop in the mash potatoes. Those people get launched out on their asses.

So, if my wife said that I would understand, especially since our child was sick. Once our child was better, I would assume she would be joining me.

The one thing I would NOT do is threaten her.

  • 12.13.2012 7:17 AM PDT
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Posted by: angry0lbgrampa
She wanted me to go back into the military. She was 100% supportive, literally until Tuesday.

So I did.

You leave in 29 days today. Coincidentally, Tuesday marks the 31 day date - pretty much one month exactly until you leave.

Chances are she is beginning to stress about the situation and realize what that life change entails.

[Edited on 12.13.2012 7:18 AM PST]

  • 12.13.2012 7:17 AM PDT

Posted by: AngryBrute1
Oh yeah, since somebody does not believe what YOU believe; that makes us vapid...
I cannot grasp that what you call "Something happened to nothing, and that nothing became something, and it was smaller than than a period."

1. Huge distances don't have to break up your marriage, use Skype or something when you can to say hi to each other.
2. I think she wants to stay with her parents instead of at that base with you so she can make sure he gets better and grows up healthy and stuff.
3. Sounds like a terrible nurse.
4. You should ask the child services person what the nurse told him/her, and then correct anything wrong.
Good luck.

[Edited on 12.13.2012 7:19 AM PST]

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