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Posted by: swvjdirector
Posted by: XxMuNcHmOnKeYxX
Posted by: swvjdirector
Interesting question. I'm a lot like you in the fact that I'm also extremely anti-social. I also play competitive chess! To me, I would only pursue a relationship if I really cared about someone. It's not worth it to me to "just have the experience". I guess it really depends on your situation and personality.
Getting to know someone well before pursuing it is a wise choice, IMO. My outlook is a bit less restricting, but respectable opinion you got there.
I completely agree; the only time I've ever been interested in someone, I more respected them than anything else. I gave up because I really didn't have much in common with them and they're already in a relationship. Getting to know someone helps determine whether or not you actually care about them, or you more care about how you feel around them.
The only risk is that you might get friend-zoned from an individual you know so well- it's happened to me. It makes it harder in that respect, but I suppose quality over quantity when it comes to relationships.
Not to mention, if you really care about someone, I can almost guarantee the sex will be better, even if I am still a virgin.
[Edited on 12.13.2012 4:55 PM PST]