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Subject: Flood... Did I lose my bestfriend....

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Thread seems familiar from an earlier one I posted but this is New I can promise that

My bestfriend is a girl. So it all starts with this week, Monday. She's got a boyfriend, but he treats her horrible and she tells ma all about it. Well, she started talking to another guy on Monday and told me how sweet he was. How he told her how bad her boyfriend was and she deserved to be treated right. I kinda stopped talking and was like oh haha and she was like youre acting weird. I was jealous because I've said that to her and she either goes "I can't" or she gets mad.

Well Tuesday.... We hang out and I bring my friend. We go to this event near my school, it's the one place her boyfriend doesn't care if we hangout at since theres a lot of people. It was Christmas themed. So me and my friend left her there with some girl for 20 minutes. We come back and she's in the front and she texts me and goes "So pissed at you" and I was like why. Afterwards, I pulled her aside and went "I swear to god on my grandmothers grave if you dont talk to me now, we're never talking again." and I went on...

"I feel like you treat me like -blam!- cause other people treat you like it. Like you have no respect for me-" and she tells me it was cause I ditched her and she was upset. I told her I was sorry and I grabbed her and hugged her for a minute. Suddenly, her eyes got really glassy like she was about to cry.

An hour later, I get a text telling me she went home, took a shower and bawled her eyes out. I was her breaking point. She's been so upset lately and I was her breaking point. I tried my best apologizing and making up for it and she ends it with saying I embarrassed her by berating her. And telling me night.

We haven't talked since Tuesday and we normally talk 24/7. Hell, I've yet to even give her her Christmas gift and if she's done with me, what am I supposed to do with it? It's killing me to not talk to her. I haven't texted her since.


Flood, I seem Beta as -blam!- right now but this is my bestfriend please, what the hell do I do?


-blam!-, this is why everyone thinks this one is a repost.

[Edited on 12.14.2012 8:56 AM PST]

  • 12.14.2012 8:51 AM PDT
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Nice repost

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how did i get back to facebook!!!!!!

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Posted by: Decieved Soul
My bestfriend is a girl.

stopped reading right there.....

[Edited on 12.14.2012 8:54 AM PST]

  • 12.14.2012 8:53 AM PDT

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Posted by: Decieved Soul
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bestfriend please, what the hell do I do?


She got mad at you? because her boyfriend is an asshat?

She's projecting her loathing for him onto you.

tl-dr: move the -blam!- on with your life, and get some more frineds, the last thing you need is somebody like that bogging you down

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  • 12.14.2012 8:54 AM PDT


Posted by: Pong Krell
Nice repost
This isn't a repost?

  • 12.14.2012 8:54 AM PDT
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You already made this thread.

  • 12.14.2012 8:54 AM PDT

This thread...seems familiar.

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Posted by: Terry 369

Posted by: Decieved Soul
My bestfriend is a girl.

stopped reading right there.....
What...

  • 12.14.2012 8:54 AM PDT
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3rd edition. Now with more grunt.

TFS 4 lyfe

Lol!

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Posted by: Lazy bazooka
This thread...seems familiar.
But different. Okay seriously I just need advice. What the hell should I do!

  • 12.14.2012 8:55 AM PDT


Posted by: Rabid Grunt 3
Lol!
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  • 12.14.2012 8:57 AM PDT
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Posted by: Decieved Soul
But different. Okay seriously I just need advice. What the hell should I do!


Stop being such a wimp for a start. Text her to say you hope she's ok and leave it at that rather than thinking her happiness is your responsibility.

If you want to do the nasty with her just man up and tell her too. Not by text though and maybe in a more charming way.

ProTip: Never say things like:

I swear to god on my grandmothers grave if you dont talk to me now, we're never talking again

as it makes you look like a overly-dramatic weirdo.

[Edited on 12.14.2012 9:03 AM PST]

  • 12.14.2012 9:02 AM PDT
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You really think I should? Just be like "I hope you're okay."
Posted by: Opinion

Posted by: Decieved Soul
But different. Okay seriously I just need advice. What the hell should I do!


Stop being such a wimp for a start. Text her to say you hope she's ok and leave it at that rather than thinking her happiness is your responsibility.

If you want to do the nasty with her just man up and tell her too. Not by text though and maybe in a more charming way.

  • 12.14.2012 9:03 AM PDT
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Tell her to check herself before she wrecks herself.

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Posted by: Decieved Soul
You really think I should? Just be like "I hope you're okay."


Yeh dude. She'll appreciate that you're thinking of her but it also leaves the ball in her court and isn't overly dramatic. When she calms down/cheers up, if she's worth the hassle, she'll get in touch with you and it'll be all good.

  • 12.14.2012 9:05 AM PDT
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Posted by: Opinion

Posted by: Decieved Soul
You really think I should? Just be like "I hope you're okay."


Yeh dude. She'll appreciate that you're thinking of her but it also leaves the ball in her court and isn't overly dramatic. When she calms down/cheers up, if she's worth the hassle, she'll get in touch with you and it'll be all good.
Hm. Seems good. I'll do it now.

Doubt she'll reply but hey

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Posted by: Decieved Soul
Hm. Seems good. I'll do it now.

Doubt she'll reply but hey


If she doesn't reply don't keep texting her. Just do the one and leave it.

Play it cool and it'll be alright.

  • 12.14.2012 9:09 AM PDT


Posted by: Opinion

Posted by: Decieved Soul
Hm. Seems good. I'll do it now.

Doubt she'll reply but hey


If she doesn't reply don't keep texting her. Just do the one and leave it.

Play it cool and it'll be alright.
Alright, I'll leave it at that.

  • 12.14.2012 9:10 AM PDT
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You make out with midgets.


Posted by: Terry 369

Posted by: Decieved Soul
My bestfriend is a girl.

stopped reading right there.....


I stopped reading when he tried to compensate his large text wall with his small wiener.

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Two movies you should watch: Fight Club and Pineapple Express

"Wait. What do you mean, it's dead?"
"If marijuana is not legal within the next five years I have no faith left in humanity, period. Everyone likes smoking weed. They have for thousands of years. They're not going to stop anytime soon. You know? It makes everything better. Makes food taste better, makes music better. It makes sex feel better for God's sake. It makes -blam!- movies better you know?"

If you're being serious op then you have to man up if you really want her back. Be an alpha male because if you don't do anything you'll regret it and it'll eat at you.

  • 12.14.2012 9:23 AM PDT
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Text her, call her, show up at her door. Doesn't matter how you do it, just apologize sincerely. She sounds rather fragile.

  • 12.14.2012 9:32 AM PDT