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Subject: My Ex keeps trying to make me jealous...
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She goes to my church so I only see her there. We dated for 9 months and broke up back in April. We obviously didn't end on good terms. Now, my church has youth events(which is the only time I see her) and when she thinks I'm going to one she brings her boyfriend. That doesn't bother me really. What bothers me is that she's going out of her way just to try to make me jealous I guess. Its rather aggravating so I stopped going to these event yet she still continues to go hoping I will be there to see her and her boyfriend together.

I guess I just needed to vent.

For discussion what would you do in my situation?


[Edited on 12.15.2012 8:12 PM PST]

  • 12.15.2012 8:03 PM PDT

not be a little -blam!-. get over it.

  • 12.15.2012 8:04 PM PDT

Fap.

  • 12.15.2012 8:04 PM PDT
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"The meaning of justice can change from one day to the next. A professional soldier never brings justice into the mission. Politics are fickle, they change with the times. So long as we remain loyal to our countries, soldiers like us need nothing to believe in." - Snake

Uh... I think you know what the flood will recommend.

  • 12.15.2012 8:04 PM PDT

"Through the fog the army moves on. Pushing through borders. Knocking over obstacles. Killing all enemies. Victory is secured, brothers, march on until the flag rises over the landscape."
The Holy Council

Go up to her, ask how much stuff can you stuff in a stuffy 'till your stuffys' stuffed enough stuff, and walk away.

  • 12.15.2012 8:04 PM PDT

Sometimes, I dream about cheese.

Ignore them, when I screwed up a relationship she blatantly flirted and hugged her new guy infront of me.


I just kept a straight face and did my work.

  • 12.15.2012 8:05 PM PDT

心の中に弱い風が吹いています。

Be jealous.

  • 12.15.2012 8:05 PM PDT

I'm an Indonesian Halo (and other games) gamer!
Bhineka Tunggal Ika!!

STick it in her pooper, nuke her from orbit, kick her in the ballz, whip it out...

You know the drill

  • 12.15.2012 8:05 PM PDT

@spawn031

"So much of what we do is ephemeral and quickly forgotten, even by ourselves, so it's gratifying to have something you have done linger in people's memories." John Williams

Quit acknowledging her, quit thinking about her. The longer you keep thinking about it, the worse it's going to get. Cut off communication, ignore her. Remove her from your social media websites. I've been there, it's better to just ignore and you'll move on.

Start your own path.

  • 12.15.2012 8:05 PM PDT
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Talk to the Soul | ~B.B. | Know Your Duardo |  | Hero | ISFJ | 77135 | 94371

"It's not who I am underneath, but what I do that defines me."

Perhaps she's the one uncomfortable and brings her boyfriend along to keep her company and you are just seeing things that aren't there. Just a guess though.

  • 12.15.2012 8:06 PM PDT

Sometimes, I dream about cheese.


Posted by: Duardo
Perhaps she's the one uncomfortable and brings her boyfriend along to keep her company and you are just seeing things that aren't there. Just a guess though.



Seeing things as in ghosts or seeing things as in thinking she is trying to make him Jealous but she really just moved on and he hasn't?

  • 12.15.2012 8:07 PM PDT

"Life is constantly fleeting from your grasp even from the very day it's bestowed upon you, but the shadow of death is always there, waiting for its chance to take you away."

"Even though many may not think so, ignorance and innocence are one and the same. The only difference is that one sounds nicer."

"I once knew a man who spent his entire life contemplating where we go after our death....it's a shame he realized it a second too late to tell anyone."

Quit giving a damn, or just ignore her to piss her off. That would be funny! :D

  • 12.15.2012 8:08 PM PDT

Perpetual Ninja in training.

"If you wish to make an apple pie from scratch, you must first invent the universe."

DMH

Los Paranoias

Sounds to me like your making something out of nothing. What if she just wanted to bring her boyfriend along with her, and the fact that she brings him even when you don't go just means she doesn't care if you're there or not?



OP has feelings for his ex.

  • 12.15.2012 8:08 PM PDT

Posted by: The Kangol Kid
It was then that I decided he really is like semen(everywhere) and I gave up on life.


zoobkillerninja <3

I would still go and not let her bother me because she's stupid.

  • 12.15.2012 8:09 PM PDT

My ex did that to me too, actually. In a different way of course but, every time I saw her anywhere in town she'd like lunge at her boyfriend (and her boyfriend is always with her) and start hugging in this kind of obsessive way or kissing. I didn't really give a -blam!- because I got over her ages ago, but it was really hard not to notice since seemed to wave her arms around saying look what I'm about to do. I decided to wait for the right moment to tell her how -blam!- she was.

Then came the day she confessed her wuv for me and wanted me back. Is it weird I feel so good for making that day so terrible for her?

I think the most annoying thing about it though was when her boyfriend found out about her trying to get me back, she told everyone she "needed to know I had gotten over her". And the boyfriend ate that -blam!- right up.

[Edited on 12.15.2012 8:12 PM PST]

  • 12.15.2012 8:09 PM PDT

GOAT

It just means she's stuck on you.

Don't get mad, rub it in, if you wanna get back at her.

  • 12.15.2012 8:09 PM PDT
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Get one of your friends to tell her that you killed yourself because you couldn't have her back. Then have said friend say "____ said that he loved you, _____"

  • 12.15.2012 8:10 PM PDT

Perpetual Ninja in training.

"If you wish to make an apple pie from scratch, you must first invent the universe."

DMH

Los Paranoias


Posted by: CamCamm
I would still go and not let her bother me because she's stupid.
THAT IS NOT NICE



Duardo

BAN HER D: this user is being mean and hates cupcakes.

  • 12.15.2012 8:10 PM PDT
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"The hero is the one who kindles a great light in the world, who sets up blazing torches in the dark streets of life for men to see by.
The saint is the man who walks through the dark paths of the world, himself a light."
-Felix Adler

What exactly is she doing to try and make you jealous? By just being there with her boyfriend, or something else?

  • 12.15.2012 8:11 PM PDT
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Posted by: Duardo
Perhaps she's the one uncomfortable and brings her boyfriend along to keep her company and you are just seeing things that aren't there. Just a guess though.
the thing is..no one in the youth group likes her. Which leads me to think she's doing it just to piss me off

  • 12.15.2012 8:14 PM PDT

Sometimes, I dream about cheese.


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Posted by: Duardo
Perhaps she's the one uncomfortable and brings her boyfriend along to keep her company and you are just seeing things that aren't there. Just a guess though.
the thing is..no one in the youth group likes her. Which leads me to think she's doing it just to piss me off



That makes it seem more like she needs someone to be with her during those events then.

  • 12.15.2012 8:15 PM PDT

I have a banana booty!


Posted by: Noobkilla73
Go up to her, ask how much stuff can you stuff in a stuffy 'till your stuffys' stuffed enough stuff, and walk away.
Walk away on your hands.

  • 12.15.2012 8:16 PM PDT
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"The hero is the one who kindles a great light in the world, who sets up blazing torches in the dark streets of life for men to see by.
The saint is the man who walks through the dark paths of the world, himself a light."
-Felix Adler


Posted by: DampestTyler

Posted by: Noobkilla73
Go up to her, ask how much stuff can you stuff in a stuffy 'till your stuffys' stuffed enough stuff, and walk away.
Walk away on your hands.

With your feet in your mouth.

  • 12.15.2012 8:17 PM PDT
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Posted by: deadlyfluffball

Posted by: idiotsbuyCOD

Posted by: Duardo
Perhaps she's the one uncomfortable and brings her boyfriend along to keep her company and you are just seeing things that aren't there. Just a guess though.
the thing is..no one in the youth group likes her. Which leads me to think she's doing it just to piss me off



That makes it seem more like she needs someone to be with her during those events then.
for what though? Why would someone go somewhere when they know the're not liked?

  • 12.15.2012 8:20 PM PDT
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Lick the starfish that lies between her fleshy mounds......for NARDNIA!!!

  • 12.15.2012 8:20 PM PDT

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