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Subject: Loneliness

lol

Luckily I dont have to deal with that emotion.

Though, I suggest you find someone or it will destroy you inside out.
Eventually.

[Edited on 12.17.2012 11:53 AM PST]

  • 12.17.2012 11:40 AM PDT
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Posted by: Darthbill99
don't wait for them to take pity and talk to you, you need to go and talk to them. You have to realize that the only person causing your problems is you. I'm the same way, and honestly I haven't made a whole lot of progress, but the fist step is realizing that you are the problem so only you can fix it.
I do talk to them. I walk up to them and talk to them

  • 12.17.2012 11:52 AM PDT
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Posted by: SpecOps0
lol

Luckily I dont have to deal with that emotion.

Though, I suggest you find someone or it will destroy you inside out.
Eventually.
Thanks -_- helps me so much

  • 12.17.2012 12:06 PM PDT
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Lonely/unliked feelings start a bad cycle for a lot of people. You feel unliked, so since you think no one likes you, you isolate yourself. That makes you feel lonely. When you're lonely for a long time, you start to think no one likes you, so you isolate yourself . . .

You'll run in circles for a while, and that's okay. Almost everyone does it, and it's worse around holidays for a lot of people. All those people feeling lonely who could be in it together are out there wandering around feeling alone, which is a little sad! Even those people on here that claim they've never struggled with it, most of them went through that cycle a few times before they realized acting like a tough guy gets them attention and makes them feel more liked.

There will be people who know you buzzing around trying to get close. When that happens, as hard as it may be, fight that self-isolation impulse that comes from assuming people don't like or care about you and let them in. You'll probably find out they actually do.

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  • 12.17.2012 12:21 PM PDT

There's a “U” and “I” in union but just an “I” in my beliefs

Try getting a job.

  • 12.17.2012 12:44 PM PDT

Marine Corps.
Semper Fi.

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Posted by: SpecOps0
lol

Luckily I dont have to deal with that emotion.

Though, I suggest you find someone or it will destroy you inside out.
Eventually.
Thanks -_- helps me so much


LOL

  • 12.17.2012 12:46 PM PDT
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I hate it when people just say "Well, just be social and make friends!" Well it's not that easy.

  • 12.17.2012 12:47 PM PDT

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Introverts are often very sociable but just need time to themselves occasionally to recover. Shy people are never socialable.This isn't to say people can't change out of these mindsets. People can go get put in new situations that force them to be sociable, other times they'll actively 'work' to be social on their own, until it feels natural.

  • 12.17.2012 12:56 PM PDT

+1 for you good sir.

Or... You could go out and talk to your family? Just because they don't start the conversation doesn't mean you can't.

  • 12.17.2012 12:58 PM PDT
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Posted by: D Deity
Try getting a job.
I would like to but I have so much school work so it might make it hard

  • 12.17.2012 1:12 PM PDT

Here to end the borrowed time you've all been living on.

Happiness is something that comes from the inside, try metta meditation and you will eventually learn to love yourself and then love others. You won't be lonely any more after that

  • 12.17.2012 1:17 PM PDT

A competitive players main goal is to win.
A casuals main goal is to have fun regardless of whether that results in a win or loss.
It has nothing to do with individual skill or knowledge, it has to do with the reason you play.

Threads like this makes me sad.

To your question, I've never really been lonely.

  • 12.17.2012 1:19 PM PDT

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Don't just talk to people, ask them legit questions.

Know enough about them to ask questions that they'd be interested in.

If your cousin is into sports, ask them about their favorite team. Know someone went on vacation? Ask them how that went.

  • 12.17.2012 1:28 PM PDT

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