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Subject: Girl Question, gotta hit that quota
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Why would a girl who texts me, talks to me, goes out to lunch with me, etc. change the subject when I'm brought up?

My friend who introduced me to this girl asked her how our lunch date went while they were at work, and she changed the subject immediately. This persisted until he quit asking, then not 5 minutes later she told him that I said hi because I was texting her while they having this discussion.

For once, I'm pretty confused, and so is my friend. This is the first girl I've talked to and been interested in for a while, so I'm trying to do things right.

  • 12.19.2012 2:40 AM PDT
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"The hero is the one who kindles a great light in the world, who sets up blazing torches in the dark streets of life for men to see by.
The saint is the man who walks through the dark paths of the world, himself a light."
-Felix Adler

May not be interested.

  • 12.19.2012 2:43 AM PDT


Posted by: Uthark the Druid
This is the first girl I've talked to and been interested in for a while, so I'm trying to do things right.
How old are you?

  • 12.19.2012 2:44 AM PDT
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Posted by: Qbix89
Talking about Sweden is an ultrabannable offense.

Posted by: Achronos
Too bad being completely and utterly wrong isn't a bannable offense.

Posted by: Insane Gunman
Posted by: Uthark the Druid
This is the first girl I've talked to and been interested in for a while, so I'm trying to do things right.
How old are you?
I am gonna guess and say out of high school.

  • 12.19.2012 2:46 AM PDT
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Posted by: Emperor Gillard
May not be interested.

I don't know, especially with this one.
Only one way to find out.

Posted by: Garshne
Posted by: Insane Gunman
Posted by: Uthark the Druid
This is the first girl I've talked to and been interested in for a while, so I'm trying to do things right.
How old are you?
I am gonna guess and say out of high school.

Correct.

[Edited on 12.19.2012 2:54 AM PST]

  • 12.19.2012 2:52 AM PDT
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Posted by: Qbix89
Talking about Sweden is an ultrabannable offense.

Posted by: Achronos
Too bad being completely and utterly wrong isn't a bannable offense.

I'm going to give you the optimistic answer and say that maybe she hasn't sorted out how she feels about you yet and doesn't want to give your friend or you the wrong idea until she decides yes or no.

Eh, women.

  • 12.19.2012 2:55 AM PDT

GAAAAYYY

She obviously wasn't completely satisfied with the lunch date, but she doesn't want to tell your friend that because she thinks its not very nice. Neither will she say it was good because she doesn't want you's to think that she likes you. So she chooses the easy way out: Change subject.

  • 12.19.2012 2:59 AM PDT
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Posted by: Prototype117

Contrary to this though, we're going back out tomorrow.

My friend suggested she's nervous, he told me she hasn't really dated around. I mean, the one other guy she has ever talked about bats for the other team, and she made that a point.

Either way, I'll find out tomorrow.

  • 12.19.2012 3:07 AM PDT

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Posted by: Wikked Navajoe
My problems [with Reach] are basically just full parties, mlg, and people who go out of their way not to get killed.

You deserve to know what's up. Give it a few days and another date or two to see what happens. If it persists, bring it up.

  • 12.19.2012 3:09 AM PDT
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Posted by: Qbix89
Talking about Sweden is an ultrabannable offense.

Posted by: Achronos
Too bad being completely and utterly wrong isn't a bannable offense.

Posted by: Prototype117
She obviously wasn't completely satisfied with the lunch date, but she doesn't want to tell your friend that because she thinks its not very nice. Neither will she say it was good because she doesn't want you's to think that she likes you. So she chooses the easy way out: Change subject.
She'd have to be quite a -blam!- to be leading OP on like this though.

  • 12.19.2012 3:09 AM PDT
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She likes you but is too emotionally immature to deal with it.

  • 12.19.2012 3:13 AM PDT

There comes a time in every mans life... and that time is not now.

Posted by: Uthark the Druid
so I'm trying

This is where you went wrong.

  • 12.19.2012 3:16 AM PDT
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They should just make an HLG playlist then you guys can hide against each other and see how much fun it is.

why are you asking this in a website populated by virgins

  • 12.19.2012 3:18 AM PDT

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Posted by: Wikked Navajoe
My problems [with Reach] are basically just full parties, mlg, and people who go out of their way not to get killed.


Posted by: Anto91
why are you asking this in a website populated by virgins


You wind up with... PURE advice?? God I'm good.

  • 12.19.2012 3:22 AM PDT
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Posted by: KIBOSH
They should just make an HLG playlist then you guys can hide against each other and see how much fun it is.

Posted by: Viper Skills
Posted by: Anto91
why are you asking this in a website populated by virgins


You wind up with... PURE advice?? God I'm good.
come back in ft dude

  • 12.19.2012 3:23 AM PDT

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Posted by: Wikked Navajoe
My problems [with Reach] are basically just full parties, mlg, and people who go out of their way not to get killed.

Might as well since I'm posting on these forums anyway.

  • 12.19.2012 3:24 AM PDT
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Express your love to her in a well writen text or facebook message. Trust me bro it works.

  • 12.19.2012 3:26 AM PDT

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Better talk to a girl. Girls are complicated to begin with and you're on the Flood...... not a good start.

  • 12.19.2012 3:30 AM PDT

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Express your love to her in a well writen text or facebook message. Trust me bro it works.
Translation: WRITE her a note or just say what you feel straight to her face.

  • 12.19.2012 4:55 AM PDT