- MyNameIsCharlie
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Studies show that men think about sex every 7 seconds. I do my best to eat hotdogs in under 6, just so things don't get weird.
Please allow me to introduce Myself
I'm a man of wealth and taste
I've been around for a long, long year
Stole many a man's soul and faith
You can't make her like you more than friends. Life doesn't work that way.
But, there are some things you can do to be more agreeable to her.
1) Be more confident in yourself. Don't be a douche about it, but stop second guessing yourself in front of her. It makes you look weak. Just make a decision and stick with it.
2) Take a look at how the guys she looks at dress, and mimic that style. She will more than not tell you what she wants, you just have to listen.
3) Improve yourself. If you don't already, start working out, and caring about how you look and smell. I don't just mean shower and brush your teeth, but get a fashionable haircut and good cologne.
4) When you listen to her, listen to her, but also make a point to talk too. When I hear you guys talk about the friend zone I cringe, cause I know you are trying to nice guy it to death. Which means you listen intently and rarely talk. She wants you to talk to. So form an opinion and be prepared to defend it.
5) Don't overdo being the nice guy. Yeah, women love it when you hold the door, look deeply into their eyes and all that. But they also love it when you sneak a peak at their ass. They like to feel hot, and its up to you to show them they are. So, go ahead and look, just don't be a perv about it.
6) If you don't have a job, get one. And then spend some money on her. While some women will shout that money isn't everything, none would ever shout that its nothing. You don't see the guy with a bus pass getting a lot of action.
7) Sneaky stuff: When you try to make a move and you get rejected, ignore her for a bit. Remove your approval. Human beings want approval, and it hurts when it isn't there. Then, after a couple of weeks, give it back and try to make a move again. Repeat as necessary. If she really isn't interested in you, then she'll leave. If she doesn't leave, she's interested. Yes, by doing this you are a jerk. But it works.
That's all I got at the moment. It sounds like you are underaged, so much of my later advice will not be open to you until you are 21.