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Subject: Nice Guy Syndrome

"Life is constantly fleeting from your grasp even from the very day it's bestowed upon you, but the shadow of death is always there, waiting for its chance to take you away."

"Even though many may not think so, ignorance and innocence are one and the same. The only difference is that one sounds nicer."

"I once knew a man who spent his entire life contemplating where we go after our death....it's a shame he realized it a second too late to tell anyone."


Posted by: Dark Hunter 2100

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I have no idea what's going on right now, so i'm just going to post this picture of a puppy.


Same
B*TCH, Siberian huskies are better than beagles.

  • 12.20.2012 6:45 PM PDT


Posted by: jaythenerdkid

Posted by: NinjaLord77
Do you like nice guys OP?
Can't say I'm a fan.

I mean, my boyfriend is nice, but that's hardly the best thing about him. Probably not even in the top five, to be honest.


Ok do you like guys who are kind?

  • 12.20.2012 6:48 PM PDT

Why Bungie, why would you do this?! - Halo Community


Posted by: True Deception

Posted by: Dark Hunter 2100

Posted by: True Deception
I have no idea what's going on right now, so i'm just going to post this picture of a puppy.


Same
B*TCH, Siberian huskies are better than beagles.


YOU WANNA GO, LETS GO

  • 12.20.2012 6:48 PM PDT

GOAT

Actually. My friend is a "nice guy". He goes out of his way SO much to make girls happy, and to try and do everything he possibly can for them. The only problem is he gets nervous once he likes a girl. Since he doesn't have a lot of self-confidence, he stops acting like himself and his personality is as boring as rocks.

  • 12.20.2012 6:49 PM PDT

signatures are for fa- wait

Saw this same -blam!- on /r9k/

All these pics need more Fedoras

  • 12.20.2012 6:51 PM PDT

Posted by: Kurosaki_Kun

I know, right?
Jay acts like she's better than everyone else simply because she's a chick.
I hope she chokes to death.


Posted by: NinjaLord77

Posted by: jaythenerdkid

Posted by: NinjaLord77
Do you like nice guys OP?
Can't say I'm a fan.

I mean, my boyfriend is nice, but that's hardly the best thing about him. Probably not even in the top five, to be honest.


Ok do you like guys who are kind?
Sure, but it's not what I look for over all other things. Again, not even in the top five things I care about. It's nice, but it's something I would want in any friend, not exclusively in someone I'd look for as a prospective romantic partner.

  • 12.20.2012 6:51 PM PDT

"Life is constantly fleeting from your grasp even from the very day it's bestowed upon you, but the shadow of death is always there, waiting for its chance to take you away."

"Even though many may not think so, ignorance and innocence are one and the same. The only difference is that one sounds nicer."

"I once knew a man who spent his entire life contemplating where we go after our death....it's a shame he realized it a second too late to tell anyone."


Posted by: Dark Hunter 2100

Posted by: True Deception

Posted by: Dark Hunter 2100

Posted by: True Deception
I have no idea what's going on right now, so i'm just going to post this picture of a puppy.


Same
B*TCH, Siberian huskies are better than beagles.


YOU WANNA GO, LETS GO
IS THAT THE BEST YOU GOT?!

  • 12.20.2012 6:52 PM PDT

If we disagree, it's nothing personal, opinions are opinions.
Antagonizing me to build a false sense of worth is so damn cute.

Brighten your day with science.

Posted by: jaythenerdkid

Posted by: Anonymous Dark
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It's funny, because self-professed "nice guys" are quite often some of the most misogynistic, self-absorbed -blam!-s you'll meet.
I'M SO NICE, I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY THE STUPID WHORE WON'T JUST LET ME HAVE SEX WITH HER ALREADY

I MEAN I CUT THE CRUST OFF HER SAMMICHES AND EVERYTHING

  • 12.20.2012 6:54 PM PDT
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I thought everyone knew that whole nice guy thing didnt work. The only thing that works is a combination of looks and the "not giving a -blam!- attitude". Never, I repeat NEVER, show interest early on. It's not until she starts doing crazy -blam!- she never thought of doing before (basically act like a whore) that you know that you've done the right thing. That's when you can start being somewhat nice.

  • 12.20.2012 7:01 PM PDT

If we disagree, it's nothing personal, opinions are opinions.
Antagonizing me to build a false sense of worth is so damn cute.

Brighten your day with science.

TIL being nice is looked down upon in this establishment.

  • 12.20.2012 7:04 PM PDT

I would say it is an excuse for people on the internet. Nice guy syndrome does not exist.

  • 12.20.2012 7:08 PM PDT
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That's not called Nice Guy Syndrome, it's called WKing. Get your terms right. It's also the only way ugly guys can get girls.

  • 12.20.2012 7:08 PM PDT
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"The tide flows down, the wave again
Is vocal in its wooded walls;
My deeper anguish also falls,
And I can speak a little then."

-Tennyson

You're misinterpreting the position of the majority of guys who complain about their lack of consummation as nice guys. It would naturally be merely a small percentage who would believe that their kindness and that quality alone should signify their attractiveness to girls. For all the rest, it's the notion and its application that warrant their discomfort, that girls tend to gravitate more towards the male who isn't nice than towards the one who is. What seems to be a large percentage of this group misconstrues this observation as entirely reflecting upon the quality (or lack thereof) of kindness, and not also upon aspects like confidence, masculinity, assertiveness, etc. Still, to suggest that all presumed "nice guys" attempt to be such and expect praise for the effort is an insult to the other masses who simply question the potency of their positions of exceeding kindness because of the seemingly inherent nature of the human to desire to a greater extent that which evades than that which succumbs.

  • 12.20.2012 7:09 PM PDT

Trust me, I'm the Doctor...

http://www.youtube.com/xZomGGamingx

Nice guys who label themselves as such generally aren't actual nice at all. In fact, they tend to be hypocritical idiots.

Now, I think I am actually a nice person. And I try to be as nice and helpful as possible because I think that its what you should try to be, you should do right by people and do the right thing no matter what, and that if you do good deeds, good things should come in return;

The idea that girls should be obligated to like you because you're "nice" is ludicrous, and if you think that, you aren't actually nice at all.

  • 12.20.2012 7:09 PM PDT

Why Bungie, why would you do this?! - Halo Community


Posted by: True Deception

Posted by: Dark Hunter 2100

Posted by: True Deception

Posted by: Dark Hunter 2100

Posted by: True Deception
I have no idea what's going on right now, so i'm just going to post this picture of a puppy.


Same
B*TCH, Siberian huskies are better than beagles.


YOU WANNA GO, LETS GO
IS THAT THE BEST YOU GOT?!


TEAM BEAGLE, REGROUP, READY A COUNTER ATTACK.

BTW, I find "nice guys" to often be self-centered. Me, I'm not a nice guy. I'll cut your throat in the dead of night. Or maybe I'll just give you a glare. You might never know.

[Edited on 12.20.2012 7:14 PM PST]

  • 12.20.2012 7:09 PM PDT

Posted by: Kurosaki_Kun

I know, right?
Jay acts like she's better than everyone else simply because she's a chick.
I hope she chokes to death.


Posted by: DarkSunnyboy1
TIL being nice is looked down upon in this establishment.
Yeah, that's definitely what's being said here.

  • 12.20.2012 7:10 PM PDT
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I've also noticed a lot of [asshole] syndrome.

  • 12.20.2012 7:13 PM PDT

Posted by: x Foman123 x

Posted by: TH3_AV3NG3R
What house has a rocket pod, has legs, and has a long narrow barrel that probably shoots something powerful?

Sounds like you're describing the lower half of my body, actually.

Lol. It is so much better being an -blam!- and a -blam!- to girls. I always get laid. Seriously, guys stop being nice to girls they don't find that attractive.

  • 12.20.2012 7:15 PM PDT

Posted by: Kurosaki_Kun

I know, right?
Jay acts like she's better than everyone else simply because she's a chick.
I hope she chokes to death.


Posted by: TH3_AV3NG3R
Lol. It is so much better being an -blam!- and a -blam!- to girls. I always get laid. Seriously, guys stop being nice to girls they don't find that attractive.
You realise this is just a corollary of Nice Guy Syndrome, right?

"They don't like nice guys, so I have to be an ass in order to get them!"

Nope. Still wrong.

  • 12.20.2012 7:17 PM PDT

If we disagree, it's nothing personal, opinions are opinions.
Antagonizing me to build a false sense of worth is so damn cute.

Brighten your day with science.

Posted by: jaythenerdkid

Posted by: DarkSunnyboy1
TIL being nice is looked down upon in this establishment.
Yeah, that's definitely what's being said here.

-.-

Jay.

Come ahhhhhn. Seems like sarcasm is...

[Edited on 12.20.2012 7:19 PM PST]

  • 12.20.2012 7:19 PM PDT

Posted by: Kurosaki_Kun

I know, right?
Jay acts like she's better than everyone else simply because she's a chick.
I hope she chokes to death.


Posted by: Midnight Beauty
The chick is right. I don't know why people think being nice is the only recurrent for getting girls. You have to have personality and establish some kind of worth or value. Women don't just want a nice guy. That's why they have guy friends.
Or friends in general, really.

I don't think guys just want nice girls, either. :P

  • 12.20.2012 7:19 PM PDT

Posted by: x Foman123 x

Posted by: TH3_AV3NG3R
What house has a rocket pod, has legs, and has a long narrow barrel that probably shoots something powerful?

Sounds like you're describing the lower half of my body, actually.


Posted by: jaythenerdkid

Posted by: TH3_AV3NG3R
Lol. It is so much better being an -blam!- and a -blam!- to girls. I always get laid. Seriously, guys stop being nice to girls they don't find that attractive.
You realise this is just a corollary of Nice Guy Syndrome, right?

"They don't like nice guys, so I have to be an ass in order to get them!"

Nope. Still wrong.

It is too bad I am right. Being a person who was a nice person it is much better being an ass to girls. Works and I don't have to try as hard. Women don't like nice guys, they like people who are the alpha male.

  • 12.20.2012 7:23 PM PDT

If we disagree, it's nothing personal, opinions are opinions.
Antagonizing me to build a false sense of worth is so damn cute.

Brighten your day with science.

Posted by: Midnight Beauty

Posted by: jaythenerdkid

Posted by: Midnight Beauty
The chick is right. I don't know why people think being nice is the only recurrent for getting girls. You have to have personality and establish some kind of worth or value. Women don't just want a nice guy. That's why they have guy friends.
Or friends in general, really.

I don't think guys just want nice girls, either. :P

I know I don't. Personably, I like girls who are down to do a lot of different things and have a cool personality who's cool with everyone. Being nice simply isn't enough.

Posted by: Midnight Beauty
Personably

lol

And this is the first time I agree with a Rose alt.

  • 12.20.2012 7:24 PM PDT