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"The tide flows down, the wave again
Is vocal in its wooded walls;
My deeper anguish also falls,
And I can speak a little then."
-Tennyson
You're misinterpreting the position of the majority of guys who complain about their lack of consummation as nice guys. It would naturally be merely a small percentage who would believe that their kindness and that quality alone should signify their attractiveness to girls. For all the rest, it's the notion and its application that warrant their discomfort, that girls tend to gravitate more towards the male who isn't nice than towards the one who is. What seems to be a large percentage of this group misconstrues this observation as entirely reflecting upon the quality (or lack thereof) of kindness, and not also upon aspects like confidence, masculinity, assertiveness, etc. Still, to suggest that all presumed "nice guys" attempt to be such and expect praise for the effort is an insult to the other masses who simply question the potency of their positions of exceeding kindness because of the seemingly inherent nature of the human to desire to a greater extent that which evades than that which succumbs.