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Subject: Nice Guy Syndrome

Posted by: Kurosaki_Kun

I know, right?
Jay acts like she's better than everyone else simply because she's a chick.
I hope she chokes to death.


Posted by: TH3_AV3NG3R

Posted by: jaythenerdkid

Posted by: TH3_AV3NG3R
Lol. It is so much better being an -blam!- and a -blam!- to girls. I always get laid. Seriously, guys stop being nice to girls they don't find that attractive.
You realise this is just a corollary of Nice Guy Syndrome, right?

"They don't like nice guys, so I have to be an ass in order to get them!"

Nope. Still wrong.

It is too bad I am right. Being a person who was a nice person it is much better being an ass to girls. Works and I don't have to try as hard. Women don't like nice guys, they like people who are the alpha male.
LOL

Mansplain to me harder, baby.

  • 12.20.2012 7:25 PM PDT

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Posted by: TH3_AV3NG3R

Posted by: jaythenerdkid

Posted by: TH3_AV3NG3R
Lol. It is so much better being an -blam!- and a -blam!- to girls. I always get laid. Seriously, guys stop being nice to girls they don't find that attractive.
You realise this is just a corollary of Nice Guy Syndrome, right?

"They don't like nice guys, so I have to be an ass in order to get them!"

Nope. Still wrong.

It is too bad I am right. Being a person who was a nice person it is much better being an ass to girls. Works and I don't have to try as hard. Women don't like nice guys, they like people who are the alpha male.
I've been having luck just existing.

  • 12.20.2012 7:25 PM PDT

GOAT


Posted by: TH3_AV3NG3R

Posted by: jaythenerdkid

Posted by: TH3_AV3NG3R
Lol. It is so much better being an -blam!- and a -blam!- to girls. I always get laid. Seriously, guys stop being nice to girls they don't find that attractive.
You realise this is just a corollary of Nice Guy Syndrome, right?

"They don't like nice guys, so I have to be an ass in order to get them!"

Nope. Still wrong.

It is too bad I am right. Being a person who was a nice person it is much better being an ass to girls. Works and I don't have to try as hard. Women don't like nice guys, they like people who are the alpha male.

lol

  • 12.20.2012 7:26 PM PDT

If we disagree, it's nothing personal, opinions are opinions.
Antagonizing me to build a false sense of worth is so damn cute.

Brighten your day with science.

Posted by: TH3_AV3NG3R

Posted by: jaythenerdkid

Posted by: TH3_AV3NG3R
Lol. It is so much better being an -blam!- and a -blam!- to girls. I always get laid. Seriously, guys stop being nice to girls they don't find that attractive.
You realise this is just a corollary of Nice Guy Syndrome, right?

"They don't like nice guys, so I have to be an ass in order to get them!"

Nope. Still wrong.

It is too bad I am right. Being a person who was a nice person it is much better being an ass to girls. Works and I don't have to try as hard. Women don't like nice guys, they like people who are the alpha male.


You must go for some really dumb bimbos.

  • 12.20.2012 7:26 PM PDT

A good person beats an arrogant ass wipe any day.

  • 12.20.2012 7:30 PM PDT

If we disagree, it's nothing personal, opinions are opinions.
Antagonizing me to build a false sense of worth is so damn cute.

Brighten your day with science.

Posted by: NinjaLord77
A good person beats an arrogant ass wipe any day.

"Good" is pretty broad.

  • 12.20.2012 7:31 PM PDT


Posted by: DarkSunnyboy1
Posted by: NinjaLord77
A good person beats an arrogant ass wipe any day.

"Good" is pretty broad.


You know kind, helpful, dependable, mature and bla bla.

  • 12.20.2012 7:32 PM PDT

GOAT


Posted by: NinjaLord77
A good person beats an arrogant ass wipe any day.

Please, don't treat things like they're so black and white

  • 12.20.2012 7:34 PM PDT


Posted by: BlackHeaven

Posted by: NinjaLord77
A good person beats an arrogant ass wipe any day.

Please, don't treat things like they're so black and white


I think you know what I meant.

  • 12.20.2012 7:35 PM PDT

Posted by: Kurosaki_Kun

I know, right?
Jay acts like she's better than everyone else simply because she's a chick.
I hope she chokes to death.


Posted by: Darkslayer18264

The idea that girls should be obligated to like you because you're "nice" is ludicrous, and if you think that, you aren't actually nice at all.
And yet, a scarily large number of people, both male and female, believe this.

Someone once posited Taylor Swift as the ultimate Nice Girl, and I totally agree.

  • 12.20.2012 10:11 PM PDT

Wasting their time trying to find excuses as to why they should have women, instead of simply improving themselves.

  • 12.20.2012 10:18 PM PDT

Check out my youtube channel. http://www.youtube.com/user/ultratog1028

I'm a nice guy, simply because I wish others to be nicer. My problem is I'm either too nice, or too mean. I've always put everything possible into my current emotion.

I understand why people with Nice Guy Syndrome (heck I've had it at times) act the way they do. I also know why it doesn't work (if you give someone 100% nice all the time, there's no incentive for the other person to increase the relationship's level. You already are giving 100% effort. Also Emotional Depth is nice. And showing only one emotion is as shallow as you can be.)

  • 12.20.2012 10:22 PM PDT

Posted by: Dustin 6047
Troll confirmed. I never even insulted you

Posted by: Dustin 6047
OP - You're a dumbass with the reading comprehension skills of a second grader.


Can someone tell me what's wrong with these two, this made me LOL hard.

I'm an all around nice guy. I tend to make friends quickly.

In college, girls like guys that are helpful. Girls don't really like guys that look hot from what i've seen and experienced. At least, the ones here often talk to me if they need help and stuff.

  • 12.20.2012 10:35 PM PDT
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And here I enter this thread, thinking that this would be a discussion about the "villain" from The Incredibles.

  • 12.20.2012 10:41 PM PDT

The bible is the best book Ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I AM A PROUD CHRISTIAN. HALO IS AWESOME BUT GOD IS MUCH BETTER!!!!!!!!
Did you knew that JESUSdied for you?

lol at "nice guys" they are just superficial people trying to get dates,

  • 12.20.2012 11:22 PM PDT

No battle is decided in a single moment, although in every battle there arise moments of crisis, on which the result depends. - Carl von Clausewitz

No man’s knowledge can go beyond his own experience.- John Locke

How many Ukrainians does it take to change a lightbulb? None, they glow in the dark!


Posted by: Koolen
Their mistake is posting online how nice they are and not going out in the real world meeting people and getting to know them.
And the fact they don't treat -blam!-es like -blam!-es.

  • 12.20.2012 11:23 PM PDT

Posted by: Kurosaki_Kun

I know, right?
Jay acts like she's better than everyone else simply because she's a chick.
I hope she chokes to death.


Posted by: Cr4sh Dummy

Posted by: Koolen
Their mistake is posting online how nice they are and not going out in the real world meeting people and getting to know them.
And the fact they don't treat -blam!-es like -blam!-es.
nope LOL

  • 12.20.2012 11:26 PM PDT
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Posted by: Ric_Adbur
Posted by: Baph117
Canadian Na­zism is a polite ideology, ok?
"Into the boxcar now... there you go. Oh, watch your head. Here, let me help you... Yep, showers are right through there. No problem at all."


Posted by: jaythenerdkid
If you're only nice to people so they'll give you what you want, aren't you...not really all that nice at all?
I agree with most everything in your post, except this. All human interaction is based around what one party thinks they can get out of the other.

  • 12.20.2012 11:32 PM PDT

No battle is decided in a single moment, although in every battle there arise moments of crisis, on which the result depends. - Carl von Clausewitz

No man’s knowledge can go beyond his own experience.- John Locke

How many Ukrainians does it take to change a lightbulb? None, they glow in the dark!


Posted by: jaythenerdkid

Posted by: Cr4sh Dummy

Posted by: Koolen
Their mistake is posting online how nice they are and not going out in the real world meeting people and getting to know them.
And the fact they don't treat -blam!-es like -blam!-es.
nope LOL
Trust me, it works. Maybe the girls are slutty, but it works.

  • 12.20.2012 11:32 PM PDT
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Posted by: Ric_Adbur
Posted by: Baph117
Canadian Na­zism is a polite ideology, ok?
"Into the boxcar now... there you go. Oh, watch your head. Here, let me help you... Yep, showers are right through there. No problem at all."


Posted by: jaythenerdkid
The problem is that a lot (not most, but still a good amount) of women (or men) that are the objects of these guys (or gals) affection are aware of those feelings, and feed them just enough that they benefit from them without reciprocating.

  • 12.20.2012 11:40 PM PDT

Posted by: Kurosaki_Kun

I know, right?
Jay acts like she's better than everyone else simply because she's a chick.
I hope she chokes to death.


Posted by: Baph117

Posted by: jaythenerdkid
The problem is that a lot (not most, but still a good amount) of women (or men) that are the objects of these guys (or gals) affection are aware of those feelings, and feed them just enough that they benefit from them without reciprocating.
I'll own up to it - I have plenty of male friends that I keep around because they're useful or their attention is flattering. But, well, I'm in a relationship. If they're expecting something different, they're very clearly barking up the wrong tree. :P

In the end, they either get something out of their friendship with me, or they're suckers. Not really my problem either way. I don't think it's an exclusively female-to-male dynamic, either. Works both ways. I know a few guys who are excellent at getting girls to follow them around and give them whatever they want, but have no intention of ever dating any of them. Some people are just better at playing that game than others, I guess.

  • 12.20.2012 11:44 PM PDT

The bible is the best book Ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I AM A PROUD CHRISTIAN. HALO IS AWESOME BUT GOD IS MUCH BETTER!!!!!!!!
Did you knew that JESUSdied for you?

THIS
Posted by: Recon Number 54
Anytime that any human being doesn't get something/someone that they wanted and felt that they should have gotten, they tend to look for reasons.

Almost every conclusion that people come to when they "didn't get what they wanted" is a conclusion that ignores the reality that "you won't/don't always get what you want" and instead allows the individual to blame something other than themselves or simply the fact that not everyone is going to (or supposed to) like them.

"It's because I'm ________, isn't it?"

And you can put anything in the blank that the speaker is using as shield for their bruised/crushed ego.

Sex, preference, skin color, age, weight, income, heritage, personality.... well, the list is infinite.

  • 12.20.2012 11:48 PM PDT
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Posted by: Ric_Adbur
Posted by: Baph117
Canadian Na­zism is a polite ideology, ok?
"Into the boxcar now... there you go. Oh, watch your head. Here, let me help you... Yep, showers are right through there. No problem at all."


Posted by: jaythenerdkid
I'll own up to it - I have plenty of male friends that I keep around because they're useful or their attention is flattering. But, well, I'm in a relationship. If they're expecting something different, they're very clearly barking up the wrong tree. :P

In the end, they either get something out of their friendship with me, or they're suckers. Not really my problem either way. I don't think it's an exclusively female-to-male dynamic, either. Works both ways. I know a few guys who are excellent at getting girls to follow them around and give them whatever they want, but have no intention of ever dating any of them. Some people are just better at playing that game than others, I guess.
I would say that taking advantage of suckers isn't all that great behaviour, but of course I'd be a bit of a hypocrite. Still, I don't think someone should complain about a friend trying to take their relationship to the next level when they've intentionally perpetuated those feelings in the first place in order to reap the rewards of a "pseudo-boyfriend" if you will (or girlfriend).

  • 12.20.2012 11:48 PM PDT

No battle is decided in a single moment, although in every battle there arise moments of crisis, on which the result depends. - Carl von Clausewitz

No man’s knowledge can go beyond his own experience.- John Locke

How many Ukrainians does it take to change a lightbulb? None, they glow in the dark!

Seriously though, if you only act nice, then it won't be fruitful. You have to be assertive, create some banter, establish a rapport etc. If your just "the nice guy," it ain't gonna get you anywhere. Chicks don't want the nice guy, they want excitement.

  • 12.20.2012 11:48 PM PDT