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Posted by: Viper Skills
Posted by: xl OC Girl lx
Posted by: Viper Skills
Posted by: xl OC Girl lx
If you love her enough to propose, why would you dump her for turning down your proposal? Maybe she's just not ready... Unless she said she didn't love you or never wants to get married, you'd be an idiot to dump her. Plus, you should talk to her about how she feels about getting married before you propose anyway... That should avoid any problems.
I agree with you but I would imagine it puts paranoia in the mind of the person who proposed. 'If she doesn't love me as much as I love her, despite claims to the contrary, what else should I question?'
I'd imagine that's how it would go.
If you love someone enough to ask them to spend the rest of their life with you, you should never give up that easily. Figure out where her heart is. Maybe she's in school and wants to graduate first, maybe it's just too soon, maybe she's dealing with a lot of stress and has to focus on herself first.. I'm just saying, it's not easy to find someone worth marrying. Once you find that person, don't give up without a fight! ... Not a literal fight but you know what I mean.
Definitely. I can just see how it would plant seeds of doubt in one side of the relationship. Such doubt should be quelled, as you are saying, but it would be difficult to shrug off.
I completely agree, but that's why I think that the two should talk about it and see where her heart is. If they really love each other, marriage can wait! Just my opinion.