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Subject: I am beta male: I need to tell the girl I like her?

Before you read, you don't need to tell me I'm beta. In this right now, I'm beta male and am in a tough situation

This girl and I are bestfriends. Long story short for what recently happened, her boyfriend and I got into an argument with eachother. I told him I'd rather her date me and the next morning she said we couldn't be friends because he'd never accept me for how I feel and such. Well, Friday we started talking and she asked if she could come over and drop off my Christmas present. We got into a fight earlier a few weeks ago because I messed up and I showed up randomly and gave her her gift with a note. She loved it.

Anyway, She came over Saturday and we started talking. I asked her how it was not having me and she told me how bad it sucked. And she extended her arms and we hugged for a minute or two and I lifted her up. She left and we've been talking since. Using a lot of "<3"'s and (: faces. Well, I asked about this kid who's been commenting on her pics. She told me how sweet he is and she would date him and she likes him and he likes her and it was hard to take in. She's dating someone who treats her horrible and she likes someone else. The kid however lives 30/45 minutes away.

Anyway, I like her. I really like her a lot. I don't know. Do I blatantly tell her or what? It hurts. Honestly. I don't know what to do.

Flood, do I tell her, or keep my feelings in and suffer?
And if I tell her, how?

[Edited on 12.24.2012 12:16 AM PST]

  • 12.24.2012 12:14 AM PDT

So yeah.

  • 12.24.2012 12:16 AM PDT
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Tell her you got a gf and make her jealous.

  • 12.24.2012 12:17 AM PDT
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Your 'beliefs' mean less than dick to me.

Cut your ear off and give it to her for Christmas.

  • 12.24.2012 12:18 AM PDT

Nahman Jayden, Eff bee eye. I herd that you're the origammy killah...

Just do it, OP. Charge!
DO IT OR UR BE-
Oh wait, nevermind.
WELL YOU HEARD ME, CHARGE!!!

  • 12.24.2012 12:18 AM PDT

william

THE FLOOD IS NOT YOUR COUNSELLOR

  • 12.24.2012 12:18 AM PDT

I mean it in my bio. I'm not going to join your clan.

I detest taking orders by some "high-ranking" guy who is just power hungry to control people's avatars over a video game.

Just tell her. The only thing between you and her, is your hesitation.

  • 12.24.2012 12:19 AM PDT
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So do all who live to see such times, but that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.

-Gandalf

What the hell is it with you freaking betas?!? Grow a pair and ask her out! Is it really that freaking hard?!?

  • 12.24.2012 12:20 AM PDT

Studies show that men think about sex every 7 seconds. I do my best to eat hotdogs in under 6, just so things don't get weird.

Please allow me to introduce Myself
I'm a man of wealth and taste
I've been around for a long, long year
Stole many a man's soul and faith

Tell her how you feel. It's stupid to think she will just know. Even after the fight. Just don't be a pansy about it. Tell her how you feel, ask her what he thinks about that, and live with the consequences.

  • 12.24.2012 12:21 AM PDT
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"Better a little which is well done, than a great deal imperfectly." - Plato

Eh, the alphas will get to her if you don't. Act now. Nut up or shut up.

  • 12.24.2012 12:21 AM PDT

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Posted by: BOBoMAUL
THE FLOOD IS NOT YOUR COUNSELLOR
Tell that to Shadows.

  • 12.24.2012 12:22 AM PDT

If we disagree, it's nothing personal, opinions are opinions.
Antagonizing me to build a false sense of worth is so damn cute.

Brighten your day with science.

Don't be the guy on the sidelines, make a move when you can.

  • 12.24.2012 12:23 AM PDT
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So do all who live to see such times, but that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.

-Gandalf

Hello there. How are you doing sir?

*trollface*
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  • 12.24.2012 12:24 AM PDT

"Banhammer" - Post anything on the Waypoint forums -50g
Never forget:
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lolReach
Gen Petitt Day
Night of the Living Alts


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Hello there. How are you doing sir?

*trollface*
Posted by: OdorousLicense3
Oh hey there whiteknight.

  • 12.24.2012 12:25 AM PDT


Posted by: MyNameIsCharlie
Tell her how you feel. It's stupid to think she will just know. Even after the fight. Just don't be a pansy about it. Tell her how you feel, ask her what he thinks about that, and live with the consequences.
But how do I do it?

  • 12.24.2012 12:26 AM PDT
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So do all who live to see such times, but that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.

-Gandalf

-_-

How many times do I have to tell you people? I defend anyone that I don't have a problem with. Just wait. One of these days there is going to be a female user here that I'm going to talk down upon. It's like you people don't get it. Again, just you wait. I'll prove you all wrong one day.
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Posted by: Decimator Omega
Hello there. How are you doing sir?

*trollface*
Posted by: OdorousLicense3
Oh hey there whiteknight.

  • 12.24.2012 12:28 AM PDT
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We all wear masks and the time comes when we cannot remove them without removing our own skin.

Either tell her how you feel or move the -blam!- on to the next trick.

  • 12.24.2012 12:28 AM PDT

Nahman Jayden, Eff bee eye. I herd that you're the origammy killah...


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Posted by: MyNameIsCharlie
Tell her how you feel. It's stupid to think she will just know. Even after the fight. Just don't be a pansy about it. Tell her how you feel, ask her what he thinks about that, and live with the consequences.
But how do I do it?
Have your brain send signals ordering you to move your mouth so audible noises can reach her ears. At that point, simply await a response.

  • 12.24.2012 12:28 AM PDT

Please do not send me group invites.


Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: MyNameIsCharlie
Tell her how you feel. It's stupid to think she will just know. Even after the fight. Just don't be a pansy about it. Tell her how you feel, ask her what he thinks about that, and live with the consequences.
But how do I do it?
Just...do it. Talk over a cup of coffee or something.

  • 12.24.2012 12:29 AM PDT
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So do all who live to see such times, but that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.

-Gandalf

Step 1: Walk up to her.

Step 2: "Hey I really like you, would you like to go out on a date?"

It's that simple...
Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: MyNameIsCharlie
Tell her how you feel. It's stupid to think she will just know. Even after the fight. Just don't be a pansy about it. Tell her how you feel, ask her what he thinks about that, and live with the consequences.
But how do I do it?

  • 12.24.2012 12:29 AM PDT

You might've been friend zoned... I had a guy best friend for 2 years and we always sent hearts and smiley faces to each other and said we loved each other. Everyone thought we were like secretly dating. I'm just saying that sending hearts doesn't mean she likes you. Doesn't mean she doesn't either, but the only way to find out is to just ask her out. I will caution you that it could ruin your friendship if she doesn't feel the same way :/ Good luck!

  • 12.24.2012 12:31 AM PDT

Do I tell her over text or in person?

  • 12.24.2012 12:32 AM PDT

Please do not send me group invites.


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I will caution you that it could ruin your friendship if she doesn't feel the same way :/ Good luck!


IMO, better to resolve the situation one way or the other than to just let it linger and always wonder "what if". Definitely worth the risk.

[Edited on 12.24.2012 12:33 AM PST]

  • 12.24.2012 12:32 AM PDT

If we disagree, it's nothing personal, opinions are opinions.
Antagonizing me to build a false sense of worth is so damn cute.

Brighten your day with science.

Posted by: Decieved Soul
Do I tell her over text or in person?

Whichever you feel the most comfortable with, just let it be known.

  • 12.24.2012 12:33 AM PDT
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We all wear masks and the time comes when we cannot remove them without removing our own skin.


Posted by: Decieved Soul
Do I tell her over text or in person?


In person.

  • 12.24.2012 12:34 AM PDT