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Subject: I am beta male: I need to tell the girl I like her?

Studies show that men think about sex every 7 seconds. I do my best to eat hotdogs in under 6, just so things don't get weird.

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Posted by: Decimator Omega
Step 1: Walk up to her.

Step 2: "Hey I really like you, would you like to go out on a date?"

It's that simple...
Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: MyNameIsCharlie
Tell her how you feel. It's stupid to think she will just know. Even after the fight. Just don't be a pansy about it. Tell her how you feel, ask her what he thinks about that, and live with the consequences.
But how do I do it?
pretty much.

Look, it's OK to feel nervous. You are afraid of rejection. That's alright, we all are. But even if she says no, it isn't the end of the world. You will move on. What I'm trying to say is that it doesn't matter as much as you think it does, nd to not hold yourself back.

[Edited on 12.24.2012 12:34 AM PST]

  • 12.24.2012 12:34 AM PDT

Nahman Jayden, Eff bee eye. I herd that you're the origammy killah...


Posted by: Decieved Soul
Do I tell her over text or in person?
In person. Text makes you look wimpy. YOU'RE NOT A PANSY, NOW ARE YOU OP?

  • 12.24.2012 12:34 AM PDT


Posted by: MadMax888

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I will caution you that it could ruin your friendship if she doesn't feel the same way :/ Good luck!


IMO, better to resolve the situation one way or the other than to just let it linger and always wonder "what if". Definitely worth the risk.

Oh I definitely think its a risk worth taking... I was just warning him that there is a risk. I lost a good friend for this reason. We went dancing with some friends and I was driving him home and he tried to make out with me. We had been good friends for like 5 years. We never talked much after that :/

  • 12.24.2012 12:36 AM PDT
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So do all who live to see such times, but that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.

-Gandalf

That's a stupid reason to end a friendship. In my freaking opinion.
Posted by: xl OC Girl lx

Posted by: MadMax888

Posted by: xl OC Girl lx
I will caution you that it could ruin your friendship if she doesn't feel the same way :/ Good luck!


IMO, better to resolve the situation one way or the other than to just let it linger and always wonder "what if". Definitely worth the risk.

Oh I definitely think its a risk worth taking... I was just warning him that there is a risk. I lost a good friend for this reason. We went dancing with some friends and I was driving him home and he tried to make out with me. We had been good friends for like 5 years. We never talked much after that :/

  • 12.24.2012 12:37 AM PDT


Posted by: MadMax888

Posted by: xl OC Girl lx
I will caution you that it could ruin your friendship if she doesn't feel the same way :/ Good luck!


IMO, better to resolve the situation one way or the other than to just let it linger and always wonder "what if". Definitely worth the risk.
Better to try and fail then not try at all, right? So I'm gonna tell her to hangout with me and I need to talk to her and it's important

  • 12.24.2012 12:40 AM PDT


Posted by: Decimator Omega
That's a stupid reason to end a friendship. In my freaking opinion.
Posted by: xl OC Girl lx

Posted by: MadMax888

Posted by: xl OC Girl lx
I will caution you that it could ruin your friendship if she doesn't feel the same way :/ Good luck!



IMO, better to resolve the situation one way or the other than to just let it linger and always wonder "what if". Definitely worth the risk.

Oh I definitely think its a risk worth taking... I was just warning him that there is a risk. I lost a good friend for this reason. We went dancing with some friends and I was driving him home and he tried to make out with me. We had been good friends for like 5 years. We never talked much after that :/

It wasn't even me that ended it. I tried to not make things awkward but he just never wanted to hang out after that night.

  • 12.24.2012 12:42 AM PDT
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So do all who live to see such times, but that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.

-Gandalf

Or you can just be up front and straight forward with no tricks. Does this forum need a teacher for logic as well? I don't know about you OP, but a lot of girls I've met say that they hate tricks and end up puzzled.
Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: MadMax888

Posted by: xl OC Girl lx
I will caution you that it could ruin your friendship if she doesn't feel the same way :/ Good luck!


IMO, better to resolve the situation one way or the other than to just let it linger and always wonder "what if". Definitely worth the risk.
Better to try and fail then not try at all, right? So I'm gonna tell her to hangout with me and I need to talk to her and it's important

  • 12.24.2012 12:43 AM PDT
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So do all who live to see such times, but that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.

-Gandalf

Guess I'm a white knight for saying this huh Flood?: Well that's pretty stupid of him to do that. Instead of making a move by trying to make out with you he should have just tried asking you out on a date instead.

-blam!- you Flood. I'm not a freaking white knight. I'll prove it to you bastards one day...
Posted by: xl OC Girl lx

Posted by: Decimator Omega
That's a stupid reason to end a friendship. In my freaking opinion.
Posted by: xl OC Girl lx

Posted by: MadMax888

Posted by: xl OC Girl lx
I will caution you that it could ruin your friendship if she doesn't feel the same way :/ Good luck!



IMO, better to resolve the situation one way or the other than to just let it linger and always wonder "what if". Definitely worth the risk.

Oh I definitely think its a risk worth taking... I was just warning him that there is a risk. I lost a good friend for this reason. We went dancing with some friends and I was driving him home and he tried to make out with me. We had been good friends for like 5 years. We never talked much after that :/

It wasn't even me that ended it. I tried to not make things awkward but he just never wanted to hang out after that night.

  • 12.24.2012 12:45 AM PDT

It's not a trick. I'll tell her we need to because I'd rather discuss it in person and tell her.
Posted by: Decimator Omega
Or you can just be up front and straight forward with no tricks. Does this forum need a teacher for logic as well? I don't know about you OP, but a lot of girls I've met say that they hate tricks and end up puzzled.
Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: MadMax888

Posted by: xl OC Girl lx
I will caution you that it could ruin your friendship if she doesn't feel the same way :/ Good luck!


IMO, better to resolve the situation one way or the other than to just let it linger and always wonder "what if". Definitely worth the risk.
Better to try and fail then not try at all, right? So I'm gonna tell her to hangout with me and I need to talk to her and it's important

  • 12.24.2012 12:46 AM PDT
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So do all who live to see such times, but that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.

-Gandalf

Okay then. That could work I suppose. Just don't be a total White Knight because apparently I'm a "White Knight" on this forum just because I defended a couple people that happen to be female on here. Idiots.
Posted by: Decieved Soul
It's not a trick. I'll tell her we need to because I'd rather discuss it in person and tell her.
Posted by: Decimator Omega
Or you can just be up front and straight forward with no tricks. Does this forum need a teacher for logic as well? I don't know about you OP, but a lot of girls I've met say that they hate tricks and end up puzzled.
Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: MadMax888

Posted by: xl OC Girl lx
I will caution you that it could ruin your friendship if she doesn't feel the same way :/ Good luck!


IMO, better to resolve the situation one way or the other than to just let it linger and always wonder "what if". Definitely worth the risk.
Better to try and fail then not try at all, right? So I'm gonna tell her to hangout with me and I need to talk to her and it's important

  • 12.24.2012 12:48 AM PDT


Posted by: Decimator Omega
Okay then. That could work I suppose. Just don't be a total White Knight because apparently I'm a "White Knight" on this forum just because I defended a couple people that happen to l
It's not a trick. I'll tell her we need to because I'd rather discuss it in person and tell her.
Posted by: Decimator Omega
Or you can just be up front and straight forward with no tricks. Does this forum need a teacher for logic as well? I don't know about you OP, but a lot of girls I've met say that they hate tricks and end up puzzled.
Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: MadMax888

Posted by: xl OC Girl lx
I will caution you that it could ruin your friendship if she doesn't feel the same way :/ Good luck![/quote]

IMO, better to resolve the situation one way or the other than to just let it linger and always wonder "what if". Definitely worth the risk.
Better to try and fail then not try at all, right? So I'm gonna tell her to hangout with me and I need to talk to her and it's important
I'm just afraid she'll be like "Awh.. I... I'm sorry. I don't feel the same" Rejection. No one likes it

  • 12.24.2012 12:50 AM PDT


Posted by: Decimator Omega
Guess I'm a white knight for saying this huh Flood?: Well that's pretty stupid of him to do that. Instead of making a move by trying to make out with you he should have just tried asking you out on a date instead.

-blam!- you Flood. I'm not a freaking white knight. I'll prove it to you bastards one day...
Posted by: xl OC Girl lx

Posted by: Decimator Omega
That's a stupid reason to end a friendship. In my freaking opinion.
Posted by: xl OC Girl lx

Posted by: MadMax888

IMO, better to resolve the situation one way or the other than to just let it linger and always wonder "what if". Definitely worth the risk.

Oh I definitely think its a risk worth taking... I was just warning him that there is a risk. I lost a good friend for this reason. We went dancing with some friends and I was driving him home and he tried to make out with me. We had been good friends for like 5 years. We never talked much after that :/

It wasn't even me that ended it. I tried to not make things awkward but he just never wanted to hang out after that night.

I agree. It was just awkward. Honestly I've gotten drunk and made out with a guy friend before and we were still friends after. Everyone is different though. It's stupid to lose a friend for something like that.

  • 12.24.2012 12:52 AM PDT
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Girl thread post.

  • 12.24.2012 12:53 AM PDT

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If you're a beta male? Don't if she's in any way popular.

  • 12.24.2012 12:56 AM PDT
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So do all who live to see such times, but that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.

-Gandalf

Agreed.
Posted by: xl OC Girl lx
I agree. It was just awkward. Honestly I've gotten drunk and made out with a guy friend before and we were still friends after. Everyone is different though. It's stupid to lose a friend for something like that.

  • 12.24.2012 12:57 AM PDT

< You touch my tush? >

I'm in sort of the same situation as you, OP. Except the girl I like is engaged, and they fight quite a bit. Her and I text a lot and she uses those little faces and hearts too. But she's engaged, so I don't think I can tell her how feel without ruining our friendship.

  • 12.24.2012 12:57 AM PDT


Posted by: B4RK1NG SP1D3R
I'm in sort of the same situation as you, OP. Except the girl I like is engaged, and they fight quite a bit. Her and I text a lot and she uses those little faces and hearts too. But she's engaged, so I don't think I can tell her how feel without ruining our friendship.
HOLY -blam!- SPIDER. I haven't seen you since Reach! Anyways, ah I see. Well, you never know until you try?

  • 12.24.2012 1:01 AM PDT

< You touch my tush? >


Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: B4RK1NG SP1D3R
I'm in sort of the same situation as you, OP. Except the girl I like is engaged, and they fight quite a bit. Her and I text a lot and she uses those little faces and hearts too. But she's engaged, so I don't think I can tell her how feel without ruining our friendship.
HOLY -blam!- SPIDER. I haven't seen you since Reach! Anyways, ah I see. Well, you never know until you try?

You're gonna have to refresh my memory. I don't recall anyone named Decieved Soul.

Anyway, I've thought about trying, but I don't see any scenario where it turns out well for me. But she's pretty cool to hang out with and play xbox with. so regardless of whether anything happens between us, im fine with it.

  • 12.24.2012 1:08 AM PDT

Did you give her a Nintendo 64 for Christmas?

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  • 12.24.2012 1:09 AM PDT

Hanger one I just shredded with the SMGs until ammo was out and I just threw 'nades like a boss while BRing.

My experience playing Cairo Station on Legendary

This, it's better to know the reality than to live in darkness and regret not making the decision. At the very least you'll have closure and not plaguing thoughts.
Posted by: MyNameIsCharlie
Tell her how you feel. It's stupid to think she will just know. Even after the fight. Just don't be a pansy about it. Tell her how you feel, ask her what he thinks about that, and live with the consequences.

  • 12.24.2012 1:11 AM PDT
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  • 12.24.2012 1:14 AM PDT

What if I get shot down? Does the friendship end?
Posted by: Sector Z 157
This, it's better to know the reality than to live in darkness and regret not making the decision. At the very least you'll have closure and not plaguing thoughts.
Posted by: MyNameIsCharlie
Tell her how you feel. It's stupid to think she will just know. Even after the fight. Just don't be a pansy about it. Tell her how you feel, ask her what he thinks about that, and live with the consequences.

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So do all who live to see such times, but that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.

-Gandalf

Only if you allow it to end. Also, people are making parody threads off of this thread. My head hurts right now...
Posted by: Decieved Soul
What if I get shot down? Does the friendship end?
Posted by: Sector Z 157
This, it's better to know the reality than to live in darkness and regret not making the decision. At the very least you'll have closure and not plaguing thoughts.
Posted by: MyNameIsCharlie
Tell her how you feel. It's stupid to think she will just know. Even after the fight. Just don't be a pansy about it. Tell her how you feel, ask her what he thinks about that, and live with the consequences.

  • 12.24.2012 1:21 AM PDT

What the -blam!-. Anyways, better take a chance

Only if you allow it to end. Also, people are making parody threads off of this thread. My head hurts right now...
Posted by: Decieved Soul
What if I get shot down? Does the friendship end?
Posted by: Sector Z 157
This, it's better to know the reality than to live in darkness and regret not making the decision. At the very least you'll have closure and not plaguing thoughts.
Posted by: MyNameIsCharlie
Tell her how you feel. It's stupid to think she will just know. Even after the fight. Just don't be a pansy about it. Tell her how you feel, ask her what he thinks about that, and live with the consequences.[/quote]

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So do all who live to see such times, but that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.

-Gandalf

Yep.

  • 12.24.2012 1:25 AM PDT