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Subject: I am beta male: I need to tell the girl I like her?

Posted by: x Foman123 x

Posted by: TH3_AV3NG3R
What house has a rocket pod, has legs, and has a long narrow barrel that probably shoots something powerful?

Sounds like you're describing the lower half of my body, actually.


Posted by: RobertMcD
I think you should just tell her and it may end up she won't be your friend for a while, even forever but if you don't tell her then you'll never know.

You guys say the most obvious answers. Come on!

  • 12.24.2012 7:23 PM PDT

I kind of did last night and she's into it.....

  • 12.25.2012 5:05 AM PDT
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Posted by: Decieved Soul
I kind of did last night and she's into it.....

In the pooper... NOAW.

  • 12.25.2012 5:06 AM PDT

I swear all these girl threads are the same.

Guy and girl secretly like each other (sometimes only one likes the other) while the girl has a supposedly abusive boyfriend. Yet the guy and girl see each other on the side.

Reminds me of some movies.

  • 12.25.2012 5:11 AM PDT

You see her in person and simply tell her your feelings. Absolute worst that could happen is you losing the friendship but thats far better then you spending the rest of your life thinking "what if?"

  • 12.25.2012 5:14 AM PDT
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Posted by: x Foman123 x
Posted by: jaythenerdkid
I definitely believe every wildly inflated claim ITT.

Weow kid, do you even lift?


Skype: au-simon

Gotta just do it.

  • 12.25.2012 5:21 AM PDT
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Thread bumping... whoever it is... stahp!

OP embrace her with your boner and problem solved.

  • 12.25.2012 5:26 AM PDT
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Over a text message, like this

You:hey
Her:Hi
You:what's gonna going on on?
Her: Not much
You: Want to go to a movie or something later?
Her: Sure

Cut to end of march movie

Her: That was interesting
You: Yeah, we should do this again sometime
Her: Alright, cool


/thread

  • 12.25.2012 5:42 AM PDT
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Posted by: Rec 6
Over a text message, like this

You:hey
Her:Hi
You:what's gonna going on on?
Her: Not much
You: Want to go to a movie or something later?
Her: Sure

Cut to end of march movie

Her: That was interesting
You: Yeah, we should do this again sometime
Her: Alright, cool


/thread

Implying she accepts and implying she'll like it.

  • 12.25.2012 5:53 AM PDT

No, told her what I think about her she said it's sad she's never read anything sweeter in her life she stayed up all night bawling because she didn't realize I was like that and she doesn't want me to go away cause she thinks she -blam!- up and such

  • 12.25.2012 6:06 AM PDT

I am assuming direct control.

The first thing you need to do is knock off the beta crap. That's bogus -blam!- made up my idiots on the internet and you should never let it keep you from trying to do something.

As for the girl, I don't particularly think it is right for you to make advances when she is dating another dude. (Even if he is a dick). If you want to continue without regard for him, just be normal around her and tell her that you don't think her boyfriend should dictate who she can or can't talk to. After that maybe ask her to go hang out with you, take her to dinner, see a movie, make it clear that you are romantically interested, otherwise she'll get accustomed to seeing you as a friend.

  • 12.25.2012 6:20 AM PDT

If you can read this, that means I'm not a Shaolin monk...

yet.

listen mate tell her you make 10 threads a day about much of a wanker you are on bnet and then tell her you wanna shag

  • 12.25.2012 6:24 AM PDT
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  • 12.25.2012 6:42 AM PDT

Look her deep in her eyes and tell her how you feel. Like, "Sweetie, I don't know how I'm going to say this, so I just will. I've liked you since I first met you. I think about you all the time. From the moment I wake up till I fall asleep. Even though I dream of you, I miss you then. I miss you when we're not around. I miss you when you leave. I don't like the guy you're with. Not. One. Bit. I don't like him, not because he's with you out of jealousy, but because the way he treats you terribly. You're an angel, and it;s time someone started making you feel that way. I can make you feel that way. I'll tell you you're beautiful everyday, just cause. Buy you flowers. Hold your hand. Kiss you gently. I want us to be together, because I KNOW I can make you happy. I know love isn't like in the movies. It's not rainbows and butterflies. It's about compromises that moves us along. I'm willingly to do anything to make you smile. That's all I had to say. I know this may ruin our friendship after today. I just couldn't hold my feelings inside any longer from you. It was killing me. If you don't take me, I understand. I do. I just had to let you know how I feel."

LOL.

[Edited on 12.25.2012 8:47 AM PST]

  • 12.25.2012 8:46 AM PDT
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Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Look her deep in her eyes and tell her how you feel. Like, "Sweetie, I don't know how I'm going to say this, so I just will. I've liked you since I first met you. I think about you all the time. From the moment I wake up till I fall asleep. Even though I dream of you, I miss you then. I miss you when we're not around. I miss you when you leave. I don't like the guy you're with. Not. One. Bit. I don't like him, not because he's with you out of jealousy, but because the way he treats you terribly. You're an angel, and it;s time someone started making you feel that way. I can make you feel that way. I'll tell you you're beautiful everyday, just cause. Buy you flowers. Hold your hand. Kiss you gently. I want us to be together, because I KNOW I can make you happy. I know love isn't like in the movies. It's not rainbows and butterflies. It's about compromises that moves us along. I'm willingly to do anything to make you smile. That's all I had to say. I know this may ruin our friendship after today. I just couldn't hold my feelings inside any longer from you. It was killing me. If you don't take me, I understand. I do. I just had to let you know how I feel."

LOL.

Oh -blam!-, don't even act like that isn't something personal of yours xD
While cheesy... it's pretty sweet xD

  • 12.25.2012 8:55 AM PDT

Posted by: Xanarxses

Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Look her deep in her eyes and tell her how you feel. Like, "Sweetie, I don't know how I'm going to say this, so I just will. I've liked you since I first met you. I think about you all the time. From the moment I wake up till I fall asleep. Even though I dream of you, I miss you then. I miss you when we're not around. I miss you when you leave. I don't like the guy you're with. Not. One. Bit. I don't like him, not because he's with you out of jealousy, but because the way he treats you terribly. You're an angel, and it;s time someone started making you feel that way. I can make you feel that way. I'll tell you you're beautiful everyday, just cause. Buy you flowers. Hold your hand. Kiss you gently. I want us to be together, because I KNOW I can make you happy. I know love isn't like in the movies. It's not rainbows and butterflies. It's about compromises that moves us along. I'm willingly to do anything to make you smile. That's all I had to say. I know this may ruin our friendship after today. I just couldn't hold my feelings inside any longer from you. It was killing me. If you don't take me, I understand. I do. I just had to let you know how I feel."

LOL.

Oh -blam!-, don't even act like that isn't something personal of yours xD
While cheesy... it's pretty sweet xD

Nope. Just typed it all of the top of my head. I have a way with words.

  • 12.25.2012 8:56 AM PDT

Just so you know, hearts and smiley faces mean nothing. It could just show she's a bit greedy instead. You two had just gotten into a fight prior and she might just know how to reel you back in to get what she wants without having to commit to you for anything. She's having her cake and eating it too.

All I'm saying is that you're letting your heart do your thinking. Think with your head for once. If you like her, be up front with her about it and tell her. Otherwise, don't be the guy on the sideline. If she rejects you'll move on and find another girl. Maybe then she'll realize what she missed.

[Edited on 12.25.2012 9:06 AM PST]

  • 12.25.2012 9:05 AM PDT

I'm a Servant of The Secret Breach, haters shall not pass!
AlChestBreach@Youtube.com

Tell her "We'll bang, ok?

  • 12.25.2012 9:14 AM PDT

Posted by: Happy Tissue
Posted by: Set Sail Armada
Why didn't Frodo just stick the ring up his ass?

Because Sam would keep turning invisible.

Posted by: Vinny White
Sex with highschool jailbait
and stamp collecting


Posted by: Mad Cat 74
Just tell her. The only thing between you and her, is your hesitation.
This is honestly the best thing to do.

  • 12.25.2012 9:22 AM PDT


Posted by: TheGreenAlloy
listen mate tell her you make 10 threads a day about much of a wanker you are on bnet and then tell her you wanna shag
thatll work perfectly

  • 12.25.2012 9:22 AM PDT

I know what I'm going to say to her. Life's full of risks, might as well take this one

  • 12.27.2012 6:24 PM PDT

Stop banning me please.

I am the Omega male. That means I have dominion over all men.

  • 12.27.2012 6:25 PM PDT

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Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Posted by: Xanarxses

Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Look her deep in her eyes and tell her how you feel. Like, "Sweetie, I don't know how I'm going to say this, so I just will. I've liked you since I first met you. I think about you all the time. From the moment I wake up till I fall asleep. Even though I dream of you, I miss you then. I miss you when we're not around. I miss you when you leave. I don't like the guy you're with. Not. One. Bit. I don't like him, not because he's with you out of jealousy, but because the way he treats you terribly. You're an angel, and it;s time someone started making you feel that way. I can make you feel that way. I'll tell you you're beautiful everyday, just cause. Buy you flowers. Hold your hand. Kiss you gently. I want us to be together, because I KNOW I can make you happy. I know love isn't like in the movies. It's not rainbows and butterflies. It's about compromises that moves us along. I'm willingly to do anything to make you smile. That's all I had to say. I know this may ruin our friendship after today. I just couldn't hold my feelings inside any longer from you. It was killing me. If you don't take me, I understand. I do. I just had to let you know how I feel."

LOL.

Oh -blam!-, don't even act like that isn't something personal of yours xD
While cheesy... it's pretty sweet xD

Nope. Just typed it all of the top of my head. I have a way with words.

That was actually damn adorable. Good job Boomer, if OP uses that, it might not end up terrible, save for the sweetie part, but whatever. Or he'll end up getting shot into the sun.

  • 12.27.2012 6:27 PM PDT

I am sorry to tell you this, but if she won't go out with you, you need to give up on her. Ask her out on a date. Just go for it. You have nothing to lose. In fact, if she says no, it means you are FREE. Move on, it is tough, but in the long run it will be much better. You will eventually meet a girl who is right for you. Trust me, it has happened to me.

While I would suggest to tell her in person, do it through a text. Make it seem casual, but make it sound like an actual date.

[Edited on 12.27.2012 6:31 PM PST]

  • 12.27.2012 6:29 PM PDT

I'm Gourlay, I'm only here because I didn't know we had the option to leave.


Posted by: Decieved Soul
Before you read, you don't need to tell me I'm beta. In this right now, I'm beta male and am in a tough situation

This girl and I are bestfriends. Long story short for what recently happened, her boyfriend and I got into an argument with eachother. I told him I'd rather her date me and the next morning she said we couldn't be friends because he'd never accept me for how I feel and such. Well, Friday we started talking and she asked if she could come over and drop off my Christmas present. We got into a fight earlier a few weeks ago because I messed up and I showed up randomly and gave her her gift with a note. She loved it.

Anyway, She came over Saturday and we started talking. I asked her how it was not having me and she told me how bad it sucked. And she extended her arms and we hugged for a minute or two and I lifted her up. She left and we've been talking since. Using a lot of "<3"'s and (: faces. Well, I asked about this kid who's been commenting on her pics. She told me how sweet he is and she would date him and she likes him and he likes her and it was hard to take in. She's dating someone who treats her horrible and she likes someone else. The kid however lives 30/45 minutes away.

Anyway, I like her. I really like her a lot. I don't know. Do I blatantly tell her or what? It hurts. Honestly. I don't know what to do.

Flood, do I tell her, or keep my feelings in and suffer?
And if I tell her, how?
Just got to YOLO it

  • 12.27.2012 6:30 PM PDT