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Subject: I am beta male: I need to tell the girl I like her?

Chuck Liddell has that kind of weird, mohawk wearing, incoherent badass thing going. Frankie Edgar is like the nice guy down the street who helps you move in your furniture.

"I'm running for my life and you're in space?!"

Most of you are wrong. That girl is shady. I wouldn't even try to go for it bro, it's not even worth it. Trust me.

[Edited on 12.27.2012 6:34 PM PST]

  • 12.27.2012 6:32 PM PDT

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Posted by: Spilled Milk
I am sorry to tell you this, but if she won't go out with you, you need to give up on her. Ask her out on a date. Just go for it. You have nothing to lose. In fact, if she says no, it means you are FREE. Move on, it is tough, but in the long run it will be much better. You will eventually meet a girl who is right for you. Trust me, it has happened to me.

While I would suggest to tell her in person, do it through a text. Make it seem casual, but make it sound like an actual date.

This man speaks the truth.

  • 12.27.2012 6:32 PM PDT

Chuck Liddell has that kind of weird, mohawk wearing, incoherent badass thing going. Frankie Edgar is like the nice guy down the street who helps you move in your furniture.

"I'm running for my life and you're in space?!"

Posted by: Heven644
Posted by: Spilled Milk
I am sorry to tell you this, but if she won't go out with you, you need to give up on her. Ask her out on a date. Just go for it. You have nothing to lose. In fact, if she says no, it means you are FREE. Move on, it is tough, but in the long run it will be much better. You will eventually meet a girl who is right for you. Trust me, it has happened to me.

While I would suggest to tell her in person, do it through a text. Make it seem casual, but make it sound like an actual date.

This man speaks the truth.
No. Doing stuff through text doesn't get most people the results they want.

  • 12.27.2012 6:33 PM PDT

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Geez man you really are a beta. Okay, she's definitely either already got you friendzoned, or is trying to make you jealous. By what I can tell, it's probably the former, so if I were you, I would move on and start on the next girl.

  • 12.27.2012 6:34 PM PDT


Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Look her deep in her eyes and tell her how you feel. Like, "Sweetie, I don't know how I'm going to say this, so I just will. I've liked you since I first met you. I think about you all the time. From the moment I wake up till I fall asleep. Even though I dream of you, I miss you then. I miss you when we're not around. I miss you when you leave. I don't like the guy you're with. Not. One. Bit. I don't like him, not because he's with you out of jealousy, but because the way he treats you terribly. You're an angel, and it;s time someone started making you feel that way. I can make you feel that way. I'll tell you you're beautiful everyday, just cause. Buy you flowers. Hold your hand. Kiss you gently. I want us to be together, because I KNOW I can make you happy. I know love isn't like in the movies. It's not rainbows and butterflies. It's about compromises that moves us along. I'm willingly to do anything to make you smile. That's all I had to say. I know this may ruin our friendship after today. I just couldn't hold my feelings inside any longer from you. It was killing me. If you don't take me, I understand. I do. I just had to let you know how I feel."

LOL.


Dang, you almost got me out of breath with that.
I was expecting some comedic twist at the end, but...

  • 12.27.2012 6:39 PM PDT

"Okay. You wanted to know what I wanted to talk to you about and it's this important. It's not easy for me to tell you this but I'd rather tell you how I feel then hold it in forever and hurt watching you be with others and get hurt and be happy with them. I think you're perfect. In all honesty. You have the most beautiful smile I have ever seen, and I've seen so many girls but none of them can even come close to you. And your eyes... Are just incredible. You're an amazing person and lifes full of risks so I've thought about it and I'm gonna take this risk and tell you. I have feelings for you. I want you. I care so much about you, you have no idea. I wish you were mine. I want to be able to hold your hand in public I want to show you off to my friends and be like see her isnt she beautiful and shes mine, I want to hold you when youre happy, sad and everything. I want you so bad and I can't hold it in anymore. You have a hold on my heart that I could not break even if I wanted to, and there have been times that I wanted to. There's two options. You say yes, and you leave your boyfriend and stop talking to the other guy and I promise you nothing but happiness. Or, you say no, and you keep them and lose me. I will walk away from here having my answer and I'll move on. But we will never speak again" I'm saying that but it's not finished yet

[Edited on 12.27.2012 9:47 PM PST]

  • 12.27.2012 9:45 PM PDT

I made my own version ^^^
Posted by: M1Silencer

Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Look her deep in her eyes and tell her how you feel. Like, "Sweetie, I don't know how I'm going to say this, so I just will. I've liked you since I first met you. I think about you all the time. From the moment I wake up till I fall asleep. Even though I dream of you, I miss you then. I miss you when we're not around. I miss you when you leave. I don't like the guy you're with. Not. One. Bit. I don't like him, not because he's with you out of jealousy, but because the way he treats you terribly. You're an angel, and it;s time someone started making you feel that way. I can make you feel that way. I'll tell you you're beautiful everyday, just cause. Buy you flowers. Hold your hand. Kiss you gently. I want us to be together, because I KNOW I can make you happy. I know love isn't like in the movies. It's not rainbows and butterflies. It's about compromises that moves us along. I'm willingly to do anything to make you smile. That's all I had to say. I know this may ruin our friendship after today. I just couldn't hold my feelings inside any longer from you. It was killing me. If you don't take me, I understand. I do. I just had to let you know how I feel."

LOL.


Dang, you almost got me out of breath with that.
I was expecting some comedic twist at the end, but...

  • 12.27.2012 9:49 PM PDT

woah i had a really similar situation to you very recently! but reversed roles, i was the boyfriend and the friend was deadset on dating her.

  • 12.27.2012 9:51 PM PDT


Posted by: jive turckey145
woah i had a really similar situation to you very recently! but reversed roles, i was the boyfriend and the friend was deadset on dating her.
holy -blam!-, howd that go?

  • 12.27.2012 9:53 PM PDT


Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: jive turckey145
woah i had a really similar situation to you very recently! but reversed roles, i was the boyfriend and the friend was deadset on dating her.
holy -blam!-, howd that go?
well now that i read it again it's actually kinda different. might as well just tell her dude, but then again if she's telling you about this guy she might just like you as a friend. the worst that could happen is you tell her and she doesn't feel for you like you do her. it could make your friendship pretty awkward but i would go for it!

  • 12.27.2012 10:01 PM PDT

well, i posted ^ what i would say, i told a few girls that what i would say and they said if she doesnt like me after hearing that shes -blam!- stupid i guess its sweet
Posted by: jive turckey145

Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: jive turckey145
woah i had a really similar situation to you very recently! but reversed roles, i was the boyfriend and the friend was deadset on dating her.
holy -blam!-, howd that go?
well now that i read it again it's actually kinda different. might as well just tell her dude, but then again if she's telling you about this guy she might just like you as a friend. the worst that could happen is you tell her and she doesn't feel for you like you do her. it could make your friendship pretty awkward but i would go for it!

  • 12.27.2012 10:03 PM PDT

No u

Tell her. Say that it's acceptable to be friends, but tell her. You'll never have a chance with her unless she knows. That's the truth.

  • 12.27.2012 10:07 PM PDT