- Recon Number 54
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Well, here we are. I guess that it was destined to come to this.
I think that when it comes to issues of respect, tolerance, acceptance, courtesy, and how they relate to differences between people (and the inherent reaction to those differences by the individual) the Riddle Scale is a decent tool. Yes, it is commonly used (IMO misused) to determine if someone is "adequately accepting of differences" or "a ___-phobe", but if you apply it to any difference (instead of just the LGBT acceptance levels for which it was created), it is a decent tool
I think that it is important to understand that if a person is ay any point on the scale when it comes to someone else, there isn't and shouldn't be a judgement associated with the individual. They are capable, and with time and experience, most likely to alter their position if they have reason to. A new experience, reconsidering the implications, personal experience and growth, all allow every person to move on this scale as it pertains to others.
Repulsion:
People who are different are strange, sick, crazy, and aversive. Anything which will change them to be more normal or a part of the mainstream is justifiable.
Pity:
People who are different are somehow born that way and that is pitiful. Being different is definitely immature and les-preferred. To help these poor individuals, one should reinforce normal behavior.
Tolerance:
Being different is just a phase of development that ... most people 'grow out of.' Thus, they should be protected and tolerated as one does a child who is still learning.
Acceptance:
Implies that one needs to make accommodations for another's differences; does not acknowledge that another's identity may be of the same value as their own.
Support:
Works to safeguard the rights of those who are different. Such people may be uncomfortable themselves, but they are aware of the climate and the irrational unfairness in our society.
Admiration:
Acknowledges that being different in our society takes strength. Such people are willing to truly look at themselves and work on their own personal biases.
Appreciation:
Values the diversity of people and is willing to confront insensitive attitudes.
Nurturance:
Assumes the differences in people are indispensable in society. They view differences with genuine affection and delight, and are willing to be advocates of those differences.
[Edited on 12.24.2012 1:03 PM PST]