Posted by: Heven644
Posted by: foreveraloner35
Posted by: dontworryidoctr
Posted by: HistoryHighlight
I'm sorry if I offended HH with my crude prose. If HH could kindly point to places where my argument failed then I would appreciate it.
Posted by: foreveraloner35
I would actually like to, and I do realise that relationships are an essential part of life. But with my ugly looks, social anxiety, idiocy and a failure at everything I try to do, it doesn't look like its gonna happen for me every soon.
I am again sorry if I offended you, as I know see you are not the resilient character I imagined you to be. But do not lose hope, I too was a loser once, and though I am not saying I am a winner now, it might help if "foreveraloner" were to give a little effort in changing his lifestyle to improve his self esteem. I recommend you to talk with a counselor or possibly your parents if you feel you were dealt such a bad hand in life that you CANNOT IN ANY WAY do anything to better your situation.
I'm going to start going to the gym and see if that helps with my confidence. I hope so. However, even if it helps my confidence but I'm still a loner, I can't change my looks, I've already tried and failed at things which require talent, and I won't be able to get more common sense or intelligence from anywhere, so I'll have to play the waiting game,
Lift. Run. Do LaCrosse. Do puzzles (like, crosswords, anything to help your critical thinking). Hang out with people more. Talk to people more. Just stop caring what they think, don't let your fear paralyze you.
Thanks :)