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"Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened."
- Dr. Seuss
Posted by: Bookshelf
Posted by: DEADPAN7809
Posted by: Bookshelf
First, how long were you together?
Second, age ranges, how old are we talking here?
We're both 17.
We've been together for a couple months, but everything was fine literally on last Saturday. Sunday it's like everything went down the toilet.Okay, hate to break it to you, but she's been thinking about it for a few weeks at least.
Next, give yourself some time to get over it. Do whatever: lay around, talk with someone (IRL or here if you need to, I guess this thread works somewhat well), but most of all you have to accept that no one but YOU are going to make yourself feel better.
I don't think you were used - it's high school - stuff like this is all too common. I'm not implying or stating to give up on girls until you're out of high school, but you have to face the reality that you're going to get kicked in the metaphorical nuts every once in awhile - especially in high school.
Like I already said, right now you're probably looking for someone to talk to to make you feel better, but only you can provide that for yourself. Don't be bitter towards her, don't be angry, accept that -blam!- happens and move on. Don't forget, learn from it and move forward with your life knowing that it gets better.
After you've taken a few days and gotten over it, make improvements. Take up a few more hobbies, fill the time that she would have normally taken with something else that in the future can and most likely will connect you with someone else that will be a love interest to you. The more you sit around, the more you'll think of her - and that only backtracks you at this point. Take up a sport, go running if you're sports retarded, etc etc you get the point.
I'm really not sure how I was going to finish this off, but I hope you get the gist of what I'm laying down.
I get it, thanks :3