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Subject: Best Thing For a Break Up?


Posted by: McNut117
Kill her ex boyfriend and wear his skin.

/problemsolved

  • 01.01.2013 2:25 PM PDT

"Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened."
- Dr. Seuss


Posted by: Bookshelf
First, how long were you together?

Second, age ranges, how old are we talking here?

We're both 17.

We've been together for a couple months, but everything was fine literally on last Saturday. Sunday it's like everything went down the toilet.

[Edited on 01.01.2013 2:28 PM PST]

  • 01.01.2013 2:27 PM PDT

Posted by: The Kangol Kid
It was then that I decided he really is like semen(everywhere) and I gave up on life.


zoobkillerninja <3


Posted by: DEADPAN7809

Posted by: SwizZz Gambino
First of all that's not "playing you" stop being butt hurt. She has feelings for someone else and that's that. What she did was actually a really nice thing. You get over it by getting over it. There is no trick. It may take a long time but you just do. Man up.

She met my family, went to our Christmas dinner/party, told me she was practically in love with me, and told me straight to my face I make her happy.

Yes, I think I was played a bit.
She told you she was practically in love with you? What does that mean?

Just because she no longer wants to be with you because she still has feelings for your ex, does not mean she played you, Guy.

Play video games. Hang out with friends.
Time heals all wounds yadda yadda.

  • 01.01.2013 2:29 PM PDT

"Try to get a better understanding of things before you make your judgement."
-Khan, Metro 2033


Posted by: RustedEdge
Fap on her forehead
This lad knows the truth.

  • 01.01.2013 2:29 PM PDT

"Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened."
- Dr. Seuss


Posted by: CamCamm

Posted by: DEADPAN7809

Posted by: SwizZz Gambino
First of all that's not "playing you" stop being butt hurt. She has feelings for someone else and that's that. What she did was actually a really nice thing. You get over it by getting over it. There is no trick. It may take a long time but you just do. Man up.

She met my family, went to our Christmas dinner/party, told me she was practically in love with me, and told me straight to my face I make her happy.

Yes, I think I was played a bit.
She told you she was practically in love with you? What does that mean?

Just because she no longer wants to be with you because she still has feelings for your ex, does not mean she played you, Guy.

Play video games. Hang out with friends.
Time heals all wounds yadda yadda.

I don't know why I said "practically," when she told me she did. Also, read my most recent post in here.

  • 01.01.2013 2:30 PM PDT

Posted by: The Kangol Kid
It was then that I decided he really is like semen(everywhere) and I gave up on life.


zoobkillerninja <3


Posted by: DEADPAN7809

Posted by: CamCamm

Posted by: DEADPAN7809

Posted by: SwizZz Gambino
First of all that's not "playing you" stop being butt hurt. She has feelings for someone else and that's that. What she did was actually a really nice thing. You get over it by getting over it. There is no trick. It may take a long time but you just do. Man up.

She met my family, went to our Christmas dinner/party, told me she was practically in love with me, and told me straight to my face I make her happy.

Yes, I think I was played a bit.
She told you she was practically in love with you? What does that mean?

Just because she no longer wants to be with you because she still has feelings for your ex, does not mean she played you, Guy.

Play video games. Hang out with friends.
Time heals all wounds yadda yadda.

I don't know why I said "practically," when she told me she did. Also, read my most recent post in here.
-blam!- happens.
Still doesn't mean she played you. Making her out to be the bad guy is definitely not going to help you get over anything. It'll only make you want more answers. Just forget about it.

  • 01.01.2013 2:33 PM PDT

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Posted by: DEADPAN7809

everything was fine literally on last Saturday. Sunday it's like everything went down the toilet.


ha, don't i know that feel.... i've had the same experience, in my opinion, if someone is so dissatisfied and wants to be with someone else, they should up and say something rather than just suddenly spring a break up.

  • 01.01.2013 2:34 PM PDT
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Go get ya a hooker.

  • 01.01.2013 2:34 PM PDT
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Posted by: DEADPAN7809

Posted by: Bookshelf
First, how long were you together?

Second, age ranges, how old are we talking here?

We're both 17.

We've been together for a couple months, but everything was fine literally on last Saturday. Sunday it's like everything went down the toilet.
Okay, hate to break it to you, but she's been thinking about it for a few weeks at least.

Next, give yourself some time to get over it. Do whatever: lay around, talk with someone (IRL or here if you need to, I guess this thread works somewhat well), but most of all you have to accept that no one but YOU are going to make yourself feel better.

I don't think you were used - it's high school - stuff like this is all too common. I'm not implying or stating to give up on girls until you're out of high school, but you have to face the reality that you're going to get kicked in the metaphorical nuts every once in awhile - especially in high school.

Like I already said, right now you're probably looking for someone to talk to to make you feel better, but only you can provide that for yourself. Don't be bitter towards her, don't be angry, accept that -blam!- happens and move on. Don't forget, learn from it and move forward with your life knowing that it gets better.

After you've taken a few days and gotten over it, make improvements. Take up a few more hobbies, fill the time that she would have normally taken with something else that in the future can and most likely will connect you with someone else that will be a love interest to you. The more you sit around, the more you'll think of her - and that only backtracks you at this point. Take up a sport, go running if you're sports retarded, etc etc you get the point.

I'm really not sure how I was going to finish this off, but I hope you get the gist of what I'm laying down.

  • 01.01.2013 2:35 PM PDT

Cry, deal with the sadness, move on. Find a new girl and be happy.

  • 01.01.2013 2:36 PM PDT

"Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened."
- Dr. Seuss


Posted by: Bookshelf

Posted by: DEADPAN7809

Posted by: Bookshelf
First, how long were you together?

Second, age ranges, how old are we talking here?

We're both 17.

We've been together for a couple months, but everything was fine literally on last Saturday. Sunday it's like everything went down the toilet.
Okay, hate to break it to you, but she's been thinking about it for a few weeks at least.

Next, give yourself some time to get over it. Do whatever: lay around, talk with someone (IRL or here if you need to, I guess this thread works somewhat well), but most of all you have to accept that no one but YOU are going to make yourself feel better.

I don't think you were used - it's high school - stuff like this is all too common. I'm not implying or stating to give up on girls until you're out of high school, but you have to face the reality that you're going to get kicked in the metaphorical nuts every once in awhile - especially in high school.

Like I already said, right now you're probably looking for someone to talk to to make you feel better, but only you can provide that for yourself. Don't be bitter towards her, don't be angry, accept that -blam!- happens and move on. Don't forget, learn from it and move forward with your life knowing that it gets better.

After you've taken a few days and gotten over it, make improvements. Take up a few more hobbies, fill the time that she would have normally taken with something else that in the future can and most likely will connect you with someone else that will be a love interest to you. The more you sit around, the more you'll think of her - and that only backtracks you at this point. Take up a sport, go running if you're sports retarded, etc etc you get the point.

I'm really not sure how I was going to finish this off, but I hope you get the gist of what I'm laying down.

I get it, thanks :3

  • 01.01.2013 2:37 PM PDT

"Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened."
- Dr. Seuss


Posted by: silversleek 117

Posted by: DEADPAN7809

everything was fine literally on last Saturday. Sunday it's like everything went down the toilet.


ha, don't i know that feel.... i've had the same experience, in my opinion, if someone is so dissatisfied and wants to be with someone else, they should up and say something rather than just suddenly spring a break up.

No kidding.

  • 01.01.2013 2:38 PM PDT

1LUV

Hook her in da gabber m8.

  • 01.01.2013 2:43 PM PDT

"Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened."
- Dr. Seuss


Posted by: Bradleigh
Hook her in da gabber m8.

The what?

  • 01.01.2013 2:44 PM PDT

"Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened."
- Dr. Seuss


Posted by: bergXX09
Block her on everything and maybe her close friends who you don't like or talk to. Don't go to a girl for a rebound though, just listen to music and distract yourself with the real world/vidya gaems. Sorry to hear about the breakup but being single will be liberating and you'll have more energy and free time.

And at least she told you that and didn't drag anything on or cheat on you. It's hard to get over someone you love or had strong feelings for.

She went into the relationship loving her ex.

  • 01.01.2013 2:46 PM PDT

Play games, watch a good series, just escape for a while. Also confide in friends and family.

  • 01.01.2013 2:46 PM PDT

Posted by: The Kangol Kid
It was then that I decided he really is like semen(everywhere) and I gave up on life.


zoobkillerninja <3


Posted by: DEADPAN7809

Posted by: bergXX09
Block her on everything and maybe her close friends who you don't like or talk to. Don't go to a girl for a rebound though, just listen to music and distract yourself with the real world/vidya gaems. Sorry to hear about the breakup but being single will be liberating and you'll have more energy and free time.

And at least she told you that and didn't drag anything on or cheat on you. It's hard to get over someone you love or had strong feelings for.

She went into the relationship loving her ex.
Dont think you realize just how common it is for people to go into a relationship when they still have feelings for someone else.

You aren't the only one. Don't act like you've been betrayed. You haven't. Unless of course she cheated on you. Even then, you're still young and in high school. It's not that big of a deal with such a short relationship that you two had.

[Edited on 01.01.2013 2:51 PM PST]

  • 01.01.2013 2:50 PM PDT

"Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened."
- Dr. Seuss


Posted by: CamCamm

Posted by: DEADPAN7809

Posted by: bergXX09
Block her on everything and maybe her close friends who you don't like or talk to. Don't go to a girl for a rebound though, just listen to music and distract yourself with the real world/vidya gaems. Sorry to hear about the breakup but being single will be liberating and you'll have more energy and free time.

And at least she told you that and didn't drag anything on or cheat on you. It's hard to get over someone you love or had strong feelings for.

She went into the relationship loving her ex.
Dont think you realize just how common it is for people to go into a relationship when they still have feelings for someone else.

You aren't the only one. Don't act like you've been betrayed. You haven't. Unless of course she cheated on you. Even then, you're still young and in high school. It not that big of a deal with such a short relationship that you two had.

Still, its wrong of her to do me that way.

  • 01.01.2013 2:51 PM PDT

Posted by: The Kangol Kid
It was then that I decided he really is like semen(everywhere) and I gave up on life.


zoobkillerninja <3


Posted by: DEADPAN7809

Posted by: CamCamm

Posted by: DEADPAN7809

Posted by: bergXX09
Block her on everything and maybe her close friends who you don't like or talk to. Don't go to a girl for a rebound though, just listen to music and distract yourself with the real world/vidya gaems. Sorry to hear about the breakup but being single will be liberating and you'll have more energy and free time.

And at least she told you that and didn't drag anything on or cheat on you. It's hard to get over someone you love or had strong feelings for.

She went into the relationship loving her ex.
Dont think you realize just how common it is for people to go into a relationship when they still have feelings for someone else.

You aren't the only one. Don't act like you've been betrayed. You haven't. Unless of course she cheated on you. Even then, you're still young and in high school. It not that big of a deal with such a short relationship that you two had.

Still, its wrong of her to do me that way.
K. Whatever helps you, I guess. Act an ass even. I'm sure it'll get you over her really quickly.

;)

  • 01.01.2013 2:53 PM PDT

"Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened."
- Dr. Seuss


Posted by: CamCamm

Posted by: DEADPAN7809

Posted by: CamCamm

Posted by: DEADPAN7809

Posted by: bergXX09
Block her on everything and maybe her close friends who you don't like or talk to. Don't go to a girl for a rebound though, just listen to music and distract yourself with the real world/vidya gaems. Sorry to hear about the breakup but being single will be liberating and you'll have more energy and free time.

And at least she told you that and didn't drag anything on or cheat on you. It's hard to get over someone you love or had strong feelings for.

She went into the relationship loving her ex.
Dont think you realize just how common it is for people to go into a relationship when they still have feelings for someone else.

You aren't the only one. Don't act like you've been betrayed. You haven't. Unless of course she cheated on you. Even then, you're still young and in high school. It not that big of a deal with such a short relationship that you two had.

Still, its wrong of her to do me that way.
K. Whatever helps you, I guess. Act an ass even. I'm sure it'll get you over her really quickly.

;)

I'm not. I told her I hope she finds what she's looking for with her ex. It was a peaceful break-up and I wished her the best. Not playing her as a bad guy at all.

[Edited on 01.01.2013 2:55 PM PST]

  • 01.01.2013 2:54 PM PDT

Posted by: The Kangol Kid
It was then that I decided he really is like semen(everywhere) and I gave up on life.


zoobkillerninja <3

Yet you're still insisting that she did you "wrong".

  • 01.01.2013 2:54 PM PDT

"Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened."
- Dr. Seuss


Posted by: CamCamm
Yet you're still insisting that she did you "wrong".

You don't tell someone you love them when you don't.

  • 01.01.2013 2:55 PM PDT

Posted by: The Kangol Kid
It was then that I decided he really is like semen(everywhere) and I gave up on life.


zoobkillerninja <3


Posted by: DEADPAN7809

Posted by: CamCamm
Yet you're still insisting that she did you "wrong".

You don't tell someone you love them when you don't.
She can't love more than one person?? Is there something you aren't telling?

Did she straight up tell you that she no longer loves you?

People can be in love and not be together.

People can also be together and not be in love.

People can also be in love with more than one person.
It's crazy, I know!!

  • 01.01.2013 2:57 PM PDT

Remember those times when we all had something better to be doing, but didn't do it? Those were good times. Gooood times

A night of drinking and video games, then wake up in the morning and move on. The world isn't stopping for you.

  • 01.01.2013 3:00 PM PDT

@trueunderdog

Chapter

Narwhallace Smithington: Gone, but not forgotten. Never approve of anything lil guy. <3
Furious George: The new -blam!-

Lawyer up. Hit the gym. Delete Facebook.

Seriously though, cut off contact and do things that you enjoy.

  • 01.01.2013 3:01 PM PDT

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