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Subject: Just ended my friendship with my bestfriend

If you know my threads about how I like/love my bestfriend, I've come to the realization that I'm feddup. I've had enough. It was the hardest text to send in my life but I did it. This is what I said I get you're ignoring me, but there's something I need to tell you. It's not going to be easy, for either of us. You're probably going to get upset and I'm sorry. I'm sorry I'm putting you in this position. But, this is what it's come to. I can't do it anymore. You gave up on me once and we're friends again and it just hasn't been the same. You have to hide me from your boyfriend. You said you won't tell him were friends again unless he asks. We can never hangout because of him. Yet you can go hangout with [Redacted], the guy you like and talk to despite you having a boyfriend. And last night, you saying I piss you off a lot, wasn't exactly so great. Being friends with you has brought some fun times but a lot of pain. Watching you be miserable and like other people. You know exactly how I feel about you. You know I have feelings for you and it's obvious. This isn't easy but I can't do it anymore. You use me just to help you out with your problems. Then once I help, you barely talk to me. You never want to be happy. You gave up on life and I've tried and tried and tried but you won't let me help. I'm sorry. I can't do this anymore. You have a boyfriend and another dude you like who is so sweet. Maybe [Redacted] can be your new bestfriend since he's the sweetest thing to walk this earth. The fact that once your boyfriend makes an instagram, you have to delete my comments and some of the pictures of us, and the bracelet I got you, hurts. Okay? I've been kicked around too many times by you. Maybe one day we can be friends again, but right now, I can't. You're a great person but you're just in a confused area right now. I've tried helping but you've just used me as your own personal staircase. I can't take it anymore. I have my own problems to worry about without you kicking me around. Other people have noticed and told me you treat me like crap. Like I said, maybe one day we can be friends again but right now.. I just can't. I'm sorry. This isn't easy for me to say at all. Just so you know, it's killing me to say this.. But I have to. I'm sorry.

So, Flood. Some said tell her how I feel, some said end it. I did both.

I'm literally shaking right now.. How do I cope with this?

  • 01.02.2013 4:56 PM PDT

put on a condom and have a special wank

  • 01.02.2013 4:57 PM PDT

*pats shoulder* "That'll do soul that"ll do

  • 01.02.2013 4:57 PM PDT

Questions lead to learning, learning leads to kowledge, knowledge leads to understanding, understanding leads to peace.



"I would kill to get a killionaire... 10 times... digitally."

I'm confused, did you get friendzoned or something?

  • 01.02.2013 4:58 PM PDT


Posted by: BanjoKazooie0
*pats shoulder* "That'll do soul that"ll do
I couldn't do it anymore. I couldn't

  • 01.02.2013 4:58 PM PDT

:)

You did the right thing man, she should know how awful she's made you feel.

I wish I had the balls to tell the person I liked how I feel, but I don't. You've been a true man today mate.

  • 01.02.2013 4:58 PM PDT

Well, do you have other friends? Talk to them more and confide in them. Eventually you'll make more friends and maybe a new 'bestfriend'

  • 01.02.2013 4:58 PM PDT
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Am I the only one expecting her to reply with "TL;DR"?

  • 01.02.2013 4:58 PM PDT


Posted by: ravingmasher626
You did the right thing man, she should know how awful she's made you feel.

I wish I had the balls to tell the person I liked how I feel, but I don't. You've been a true man today mate.
In all honesty, that actually made me smile. Thanks dude. That means a lot that I actually did something right.

  • 01.02.2013 4:58 PM PDT

"What are we holding on to, Sam?"
"That there's some good in this world, and it's worth fighting for."

How do you cope? Just focus on other stuff, I guess.

  • 01.02.2013 4:59 PM PDT


Posted by: swvjdirector
How do you cope? Just focus on other stuff, I guess.
I'm trying.

  • 01.02.2013 4:59 PM PDT

The Song Of Nephilim

Xenoblade <3

I remember when I almost lost one of my best friends because she was clearly acting two. I even pointed it out to her, and she eventually understood, though we didnt talk for like 4-5 days =[

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Deva Path


Posted by: DecepticonCobra

We are all going to get banned aren't we?

I honestly just stop talking to the person and ignore them.

  • 01.02.2013 5:00 PM PDT
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Carry on.if a friend is a jerk to you, then they aren't a real friend.

  • 01.02.2013 5:00 PM PDT


Posted by: Nephilim713
I remember when I almost lost one of my best friends because she was clearly acting two. I even pointed it out to her, and she eventually understood, though we didnt talk for like 4-5 days =[
She chose her boyfriend over me and then came over 5 days later and said she couldn't stand not talking to me. Well, I cant do it anymore. It hurts so bad. And I'm glad to see it worked out for you man

  • 01.02.2013 5:01 PM PDT

Calculus calms my troubled mind

OP took a small step towards becoming a man today, and made the flood proud

although you probably could have made it alot shorter

  • 01.02.2013 5:01 PM PDT

BE HUMAN

Fight for Earth. Fight for Humanity.


Posted by: Decieved Soul
If you know my threads about how I like/love my bestfriend, I've come to the realization that I'm feddup. I've had enough. It was the hardest text to send in my life but I did it. This is what I said I get you're ignoring me, but there's something I need to tell you. It's not going to be easy, for either of us. You're probably going to get upset and I'm sorry. I'm sorry I'm putting you in this position. But, this is what it's come to. I can't do it anymore. You gave up on me once and we're friends again and it just hasn't been the same. You have to hide me from your boyfriend. You said you won't tell him were friends again unless he asks. We can never hangout because of him. Yet you can go hangout with [Redacted], the guy you like and talk to despite you having a boyfriend. And last night, you saying I piss you off a lot, wasn't exactly so great. Being friends with you has brought some fun times but a lot of pain. Watching you be miserable and like other people. You know exactly how I feel about you. You know I have feelings for you and it's obvious. This isn't easy but I can't do it anymore. You use me just to help you out with your problems. Then once I help, you barely talk to me. You never want to be happy. You gave up on life and I've tried and tried and tried but you won't let me help. I'm sorry. I can't do this anymore. You have a boyfriend and another dude you like who is so sweet. Maybe [Redacted] can be your new bestfriend since he's the sweetest thing to walk this earth. The fact that once your boyfriend makes an instagram, you have to delete my comments and some of the pictures of us, and the bracelet I got you, hurts. Okay? I've been kicked around too many times by you. Maybe one day we can be friends again, but right now, I can't. You're a great person but you're just in a confused area right now. I've tried helping but you've just used me as your own personal staircase. I can't take it anymore. I have my own problems to worry about without you kicking me around. Other people have noticed and told me you treat me like crap. Like I said, maybe one day we can be friends again but right now.. I just can't. I'm sorry. This isn't easy for me to say at all. Just so you know, it's killing me to say this.. But I have to. I'm sorry.

So, Flood. Some said tell her how I feel, some said end it. I did both.

I'm literally shaking right now.. How do I cope with this?


Nothing to do now but walk forward :)

Put this behind you and hope for the best.

  • 01.02.2013 5:01 PM PDT

:)

Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: ravingmasher626
You did the right thing man, she should know how awful she's made you feel.

I wish I had the balls to tell the person I liked how I feel, but I don't. You've been a true man today mate.
In all honesty, that actually made me smile. Thanks dude. That means a lot that I actually did something right.


And keep on smiling, it's what you deserve. Life should not be wasted by being sad and if people make you sad, they shouldn't be in your life.

  • 01.02.2013 5:02 PM PDT

Sounds like you were being whipped by this -blam!- OP. Well done for becoming the slave master.

  • 01.02.2013 5:02 PM PDT

Posted by: JustxHavexFun
Just because you don't believe in God doesn't mean you're an atheist.

Posted by: Decieved Soul
I've tried helping but you've just used me as your own personal staircase.


what does this mean?

  • 01.02.2013 5:02 PM PDT


Posted by: Member128
Posted by: Decieved Soul
I've tried helping but you've just used me as your own personal staircase.


what does this mean?
Walk up and down me as she pleases

  • 01.02.2013 5:03 PM PDT


Posted by: ImOnTheDole
Am I the only one expecting her to reply with "TL;DR"?


that...would be awesome

  • 01.02.2013 5:03 PM PDT

Grow a pair?

  • 01.02.2013 5:03 PM PDT

A cornered fox is more dangerous than a jackal.

And from FOX, two phantoms were born.

OP has ascended.

  • 01.02.2013 5:04 PM PDT


Posted by: ravingmasher626
Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: ravingmasher626
You did the right thing man, she should know how awful she's made you feel.

I wish I had the balls to tell the person I liked how I feel, but I don't. You've been a true man today mate.
In all honesty, that actually made me smile. Thanks dude. That means a lot that I actually did something right.


And keep on smiling, it's what you deserve. Life should not be wasted by being sad and if people make you sad, they shouldn't be in your life.
I'm not smiling though. I'm upset cause all of the memories are flashing back. It's just bittersweet right now. And I know, I need to keep on going. It gets better. Thanks man

  • 01.02.2013 5:04 PM PDT