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Subject: Just ended my friendship with my bestfriend

Go play Dark Souls, or Mega Man X or Halo 2 Campaign on Legendary, that may help.

  • 01.02.2013 5:05 PM PDT

Posted by: JustxHavexFun
Just because you don't believe in God doesn't mean you're an atheist.

Posted by: Decieved Soul
Posted by: Member128
Posted by: Decieved Soul
I've tried helping but you've just used me as your own personal staircase.

what does this mean?
Walk up and down me as she pleases

that is nice for you

  • 01.02.2013 5:05 PM PDT


Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: ravingmasher626
You did the right thing man, she should know how awful she's made you feel.

I wish I had the balls to tell the person I liked how I feel, but I don't. You've been a true man today mate.
In all honesty, that actually made me smile. Thanks dude. That means a lot that I actually did something right.
N1GGA COPIED MY AVATAR >:(

  • 01.02.2013 5:05 PM PDT

Just hang in there. It won't be easy for a while but you'll make it if you hang in there.

  • 01.02.2013 5:05 PM PDT


Posted by: linos100
Go play Dark Souls, or Mega Man X or Halo 2 Campaign on Legendary, that may help.
I don't have my xbox at the moment All I have is Minecraft on my computer and I don't know of any good servers

  • 01.02.2013 5:05 PM PDT

Strange to see someone accuse another member of higher rank with coppyng an avatar

[Edited on 01.02.2013 5:07 PM PST]

  • 01.02.2013 5:06 PM PDT

"What are we holding on to, Sam?"
"That there's some good in this world, and it's worth fighting for."


Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: swvjdirector
How do you cope? Just focus on other stuff, I guess.
I'm trying.


Try something that requires a ton of mental focus. I play chess competitively, so I'm almost always playing it online. It takes so much focus I don't have room for anything. Try chess, StarCraft, whatever. Just something that's demanding.

  • 01.02.2013 5:06 PM PDT

I make a living of selling my body, and I don't mean sex.

Bravo.

  • 01.02.2013 5:06 PM PDT


Posted by: SILO 170
Just hang in there. It won't be easy for a while but you'll make it if you hang in there.
Thanks man. I'm glad to see some people think I actually did the right thing. I feel like I messed up in a sense... But she's been putting me down and I've been chasing her for so long.

  • 01.02.2013 5:06 PM PDT

:)

Posted by: Decieved Soul
I'm not smiling though. I'm upset cause all of the memories are flashing back. It's just bittersweet right now. And I know, I need to keep on going. It gets better. Thanks man


They will and it's perfectly normal. But those are memories of who your friend was, not who your friend is now. Remember the friendship you used to have and cherish those memories, and now continue on with your life.

I know I'm a stranger, but you can talk to me anytime man.

  • 01.02.2013 5:07 PM PDT
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So she treats you like crap yet you apologize about what you're saying a million times and say i hope we can be friends later.
I thing you should have been more blunt and told her to F off. Stand up for yourself more. Still though, well done, don't take any crap OP. I applaud you.

  • 01.02.2013 5:07 PM PDT

Cope? Well, it's not going to be easy. I mean, you had feelings for her. It was for the best though. Sometimes doing the right thing is not necessarily the easy thing.

  • 01.02.2013 5:08 PM PDT

Studies show that men think about sex every 7 seconds. I do my best to eat hotdogs in under 6, just so things don't get weird.

Please allow me to introduce Myself
I'm a man of wealth and taste
I've been around for a long, long year
Stole many a man's soul and faith

You did the right thing. It hurts now, I know, but you will be in a better way soon. That took guts, and you did it.

  • 01.02.2013 5:08 PM PDT

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Posted by: HipiO7
This man, this man right here put it so eloquently that I actually cancelled my own 2000+ word long post.
/slow clap for respect


:)
The person who said participating is important, not winning, obviously never won anything.

Why are you sorry? Stop apologizing and man up.

If she treated you like -blam!- for so long and put you into this position, she is the one that should be saying sorry. You shouldnt have put up with something like that but you having feelings for her I can understand your position.

I guess youre just too good of a guy. You did right, Soul.

  • 01.02.2013 5:09 PM PDT

Thesaurus.com

In a few weeks, you'll be over it and happier because you did it. It can be hard to move on, but judging from your post, it was right to move on.

  • 01.02.2013 5:09 PM PDT
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The Searcher sucks. Nobody date him.


Posted by: ImOnTheDole
Am I the only one expecting her to reply with "TL;DR"?

One of those rare moments when something I read on the internet actually makes me laugh out loud.

  • 01.02.2013 5:09 PM PDT


Posted by: bryo
So she treats you like crap yet you apologize about what you're saying a million times and say i hope we can be friends later.
I thing you should have been more blunt and told her to F off. Stand up for yourself more. Still though, well done, don't take any crap OP. I applaud you.


I have been in a milder version of OP's situation before. One of my really good friends is a girl and for a brief while she wasn't talking to me, but personally, the fact that she is a girl drove me to pursue and try to renew the friendship, because on some level being that close to a girl was too much to lose for me.

  • 01.02.2013 5:10 PM PDT

Currently studying Computer Science & Software engineering. Hope to work on mobile devices of the future! When a certain game's credits roll, look out for my name! ;)

You will -blam!- bricks when you see what game it is! =)

Are you male or female?

Regardless, I wish you strength. You'll get through it.

  • 01.02.2013 5:10 PM PDT

It was a long message, kinda repetitive but I understand the point. I hope you feel better in the long run OP, but let me simply say that in the future you will need to analyze your relationships a lot sooner, and start finding out which ones are worth it and which ones aren't. Preferably before things progress to this stage.

Never make a bad investment. The risks must outweigh the uncertainty, as it were.

  • 01.02.2013 5:10 PM PDT

If you can read this, that means I'm not a Shaolin monk...

yet.

listen mate you need to man up and also watch some of that misfits and then itll all be alrigt

  • 01.02.2013 5:10 PM PDT

:)

Posted by: bryo
So she treats you like crap yet you apologize about what you're saying a million times and say i hope we can be friends later.
I thing you should have been more blunt and told her to F off. Stand up for yourself more. Still though, well done, don't take any crap OP. I applaud you.


It's not that simple, she was his best friend. That word is never used lightly. He also liked her, this is someone he deeply cares about. I would like to see you do the same thing in his position (obviously I don't know if you would, but I'm just saying). It was a hard but right thing to do.

Edit: Woops I forgot to mention what I was ranting about: Being blunt and stuff XD

[Edited on 01.02.2013 5:16 PM PST]

  • 01.02.2013 5:11 PM PDT

She doesn't sound like a "great person" but whatever. It's good you ended it cuz the girl was obviously using you for an attention fix and to make her feel good but you really should have dropped her cold turkey without all the sappy talk. Then have her catch you hanging out with another girl, that would drive her crazy.

  • 01.02.2013 5:12 PM PDT

The Song Of Nephilim

Xenoblade <3


Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: Nephilim713
I remember when I almost lost one of my best friends because she was clearly acting two. I even pointed it out to her, and she eventually understood, though we didnt talk for like 4-5 days =[
She chose her boyfriend over me and then came over 5 days later and said she couldn't stand not talking to me. Well, I cant do it anymore. It hurts so bad. And I'm glad to see it worked out for you man


Well thanks. I was really angry with my friend that day, even sent her a terribly angry email and all. Then she said she was really acting two and didnt mean anything she said at all. Yeah, well we have been talking for too long now. Forum friend, eventually becoming a great best friend.

  • 01.02.2013 5:12 PM PDT

I know it hurts but you did the right thing. Hang out with friends, play video games. You'll forget about her soon enough, I'm sure of it.

  • 01.02.2013 5:13 PM PDT


Posted by: MyNameIsCharlie
You did the right thing. It hurts now, I know, but you will be in a better way soon. That took guts, and you did it.
Thank you. Thank you everybody who says I did the right thing. I thought I was in the wrong but you've convinced me otherwise. Thank you. Everyone

  • 01.02.2013 5:15 PM PDT